My personal trainer and good friend Eddie, is somebody I think is wise beyond his years.  He’s been working in the training business for the last couple of years, and he’s really good at reading people. Whenever we work out, we always get involved in a great conversation. A lot of the conversations revolve around football.  He’s an ex-ball player, and friends with tons of NFL players.  With me being an avid NFL football fan, the conversation always flows.

When we’re not talking football, we talk about human relationships, especially women. In today’s video, we go through external validation.  We were talking about what women do to the outside of their bodies, from plastic surgery to working out, to wearing beautiful things.  Unfortunately, many times, the outside of the body does not match the inside.

We started talking about why women keep dating the same type of men over and over again. We decided it’s because they spend so much time externally validating, and not working internally to get it right. We all do it. We’re all attracted to what we feel most comfortable with.

I know I’ve done it. I’ve dated basically the same person, multiple times. I’ve caught myself doing it a few times. I know my biggest hook or trap is great sex. I love when a woman validates me and tells me how amazing I am in bed, and then we have massive, lovemaking sessions. I always fall into that trap.

But as we age and as we get older, we’ve got to learn what our traps are. We have to learn where our comfort zones are, and we have to really think outside ourselves. So today’s video is interesting because it goes through what we do externally, but what we miss internally. It answers the question on why you keep dating the same type of men over and over again.

Let’s get this right for you right now. Check out today’s video.