Love is… fill in the blank.

Love is appreciation.

Love is bringing out the best in one another.

But you want to know what falling in love is really all about? And why you can NEVER fall in love until you do this one thing?

Love is surrendering.

Surrendering when you fight.

Surrendering when you talk.

Surrendering of your ego.

It is all about surrendering.

If you don’t surrender, you won’t love.

If you want love and you can’t surrender, then your are just going to have turmoil and a constant relationship that is based on not having your needs, wants and desires met.

So if you truly want to love, then you truly need to surrender.

Surrender your ego, surrender being right.

Surrender the stories you have had about other relationships in the past.

For every relationship you have ever had in the past, that relationship will haunt you in the future, if you keep allowing it, and you keep surrendering back to it.

When you argue with somebody in, well, real time, you have got to look to your past to see where you have been triggered, and see where you need to surrender to the past and leave it behind, where it belongs: in the past.

Our past stories will always hurt us in many ways.

So you need to surrender in every way. The only way to ever find love, is to be love, and the only ever way to have love is to show up every day as love.

When you show up as love, love will show back up for you.

When you are wrong, you need to admit it.

And when you are right, you don’t need to prove it.

Surrendering is the most powerful thing you can do. As a matter of fact, it is the most powerful thing anybody can do.

Surrender to life, surrender to love.

That’s how you will fall in love. That’s how you will succeed in love.

Without surrendering, you will never find love.