men are dogsI’ve heard it so many times from women…“All men are dogs!”

Well, today I’m going to give you 3 reasons not all men are dogs, and explain why you need to give guys a break. I was talking to a friend of mine at the gym the other day. He was saying to me, “You know it’s funny David. I can’t sleep with a woman until I have an emotional connection with her.”

I laughed, because I’m exactly the same. I can have a naked woman come out the bathroom, look at me, and say, “Give me sex now!” And I’ll look down at my groin and think, “With what?”

Maybe that works with man-boys and barbarians, but not with me or a lot of other great guys I know.

So why aren’t all men dogs?

1. Not All Men Want Sex On Command

There’s a certain type of man out there who’s more emotional about sex. For us to connect sexually with a woman, we need to connect emotionally too. We need to have emotional foreplay during the day. We need to connect mentally with you.

If you don’t connect to us on a deeper level, or give us mental foreplay, we’re going to stand there as flaccid as if we were wearing a rubber band from our groin. This friend of mine was telling me how it took 3 months before he could sleep with his girlfriend because they weren’t connecting properly yet.

2. It’s A Numbers Game

My friend told me about how he was standing up in front of a group of women once, trying to help them understand men, and one shouted out, “None of the men I’ve ever dated are emotional like that. They all want sex whether I’ve known them minutes or months!”

Well, how many men have you dated?

Maybe the men you’ve dated are all like that. But if you date 100 men, I guarantee you’ll find way more than you’d expect who are emotional. It’s all about the percentages. There’s a phrase that goes, “When a man becomes a man, he understands how to relate to himself.”

I’ve always said, “When a man becomes a man, he understands how to relate to women.”

He also understands the mental-emotional connection needed to connect to a woman. He understands the depth of who a woman is and what she’s all about.

Not all men are boys. Boys still go out trying to get laid every night of the week. And some women are like that too, don’t get me wrong. I’ve been with women who were sexually insane. They just want to be banged. They just want to be fucked.

It does nothing for me. I get why you feel like this. A lot of women have gone through life getting screwed by men. Men can’t wait to get inside them.

3.You Need To Trust

You have to give these men a chance. Not all men just want to get in and get out. Some want to cherish your body. Some want to love you more than anything in the world. I’m proud of being a man. I’m proud of how I’m wired sexually. I’m proud I don’t just start having sex with a woman because she’s walked out my bathroom naked begging for it. SO… the next time you’re talking to your girlfriends and they’re telling you what dogs men are, tell them they’re wrong.

Show them this blog and let them know there are good men out there. It’s just a matter of finding them.

Yes, you’ll kiss some frogs along the way but that’s the beauty of life and love. Go find that amazing man. Go find that sensitive man, and don’t allow some boy to just screw you like you’re a monkey in the zoo!