Biting lipA while back I read a book called, “Radical Honesty: How To Transform Your Life By Telling The Truth.”

It’s a great book and you should look it up sometime. The book is mainly about the benefits of being 100% upfront and honest with your man. One of the sections which really stood out to me was on page 173 I think, where it talks about the importance of being completely honest with your lover when it comes to sex. I mean 100% open, honest, and down the line about sex.

One of the things it talks about is to talk to your partner about the things you’ve done with other people. I’m not sure that is for everyone, in fact I know a ton of guys who would rather stick pins in their eyes, than listen to what their girlfriend had done in bed with other men.

Something else it talks about is the power of mutual masturbation. For the more innocent among you it’s where both partners masturbate in front of each other as a form of foreplay. It’s a fantastic way to show your man exactly how you like to be pleasured, so he knows how to touch you. It gives you the chance to tell him things about your body he’d probably never find out on his own.

There’s nothing sexier than masturbating with your man, and telling him all your dirty thoughts and fantasies. It drives most men crazy with desire, and when they start masturbating with you, it gives you an idea of how they want you to pleasure them. And you know what, it’s just good, sexy fun.

Sometimes you don’t necessarily feel like getting all hot and sweaty you know? Maybe you’re not in the mood for a full-on sex session, and you just want to get off quickly. I know sometimes I just want a quick fix.

It’s a great way to spice up your sex life without getting too adventurous. One of the secrets to keeping a relationship fresh is to keep the sex interesting. Phone sex is another idea as long as you don’t actually try to screw the phone of course! And unless you were actually apart from your boyfriend it would be a bit weird.

Where you can use your phone to keep things exciting is to sext your man throughout the day. Tell him how you can’t wait to show off in front of him. Describe how you’re going to touch yourself, and how you want him to watch you. Maybe tease him a little by saying your touching yourself while you’re talking to him.

I guarantee you it will drive him absolutely insane with desire. He won’t be able to keep his hands off you when he gets through the door in the evening. So there you have it ladies. If you haven’t yet tried mutual masturbation with your man, why not slip it on your menu tonight?