So many guys get suckered into what I call the Instagram whore.
You know the profile well. The profile that always sucks you in time and time again. Because women know that men are just visually Scooby Doo on steroids.
Rook, Raggy, there’s a bikini and then the woman knows that the minute that she puts up a little bikini shot or anything else that the man is going to give her attention.
How many times are you going to fall for those profiles on Tinder, my friend?
I’m going to describe the profile to you, okay?
- No words at all.
- One stupid Snapchat photo with Snapchat ears.
- That’s usually her lead photo.
- Then you click and there’s always a bathing suit shot.
- Some other beauty shots.
- And finally, some other shots that makes her look sexy. Maybe her legs spread a little bit wide and a baseball in front of her or something sexy that she used on a model shoot.
You, in turn, fall for it every single time.
So you — along with the other Scooby Doos — basically go and have a Scooby moment.
You throw her a compliment and you come on to her sexually, or whatever it might be.
Then you think to yourself, I can’t believe she didn’t get back to me!!
Do you want to know why?
Because she’s on Tinder for validation.
Here’s what she’s going through in her life…
First thing: she’s definitely insecure, because if she wasn’t insecure she wouldn’t be putting look at me pictures up all over Tinder. That’s step one.
The second thing is this: she probably broke up with her boyfriend — or is having an argument with him, or maybe she’s just feeling once again insecure — so, she’s needing validation.
She puts herself up on Tinder so Scooby Doos will validate her.
That’s right, that’s what you did. You validated her.
You made her feel better. She’ll never get back to you.
She couldn’t care less about getting back to you. She’s not there to date at all, and you wasted time and you are basically sitting back, waiting for her to get back to you ignoring the girls that actually might want to go out with you until you fall for the next girl that looks like an Instagram model whore.
These are the profiles you need to literally run away from. Whenever somebody’s seeking validation, don’t give them the validation. As a matter of fact, here’s the best response to send to her:
Is Facebook no longer giving you the validation you need?
Hope you’re feeling better about yourself today.
Or you can do this:
Wow, you’ve got one of those seeking validation profiles. Nice to meet you. My name is secure, what’s your name? In a secure, get it? Got it, good.
It’s time you fucked with people, because after all, they’re basically just fucking with you.