What’s your drug of choice?

Are you somebody who likes to smoke a little weed?

Maybe snort a little cocaine?

Maybe do pain killers?

Maybe you don’t like drugs at all.

Alcohol is your drug of choice. Nothing better at the end of the day than sitting around, having a glass of wine, unwinding. Allowing the wine to literally cascade through your body and relax you. Literally shaking off the stress of the day.

Maybe you like tobacco. Nicotine feels real good, makes you feel amped up, powerful.

Maybe you are somebody who likes caffeine. A little jolt of coffee in the morning stimulates your brain and your mind, and gets your day going. There are many drugs that people use throughout the day to make it through the day.

And we’re not even talking about sugar. Sugar is a drug. Feeling down and tired in the middle of the day, and at the end of the day? Grab yourself a candy bar, and watch how Snickers can really satisfy you.

Me? I smoke weed once in a while.

I don’t really drink alcohol.

And I never ever drink caffeine.

To me, the greatest high that I can ever experience, is this:

The high of connecting with another like-minded person.

There is nothing better than texting somebody, and literally knowing that you are texting somebody who is deeply engaged, equally curious, and equally open to receiving the energy that you are putting out.

Talking on the phone and having a conversation, that lasts for hours and hours, but yet feels like it has only been five minutes. It’s an amazing feeling, to connect with somebody on a level like that, and it’s my greatest drug of them all. It’s the human connection drug.

To me, there is nothing better. Nothing better than getting on the phone and getting lost in another person. Literally listening to everything they say, captivated by what they say, interested in what they say, and connecting to who they are as a person.

It’s one of my favorite things to do. To be able to talk to a total stranger, and literally have time fly by like it’s standing still.

Taking in every word, every story, every emotion, and literally sharing the true authentic, vulnerable version of who I am. The only version of me, who really wants to show up in the world on a daily basis.

When I connect like that, it absolutely blows me away.

Because magic is still alive in life. It’s amazing how you can have two total strangers living a parallel universe, literally.

Going through your day as they go through their day.

Reading, research, feeling, experiencing, and at the same time, you are doing that exact same thing. And then all of a sudden, there is this event that brings the two of you together.

Doesn’t matter what it is. Could have been a dating app, or it could have been a chance encounter.

It doesn’t really matter how it happens, the universe is literally telling you, hey, I’m going to put you in front of the person you are really supposed to connect with on a deep level.

So, it’s up to you to figure out what to do with next. It’s up to you to figure out exactly what you need to do next, so you can literally go on a journey, that is one of the greatest journeys ever.

The human connection, the ultimate high.

You know you are on a really good human high when you hang up the phone at night to go to bed, and you wake up in the morning, and you are still on that journey, even though the person may or may not be there next to you.

You are energetically still connected to them. Energetically still feeling, energetically still processing all the things you shared the night before. That is the true definition of a human high.

That’s the true definition of two people really letting go: recognizing that they’ve met somebody unique.

Recognizing that they’ve met somebody different, and literally buckling in for a magical journey of discovery.

So sign me up for a human high, because that’s why I am here. To experience that amazing feeling.