Hey ladies,
Happy National Wear Your Pajamas to Work Day!
Did you know that? (I’m going to personally email all my lady friends a reminder next year.) 
Annndd, it’s also Wednesday, which means that it is time for the always-popular Wednesday Podcast.
Last week we talked about The Negotiator vs. Intuition, and many readers expressed their issues with the idea in the comments section.
This week, we go a bit more in depth on the subject, and we also discuss the topics of spontaneity and transition.
Listen up, listen well, ladies:
How did you feel about the podcast today?
What do you think?
This is interesting because I FEEL that my boyfriend of one year doesn’t appreciate me and takes me for granted. I FEEL like he gives me just enough to keep me around but not enough to make me feel truly loved and cherished. I FEEL like we’re not going to make it because I want more than he is willing to give or can give. I FEEL like my boyfriend is settling with me, but afraid to let me go. I’ve felt this for a while now. My head says, he’s a good man, he’s successful, he’s secure, what if I’m making a mistake, what if I’ll regret it later. Thanks for the podcast. Gives me something to think about.
I am still unsure about my inner voice intuition…I think I am scared of getting hurt since it seems to be my latest trend…so I guess that’s why I convince myself not to do some things.
I agree people should trust their feelings, especially when it comes talking about love but some cases. Sometimes feelings might give false directions as a well known french author said the werefore is superior to instinct. Sometimes it is too dangerous to trust only your feelings. So, we should find a balance between our thoughts and feelings. The question is how to set that balance?
Dear David (and Obi),
I am in my pajamas, rocking out to your podcast! This was an exceptional one (though they’re all good!) It’s so important to trust one’s gut and to allow ourselves to feel.
I do Tarot card readings, and I always emphasize to the person that I’m reading for to trust one’s instincts. They’ll never fail you. They literally saved my life once, but that is a long story that I’ll save for another time.
It can be very difficult to suss out worry from true intuition. But it’s a very necessary and powerful tool if one can master this. I am learning to do this myself, and it’s a great way to help me navigate through life. And sometimes, I was taught in the past that my feelings didn’t matter, so sometimes I still grapple with this. But I know that they do. The key is to balance rational thought with trusting our guts and what feels right. Taking more of an organic approach to life, instead of living in just our heads and not our hearts too. I want to be my most authentic, organic self. David, you’re such an inspiration in being a more ‘feeling’ person again. I’d shut a lot of that down because I’d been so hurt. But I reclaim that part of myself, right now! Thanks.
Im still completely unsure about myself at this moment because I feel alot for my boyfriend but he didn’t care about me at all. we were going out for 7 months but he was searching online other women, he just played with my feelings and he doesn’t feel bad because he was honest “telling that he was having some problems and it wasn’t a good moment to have exclusive relationship”
I put all that apart because i was feeling but didn’t work out.
^I would hire Lorena Bobbit Services if I were you
I’m sorry, Honey that he did that. Sending you Love and Hugs! xoxo
You know what makes me totally sick is when these guys on online dating *Tell you* that they have a girlfriend! It’s like, “what the hell is wrong with you?!?!” Or you look up their facebook and it says that they are engaged! It’s like, “ARE YOU FOR REAL?!?!?!” That actually happened to me!
and his myspace had this comment from another girl that said, “Oh now I see…you have a girlfriend” These guys think it’s funny f*cking around! It’s not, f*ckheads!
This one guy I knew used to call everyone a “f*ckhead”! It was hilarious!