So many women end up dating their comfort buddy, and it NEVER ends well for either party. Recently I ran into a friend. I asked her how her dating life was going.

She goes, “It’s good, I met a guy, he’s really nice.”

I said, “I’m so glad you met somebody nice.”

Meanwhile her body language gave me the impression she was as excited as someone waiting in line to get her car washed.

I said, “You’re dating your comfort buddy. You look about as sexually excited as if you were waiting in line at the post office. Your body language is off. Do you really want to date and fu#k your comfort buddy?”

She laughed of course, because deep down she knows I’m right.

How many of you have dated a ‘comfort buddy?’

You meet a guy, he’s pretty awesome, and on paper, he looks absolutely amazing. In fact, he should be somebody that you want to be with. I mean, he’s has everything except you’re just not in to him.

He doesn’t excite you. You don’t feel like he’s the man you want to be with, but you’re so frustrated with dating that you keep dating him. That’s not fair to him. Imagine if you were somebody’s comfort buddy. Imagine if you were somebody’s second choice. We know your first choice is out there, but a lot of times we are so fearful of being alone that we settle for our ‘comfort buddy.’

We’ve all done it. We’ve all settled for somebody that is nice, somebody who we think is great, but is somebody that doesn’t excite us. It’s not fair to them because they are a great person and deserve to be someone’s first choice.

You need to do them justice. You need to free them. You need to free yourself so you’ll be able to attract someone that excites you. It’s about being excited. It’s about meeting somebody that inspires you, somebody you can fall in love with. And yes, you want to be comfortable with somebody, and you do want to meet your best friend, but you also want to have passion and romance.

Check out today’s video. I want you to pass it along to all your friends who are in relationships with comfort buddies. Honestly, I think this will change the way you view dating forever. It’s time to have what you want, instead of settling.