Hey everyone back from NYC and before we go into today’s subject here are some random highlights.

If you are looking to relax when you are in NYC do not stay at the Hudson Hotel. The rooms are shoebox small, the halls are dark and make you feel like you are staying in a mental facility!

But the worst part is you have to walk through all the drunken people to get to the elevator and your room which leads me to my next highlight. As we were walking through the lobby we had to avoid a guy who thought having a 3 way would be a great idea that night.

No kidding here, my girlfriend and I had to run away from him after he he tried to dance with us in the bar.

Quite a funny scene and we spent the weekend laughing about our new found friend.

Guys when a man and his girl are nice to you that is not an invitation to play in the bedroom.

Some men really need to read this blog more and learn that when a woman is nice it does not mean SEX!!

The rest of the weekend was quite relaxing walking around the city and enjoying the sights and sounds of NYC.

So lets talk about how to really connect with people.

Everyone you talk to – I don’t care if it’s a man, a woman, a child, or a dog – take away three things about them.

If you find out three things about someone, and you have emotionally connected with them and they’ve shared these things with you – the next time you see them, you can say, “so how’s your mom doing in her real estate business?” Or, “hey, look, it’s Fluffy the Golden Retriever! Is he still chewing on his foot?”

Most men are, in my opinion, walking penises. They’re just walking around with their groin leading them, and their penis says, “Oh look, hot woman” and directs their attention there.

So then when they walk over to her, their penis is the one doing the talking: “Um, hi… I’m just killing 30 seconds here because I really want to get your phone number…” And guess what? The hot woman can tell!

But if you go up to her, find three things out about her, and then leave, you can say, “It was so amazing talking to you about Italian roast coffee. See you later, Coffee Girl!”

All of a sudden, the woman is so connected to you – because you’re using your mind, and not your dick.

Men don’t realize that women do want your penis, but they want your mind first. They go for the big head first, and the little head second! And once they get your big head, they’ll adore the little one!