It’s your life, stop serving others. If you’re doing things for other people and it no longer brings you joy in your life, then there’s only one word of advice today: stop doing it.

You’ve only got one life to live. We have no idea where our souls go. We have no idea where our souls have been. There are many theories but until we actually pass over to the next realm, for the next lifetime, we don’t really know. And the fact is we probably won’t have any conscious memories of this lifetime.

So stop doing things for others if it doesn’t bring you joy.

If it doesn’t bring you joy to your heart and joy to your soul, then stop serving others.

Get selfish. Because taking care of yourself is a very healthy thing to do.

You’re not living your life for other people. You’re not other people’s bank.

You’re not other people’s emotional tampon.

You’re not other people’s punching bag.

You’re a beautiful, incredible soul.

Your light is a gift that was given to use in you. You can live it, you can enjoy it, you can embrace it, and you can play in it.

If you’re not happy and not fulfilled by doing things for other people and it doesn’t bring you joy, then stop doing it out of the sense of obligation.

The person you feel obligated to… they will find their way again. You’ve probably enabled them. You probably have helped them out so much so many times that you probably have enabled them. So they need to figure their own stuff out. And once you cut the source off you, they’re able to figure their own stuff out because you’re not doing them any justice at all by helping them consistently and enabling them to not go forward in their life.

Generosity is a beautiful thing, but if it doesn’t bring you joy anymore, stop doing it. You know the person’s going to be fine. They’ll figure it out.

Life is all about standing in your sacred self and being able to really say the magical word.

“No.”

Stand in it. Stand your ground. And remember, if something doesn’t bring you joy, don’t do it.Whether it’s helping a brother out with money.

Whether it’s helping your daughter out way past the point that you should have.

Whether it’s having a friendship that no longer really serves you, or no longer benefits you. So many different things that you can stand for when you stand for yourself.

In life, only do what brings you joy.