How To Deal With The Friend Zone


She just threw you deep into the friend zone.

She sent you a text. It went something like this:

I don’t know what you want, but I am looking for something different right now, and I only see us as friends.

Boom! You were thrown in the friend zone.

How does it feel?

Right now, you just put it out there. You asked her out again. You wanted to get together with her. You wanted to get to know her better, and boom, she friend zoned you.

How does it feel?

Honestly, it shouldn’t feel like anything at all. As a matter of fact, it should feel pretty damn good, and I’m going to explain why.

She threw you in the friend zone. She was honest enough to tell you how she felt. She respected you enough as a man to be honest with you.

She friend zoned you.

It’s an amazing feeling. There is nothing wrong with it. A lot of women will just ignore the text. They’ll vanish. They’ll ghost you.

This woman respected you enough to tell you that she liked you but doesn’t see it becoming anything more than just friends.

You’re in the friend zone. So what do you do?

You accept it with open arms, whole-heartedly. Attraction is not a choice. She’s not feeling it. She’s not feeling the magic. She’s not feeling what she needs to feel in order to carry on with you in a romantic way.

So you need to man up, and you need to embrace that friend zone.Friend zone


Embrace it with an open heart and open mind and say, welcome friend zone.

You need to text her or call her and say, I am here to support you in your quest to meet your man. I would be honored to be your friend. And that’s it.

There is nothing wrong with being friend zoned. It happens every day, to men and women all over the place.

Every day, men are getting friend zoned, but at least you had the opportunity to be around somebody who was honest enough to share with you how they felt.

You need to respect that. Respect being friend zoned.

Respect it because to have her as a friend means that she will see you as somebody who’s amazing.

She’ll see that you took the friend zone. She’ll see that you still support her and that you want to be part of her life, which means that one day down the road, this will all pay off, because we can never have enough amazing people in our life.

One day she may introduce you to somebody who doesn’t throw you in the friend zone because you manned up. You were okay with being friend zoned.

There is nothing wrong with that.

Boom! You were friend zoned.

It’s okay.

Embrace it. Love it. Conquer it. Run with it.

Say to yourself — Boom! I’ve got a new friend.