When it comes to sex, there are a lot of assumptions that are made by both men and women about how the opposite sex (seemingly as a whole) views certain things. Many women, for instance, believe that the minute they pull down their pants that men will want to have sex.

The truth is that not all men are hard-wired like Conan The Barbarian or the GEICO Caveman. Some of us men actually like romance.

So when is the right time to have sex? I think the right time to have sex is when you’re ready to have sex with that man. Not only that, it’s when he’s ready to have sex with you.

I think savoring the moment is what some people don’t realize is what makes you very, very special to a man. I think the more you tease a man, the more the man is going to want you.

I think the more you kiss him or you lead him on, and the more you tell him how much you desire him but you’re not ready, the more interested he’s going to become in you. The longer you can hold out, the better it is.

I’m not saying that if you have sex with a guy on the first date, the relationship isn’t going to work out (because it might work out just fine). I think, however, that the linger effect is something that’s really good to do.

I say wait at least three to five dates before you have sex with a man, because it creates desire. Plus, really, what’s the rush?

If you’re just looking to have sex or a one-night stand, then by all means just go for it. If you’re looking to create a relationship with somebody, though, the memories leading up to sex is what makes the sex so much hotter.

I know when I really like somebody, I don’t want to have sex with them right away. Sex is tough the first four or five times, because you want to really please one another but you don’t know each other’s bodies.

I think the most amazing thing is learning each other’s kiss, and learning how each likes to be held and touched. The art of foreplay — mental and emotional — is what a lot of guys are not used to which a lot of women don’t understand. Don’t worry if this guy is impatient.

If a guy is impatient because you’re not sleeping with him quite yet, guess what type of lover he’s going to end up being? He’s going to end up being an impatient lover who won’t satisfy you at all.

Take your time if you want to take your time. Tease the hell out of him. The more you tease him, the more intrigued he’s ever going to become.

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