Why You Should Always Be Dating

Women's Advice Dating Tips, Uncategorized

By David Wygant November 24, 2013 183 Shares

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dating It’s nearly the start of a new week, so how about a little motivation for this Sunday afternoon?

I have a question for you. How many times have you said to yourself, “I really shouldn’t be dating right now?”
How many times have you told people, “I’m out of the dating game at the moment. I want some time out?”

Why is it you said those things? Did you really want time out from dating, or was it something else?

In my experience, one of the main reasons you’ve said this kind of thing is because you’re scared of opening up. You’re fearful of exposing yourself, and you can’t stand the thought of risking some upset.

In my mind, you should always be dating. Or at least, you should always be meeting people. Sure, if you’re just out of a relationship you’re probably not going to want to jump into bed with someone else, but it doesn’t mean you should stop meeting guys. There’s no reason you shouldn’t put yourself out there and have some fun.

I want you to have the mindset that no matter what happens; you’re always open to meeting new people. I want you to put yourself out there 100% every single day. You never know when you’re going to meet the man of your dreams.

You see, whenever you say to yourself, “I shouldn’t be dating right now. I don’t want to meet any guys,” you close yourself down. You shut off completely based on past experiences, fears, and let downs. When you shut down like this what tends to happens?

You shut down emotionally. When you shut down emotionally, you’re allowing your past to control exactly who you are. When your past controls who you are, there’s no way in the world your future is going to be any different. When you’re so shut off, you don’t allow yourself to communicate openly. Even if a guy genuinely wants to talk to you and get to know you, you block him out. How do you know he wasn’t the guy you’re supposed to be with forever?

So the message here is simple…

Whatever happened to you in the past, whatever bad relationship experience you’ve had, don’t let it stop you meeting people. Sure, if you don’t want to go out with the mindset “I’m going to meet a man to date,” that’s fine, but don’t be afraid to let people in. You never know who you’re going to meet!

Be open, be positive, be beautiful, and have a great week!

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About David

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I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Lucy

Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

Thank you, David. I really enjoy reading your blog. Currently I feel unready to date. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. I still have feelings for him so I find it hard to think about even flirting with other men. He wants to keep seeing me as a platonic friend and he still contacts me. He was emotionally unavailable in our relationship. Now suddenly he's talking to me and sharing his feelings. A week after breaking up with him, two men asked me out. I went on two dates with one but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex the whole time. I assumed that therefore I must not be ready to date. Try as I might, I could not get myself to feel a spark with this other man even though we had things in common. I had to tell him that I just wanted to be friends because I didn't feel over my ex yet. But I'm scared. I get told the same thing by men. When they break up with me, they tell me I'm beautiful and lovely and the type of girl they would want to marry but that they don't feel it with me. I'm scared of dating another man, feel like I'm a passing-time candidate and then being dropped. What do I do? - Lucy

DaZhane

Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

:) Well, hi Lucy, I'm a woman and maybe I can help. I always go by the model that "I WILL LET NO ONE LIVE IN MY HEART RENT FREE". Your boyfriend broke up with you but he still comes around because you are giving him the emotional fulfillment you gave him when you were in the relationship with him (AND HE NEVER GAVE IT BACK IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN) so of course, it's now much more harder for you to be or see a guy. You're emotionally unavailable to new men due to investing it all now in your ex boyfriend who has never given you this emotional fulfillment-which mean "caring affection". For one, you're hurting yourself by giving him this without being in a relationship with him. You're rewarding his bad behavior. (What do I mean by this-Ok, it's human nature for everyone, all men to appreciate what they work HARD for-what do I mean by work HARD for, I mean they do what they say they will do, either it's calling, texting, or planning dates and sticking through with it-that's the hard work I speak of and for doing so they reap the benefits of your "caring affection"-however way you choose to give it. Caring affection is your love, concern, time, body and heart. So, when you give all this free these they don't appreciate it. It has no value. You should have cut all emotional ties with him because he gave that up when he broke up with you. His loss. Sweetheart, (No matter how much this hurts, I know it does, I'm sorry it does) but he's not giving you anything in return. Just think about it. He comes around, he takes from you and you get NOTHING in return but more heartache and frustration because you guys are not in a relationship anymore. And for second, (You are very attractive you're getting dates already, you go girl!!!!!!) but you're not open to them because you're emotionally invested in a man who is taking and not giving you anything in return. So, by doing that, you are blocking your future with a great guy. That PERFECT GUY FOR YOU. THE ONE. It's all how you choose to live your life. You are a woman and no guy should take from you what they don't deserve. So, if your boyfriend still wants something from you now. He should invest in it with a relationship-starting with HARD work and that goes for all men. That's how I would handle that situation because it shows I have respect for myself and I KNOW I DESERVE THE BEST, YOU DO TOO :) I hope I gave some clarity for you.

DaZhane

Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

For your fear, I can help that, when you hold back your caring affection (All of them) until they do as they say they will. That will show if he is a SERIOUS MAN who WANTS TO BE WITH YOU- A SERIOUS MAN WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. He will do all the things he needs to by doing what he says he will do. That's how you tell if a man is serious or not and his actions towards you telling him want you need in a relationship. He will do two things respect it and work HARD to please and make you happy or not respect it because he doesn't care. This show what kind of man he is, so DON'T BE AFRAID. And even when we are in a great relationship, we will get hurt (but a serious men will not jeopardize his relationship with distrust:). This is a part of life but remember we ourselves can be difficult to deal with sometimes. No man deserves to have to deal with our past BULLSHIT so we should always take care of our hearts so when the right man comes along, He will appreciate it even more :)

Lucy

Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

Thanks sweetie. I thought it was all about me being emotionally unavailable in relationships, and that being the reason why I've never had the relationship I feel like I deserve. Now I think it's a problem that I can't pick the right men, and filter out the hopeless candidates sooner. I'm definitely going to keep an eye on this blog. As for the ex boyfriend, I know how it might look but I've realised I can do better than him and I don't want him back. I'm giving serious thought to what you said.

DaZhane

Wednesday, December 11th, 2013

I am more that happy to help because if women knew just how simple it was. They would know there is nothing to fear and everything to gain. Just by letting them know nothing is free in love. LOVE IS PRICELESS AND ONLY EQUAL LOVE CAN PAY THE PRICE. There's nothing more I can say. You now see why you are emotionally unavailable and why man act this way now. You got EVERYTHING TO GAIN AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY IT!!!!!!!!!!! There is the perfect person for everyone out there and you deserve to have him. EMOTIONAL AVAILABLE. Anymore questions and I'm more than willing to HELP. Enjoy Life, BE BEAUTIFUL :)

Lucy

Thursday, December 12th, 2013

Okay so now my ex is telling me that he wants me back and that he misses me etc. Gah! He wants to start dating again. I told him no sex and I decide the terms if that is to happen but yeah he is really beginning to annoy me right now.

DaZhane

Friday, December 13th, 2013

Hmm, let's see. I told you if you know the way they are and act. YOU ALWAYS WIN!!!!!!!!! Now, you got your ex flocking you. You've taken back the power. Now, what you do is up to you because YOU ARE A GROWN ASS WOMEN AND YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER. If you want to entertain him. That's your business and your time. The REAL QUESTION IS, IS HE WORTH YOUR TIME? Ask yourself these questions is he going to give you the things you need? Emotionally? Does he satisfy you physically? Will he take care of your heart or will there be another man who will do it better because there always is another man that does ;) Will he give you what he didn't before in the first relationship? Only you you know the answer because you have been with him. These are questions to ask yourself. Here is what I would do, I would let him know how he hurt me, including being completely emotionally unavailable. I will tell him what I need in the relationship. This goes for all men. There always need to be honesty. If I was you I wouldn't give your ex all your time, hang out with other men. Enjoy yourself, live life. If your ex really just can't be without you. He will do everything in his power to make you his. HERE IS A ANOTHER FACTOR, WHEN YOU HANG OUT WITH THESE MEN OR YOUR EX. DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF IN THEIR COMPANY? DO YOU FEEL HAPPY? DO YOU FEEL SEXY? HOW DO THEY MAKE YOU FEEL IN THEIR COMPANY? That will tell if you should go farther with a new man or your ex since you have already been with your ex. The answer to these questions will let you know if you should give him another shot or any other man. REMEMBER: YOU HAVE THE POWER AND NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL UNWORTHY. This is how it should be Baby girl. Men flocking you. But it's all your chose to let them have your *PRECIOUS CARING AFFECTION* Enjoy life, stay beautiful. :)

DaZhane

Friday, December 13th, 2013

Anymore questions I'm always here :)

Yureon

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

God is this what these women are listening too on this side of the forum...that kind of advice is what is giving all these women the entitlement princess syndrome complexes. Notice how not one thing about compromise was mentioned, it's all about manipulation, power and controlling the man, Hope no one is stupid enough to play into that from you. "I DESERVE THE BEST" I HAVE ALL THE POWER" "WHAT CAN HE DO FOR ME". That is all this is rife with. "This is how it should be Baby girl. Men flocking you." Yes and God help you should that anomaly changes... Imagine if women started flocking to men, you would kill yourself from actually having to do the approaching. "LOVE IS PRICELESS AND ONLY EQUAL LOVE CAN PAY THE PRICE." WTF? Seriously, you need to think and read what you write.

DaZhane

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

I don't like to call people idiots. FUCK IT. I DO. You are an IDIOT. People like you MAKE ME SO UPSET. SWEETHEART LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. Obviously, you didn't hear the words I wrote. Let me try to BREAK IT DOWN YOU IDIOT. I never said what "WHAT CAN HE DO FOR ME" I never said that so reread what I said. Too many women give a guy all the perks of a relationship before he evens give any at all. That's why I said (AND I STAND BY WHAT I SAID) before you go and give him all the things, the perks of a relationship. LOOK AT HIS ACTIONS. Does he do the things he says he's going to do, he text, call, or make plans and stick to them. When I said that-What I meant IDIOT is that just like him you have to judge his actions not his words because a man also judges a woman's action before he decides she is deserving of his time and efforts. Women should the same thing. SO MOTHERFUCKER, IT IS ABOUT COMPROMISE. ALL OF THE THINGS I SAID IS ABOUT COMPROMISE. ALL I'M SAYING IS BEFORE YOU GET EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED IN A MAN. IT'S WISE TO KNOW JUST HOW SERIOUS HE IS TO AVOID GETTING HURT IN THE FUTURE because you thought he was serious and he wasn't and you put too much energy into it. You need to reread what I said. Really. I'M NOT AGAINST MEN. I'M ALL FOR THEM. So, when I say women have all the power. She has all the power over HER OWN ACTIONS. That's what I said. She can choose to do whatever she wants. She has choices over what she does whether it's good or bad. I just showed the most important one to avoid a lot of heartache. The things I say MAKES PERFECT SENSE. I NEVER said anything about "manipulation, power and controlling the man," in your own words. I talked about the choices you make and have to make. When I said "I DESERVE THE BEST" I MEANT IT. I DO. I'M NOT TAKING BACK ANYTHING I SAID AND DON'T CALL HER STUPID FOR LISTENING AND CARING ABOUT HERSELF. She deserves the best, a man that will be honest, take care of her heart, and willing to COMPROMISE as do I. So, when I say a man does HARD work, here's the perfect example: A man that got up early to go to work, worked all day, dealt with all the demands and demanding aspects of his job including people he comes across with (nice or nasty), and everything in between his daily schedule including his personal demands he has to accomplish that day (Whether it's car issues, bills, or not), comes home tired and exhausted from work, cooks for himself, probably half conscious with a back and headache and still remembers to call me. That's HARD WORK. He still remembered and did what he said he would. I RESPECT it. When it comes to catering and compromising to a man's needs. All men are different so I could not speak on that and I mentioned that, but you're not listening. REMINDER NOTE: If a GREAT woman is comfortable within her relationship, she is more than willing to compromise. When I said women always won when she knows how men are and act. I meant that too. I meant EVERYTHING. She wins because even if a man doesn't want to be in a relationship with her. She's fine, she respected herself and put her best foot forward and she didn't get hurt because he wasn't serious in getting in a relationship with her. Why be hurt? And if she did get the relationship. That's a Double Win: A man that respect her because she respect herself and sees her compromising with him and appreciate it. You, on the other hand don't get the definition of love. YOU CAN'T COMPROMISE LOVE FOR NOTHING. “LOVE IS PRICELESS AND ONLY EQUAL LOVE CAN PAY THE PRICE.” Free love is not compromising (which is giving back what you take out). It's called being selfish. Please don't contradict yourself, it's embarrassing. You can't come on here and start being fucking disrespectful and not know what you're talking about for example you're first sentence is all the way FUCKED UP. You disrespected me and all the women wanting to be happy by changing their wrong behaviors, mannerisms and outlooks to understand men and have happy, equal-loving, healthy relationships with them. THE FACT THEY (WE) ARE ON HERE IS THE COMPLETE COMPROMISE. We're taking effect and time to learn about men if we didn't want to compromise we wouldn't be here. IT SHOWS IN OUR ACTIONS, BEING HERE. You should be A-GODDAMN shame of yourself for putting us down and respecting ourselves. As for when I said, This is how it should be Baby girl. Men flocking you. I meant that too. Men should be wanting to meet us because WE ARE AMAZINGLY HAPPY COMPLETE women inside that any guy should get to know because WE ARE COMPLETE ALL ON OUR OWN. WE'RE NOT NEEDY FOR VALIDATION AND APPROVAL. That's what I meant. It's funny that you skipped over other parts like me saying "This is a part of life but remember we ourselves can be difficult to deal with sometimes. No man deserves to have to deal with our past BULLSHIT so we should always take care of our hearts so when the right man comes along, He will appreciate it even more " This sounds like compromising . You forgot that part. ASSHOLE. And another thing, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING ON HERE? You got NO PLACE TO BE DISRESPECTFUL SO GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE WITH THAT BULLSHIT......BUT I really do LOVE debates THOUGH SO FEEL FREE TO GIVE ME ANOTHER :)

Yureon

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

LOL name calling are we? Protip: if you are going to debate name calling shows weakness in argument, especially writing in caps... Self entitled women like you need a reality check. Seriously I am not going to read that wall of text rife with insults and entitlements. She deserves the best? You don't even know her (you heard one side of the story and regard it as the gospel)... I bet if I said I deserved the best you would be yet again steadfast to call me an Asshole. Nice double standard. You just said you never said "WHAT CAN HE DO FOR ME?" Here is where i get you...ready? " Ask yourself these questions is he going to give you the things you need? Emotionally? Does he satisfy you physically? Will he take care of your heart or will there be another man who will do it better because there always is another man that does " Your own words...see when you rant on like that it is only a matter of time before you put your own foot in your mouth. I find it cute that you go into this name calling tirade knowing very well if it were in person you would be more respectful in fear of being savagely beaten. And no apparently you aren't ok with approaching after reinforcing "this is the way it should be baby girl". Again you are at a loss. LOL you don't sound like an amazing happy women, especially after what you just wrote, so I and I am sure many others would do well to avoid your profanity. You contradicted yourself with your free love is priceless comment. NOT me, don't try to flip this, as you women tend to do when you reach an impasse, I hope you are better than that, but maybe a few more insults will make it seem more appropriate. I see you for what you are, a feminist who coddles women when they have difficulties and assault men...for having a different point of view. YEah I did miss that part...maybe it was because after reading line after line about how entitled you women are I got the hint. Since I can't directly deal with you, I'll find another woman to discipline. Good day.

DaZhane

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

......And LAST REMINDER NOTE: I NEVER mentioned anything about approaching men. I talked about choices-meaning you have the choice(POWER) to do as you please. Whether bad or good, so for your fucking information I HAVE APPROACHED MEN and nothing is wrong with that and I'm completely happy with them flocking too. Either way is 100% fine with me. You fucking IDIOT. Hopefully, what I said now and above clarified IT ALL FOR YOU.

Yureon

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

You need to accept the fact that you have an entitlement complex and learn from it... but keep thinking you deserve the best, and still be in 2014 and beyond wondering...later I am done with you, it was way to easy manipulating your emotions, I could sense the anger through the screen, hahahaha. When women drop attitudes like yours then we will get somewhere. I have been treated like shit from you women, not matter what I do it's never good enough, again entitlements, you always demand something better, don't get angry at me for standing up for myself and going to war with you women and winning.

Yureon

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

Oh but you did LOL argument null and void hahahahah you are so angry. I wonder how old you are if you are above the age of thirty then....LMAO.

DaZhane

Sunday, December 22nd, 2013

YOU ARE A MAN and would want to put your hands on a woman. God bless you. You don't know me. Or who I am. First of all, you're still putting words in my mouth. I NEVER SAID "WHAT A MAN CAN DO FOR YOU" I STILL NEVER SAID THOSE WORDS. SO, NO YOU DIDN'T GET ME.....ready? You talk about my weakness with profanity but you want to beat me up. WOOW!!!!!!!! Do you want to beat me? You talk about you and many others avoid my profanity-(You use LOL's and LMAO)-WHO ARE THESE MANY OTHERS? You're 16 personalities. Women agree with me not you, sweetheart. Only a weak man would savagely beat and discipline a woman. A real man wouldn't do that and my argument was strong because now you got so angry. You want to beat me!!!!!!!!!! I WONDER HOW YOU WOULD BEAT ME AND DISCIPLINE And if you listened to my comment I said love is not free. ("YOU CAN’T COMPROMISE LOVE FOR NOTHING.") That's what I said. You're not listening. I never contradicted myself yet again. Something is wrong with you. You need help coming on these sites putting down women. I did answer you correctly but you're not listening and I don't have to insult you to get my point across. AND BY THE WAY, I'M NOT AFRAID OF YOU. THREATEN ME ALL YOU WANT. I'M NOT AFRAID OF YOU DARLING and thanks for calling me cute. (No smiley face for me) I prefer gorgeous though. When I said that's the way it should be Baby girl , I meant it. And said I have approached men. Here is what I said either way between men approaching me or me approaching them is 100% fine with me. Read the last reminder. I also said this ("You need to reread what I said. Really. I’M NOT AGAINST MEN. I’M ALL FOR THEM.") I also said this ("So, when I say a man does HARD work, here’s the perfect example: A man that got up early to go to work, worked all day, dealt with all the demands and demanding aspects of his job including people he comes across with (nice or nasty), and everything in between his daily schedule including his personal demands he has to accomplish that day (Whether it’s car issues, bills, or not), comes home tired and exhausted from work, cooks for himself, probably half conscious with a back and headache and still remembers to call me. That’s HARD WORK. He still remembered and did what he said he would. I RESPECT it. When it comes to catering and compromising to a man’s needs. All men are different so I could not speak on that and I mentioned that, but you’re not listening. REMINDER NOTE: If a GREAT woman is comfortable within her relationship, she is more than willing to compromise. When I said women always won when she knows how men are and act. I meant that too. I meant EVERYTHING. She wins because even if a man doesn’t want to be in a relationship with her. She’s fine, she respected herself and put her best foot forward and she didn’t get hurt because he wasn’t serious in getting in a relationship with her. Why be hurt? And if she did get the relationship. That’s a Double Win: A man that respect her because she respect herself and sees her compromising with him and appreciate it.") The very fact that you are negative to my advice is contradicting. This site is for women who want to understand men more. You're throwing me being on your side trying to understand you. You have taken things to a WHOLE new level. You don't want to think, ME as a woman, actually care about you, as man, so you try to make me feel bad and put me down. That's sad to me but I STAND BEHIND EVERYTHING I HAVE SAID. This is no name calling, I'm giving you a label you're a women hater. I am sorry about one thing though, I'm sorry whoever hurt you this bad. It's sad and you didn't deserve it either. See, no need for double standard. I do it for men too. You don't need to discipline no women. That's not right. You're not right. And I bet many will avoid my profanity because of disrespect, GOOD FOR THEM, GOOD FOR YOU. I lOVE that you think about me, darling. You knew you liked pissing me off but I enjoyed. That's a great debate, I said I wanted one didn't I. There's no winning in that by asking for it I said ("BUT I really do LOVE debates THOUGH SO FEEL FREE TO GIVE ME ANOTHER ") It's sweet that you waited for my response too so I like flirting with you I know you wouldn't beat my ass or would you. Either way you're too funny. You find me attractive then ;)

Yureon

Monday, December 23rd, 2013

I wouldn't beat you out of anger first of all. Again Typing in caps and cursing, you are the angry one and once again you try to flip things. I quote exactly what you said and yet you still deny it, pathetic. I was saying you wouldn't fly off the handle like that in person( you are talking tough from behind a keyboard, admit it you wouldn't come at me like that if this "debate" was in person.) So now you have the courage to sling insults from the internet...that is being weak). And a weak man is a man who lets women have their way with entitlements not who isn't afraid to put her in her place when she gets out of line, either verbally or physically. Another disgusting example from you "A man that got up early to go to work, worked all day, dealt with all the demands and demanding aspects of his job including people he comes across with (nice or nasty), and everything in between his daily schedule including his personal demands he has to accomplish that day (Whether it’s car issues, bills, or not), comes home tired and exhausted from work, cooks for himself, probably half conscious with a back and headache and still remembers to call me. That’s HARD WORK" LOL. He does all those things and has to accomdate you too? No it never occured to you and ask him hey I havent' heard from you how was your day? You know...no wait you don't. If he DOESN'T remember he didn't work hard. See your bs logic. Again entitled, instead of compromise by calling him and saying hey I know you had a bad day or busy or whatever let's talk. You are bi polar and here is my proof... "First you say" "You are an IDIOT. People like you MAKE ME SO UPSET." Then say "I lOVE that you think about me, darling. You knew you liked pissing me off but I enjoyed." You are psycho...beyond measure and beating sense into you would be the only way since providing logic and qouting you about things you said that you vehemently deny doesn't work, or it does and you just refuse to acknowledge it. I don't find you attractive sorry and I know this is about as much male attention as you are going to get on here but it still remains. Your propensity is just causing all sorts of rifts in the sexes. " I am sorry about one thing though, I’m sorry whoever hurt you this bad. It’s sad and you didn’t deserve it either. See, no need for double standard. I do it for men too. You don’t need to discipline no women." After your little tirade and split personality, I doubt that( especially after I called you out on that) ...I am sure you are feeling pretty good about that actually. And yes I will make others pay for their crimes. These women were no different than you, entitled spoiled quick to anger and argue with insults, jeers, and profanity when staring defeat right in the face with a grin. Domestic violence rates are going up, 12 percent than last year, you know why? Men are getting sick of women's attitudes and behavior. I already proved you wrong on your points, by using your own quotes and phrases and scenarios. Again Your argument is invalid.

DaZhane

Monday, December 23rd, 2013

You know what? I am tough. Everyone has consequences for their actions. All you're doing is going through all these forums and putting women down. How does that seem logical or right of mind when I was only talking to a WOMAN and her behaviors. You're not listening to any of the things I said. You want to be angry and beat women. There are consequences to your actions. I hope no woman ever have to deal with your incompetence. This is truly sad. You need help. Anything else you want to say because YOU NEVER PUT ME IN MY PLACE. I'm still going to do what I want. You don't like strong women and this amazingly happy complete woman is happy she helped another women. I thought you were gone but I'll continue to help women here and there's nothing you can do about it. It's pathetic on your part that you are going through all different lengths on these dating advice coaches and telling women. They're wrong when the dating coach is a MAN. That sounds dumb. Anything thing I said is backed up by David Wygant, still what are you doing here? Have a problem tell him. He gave the advice that I also have adopted. You can't stop me. This is a losing battle for you. :)

Yureon

Monday, December 23rd, 2013

So go ahead and reply to get the last word in thinking it means victory when you haven't even turned around and seen that you are surrounded by logic and points that proved yours wrong.

Yureon

Monday, December 23rd, 2013

There is a difference between strong and obnoxious loud foul mouthed, entitled princess...you are clearly the latter. Losing battle? I already won, I showed how you said things you vehemently denied without having to use profanity, exposed your contradictions and explained my meritorious points, and in return you called me an Idiot and said I made you upset, doesn't get better than that. Really David endorsed what you said? I don't see any approval from him here, because he doesn't read these things. Even if he did still wouldn't matter. He doesn't like hearing from people that speak the truth but much what he and others "want" to believe and hear. David doesn't say things like "Babygirl, you have all the power over men. Confidence is our power over men :) ]" So once again, I proved you wrong. For someone who thinks they know it all you are just as bad off as the rest of us...and that is pathetic... "I am still going to do what I want" I guaruntee when you rub that snobby attitude in another man's face you won't appreciate the backlash, go ahead keep prancing around like the entitled princess you are, like I said I will still see you here in 2014 and beyond. Next woman I encounter that reminds me of you she is going to get it good, since I can't deal with you directly, and that wasn't a threat. I was just point out what a coward you were flying off the handle like that when knowing very well in person you wouldn't pop off like that without getting popped. There is a difference (which you don;t see) between me saying "tell me where you live so I can beat you" and " you wouldn't talk smack like that if you were here with me." So hide behind your comp and continue to bash men and sling insults. so keep on saying I AM TOUGH yeah ok, say that to someone in their face and watch them take off yours. Telling a woman she has all the power and entitled isn't helping them, you might think it is because it's telling them what they want to hear but it won't be long before they become over 30 and wonder why they are still single, or will finally realize they don't have power over men like they think/want to. Especially when you only hear one side of the story. IT's stupid, I hope you don't work in law, you would put away a lot of innocent people and let alot of criminals go.

DaZhane

Monday, December 23rd, 2013

What you said was still a threat. Dude, I don't care what you think. It still didn't change my mind. If YOU HATE WOMEN SO BAD DATE MEN. I could care less what you do. You just want attention and how can I take you seriously when your name is a cartoon or some can of anime character. You're hiding behind a character. I don't seriously care what you do but I sure know why your girlfriends left you. If you had really comprehend anything I said you would know it had everything to do with her not men BECAUSE I DID SAY THIS ("When it comes to catering and compromising to a man’s needs. All men are different so I could not speak on that and I mentioned that, but you're not listening.") You can't control ANYone else but your own actions. That's all I said but obviously you want to bring justice for yourself. I'm not afraid of you so take all your nonsense somewhere else. You twisted my words to justify yourself and your beliefs. YOU HATE WOMEN. I seriously thought you were gone messages ago. Dude, honestly, no one cares what you think. You honestly make no sense and you don't intimidate me. So, why are you here? You keep saying the same nonsense. You are THAT DESPERATE FOR ATTENTION. Honestly you haven't won because if you DID (which you haven't) You would have been long gone by now but you're not gone because you're still fighting the battle. THAT'S NOT WINNING AND I COULD CARE LESS ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AT THIS POINT. Side note: Your grammar is horrible. (You make no sense and that hasn't changed my thoughts). You HATE ME,WANT TO BEAT ME UP, THREATENED ME, AND I STILL DON'T CARE. YOU DON'T RESPECT WOMEN AND YOU DON'T WANT LOVE AND IT'S NOT HERE. THERE IS NO LOVE FOR YOU HERE. And you still haven't PUT me in my place because I'm still talking. And thank you for not REFERRING TO ME as a strong and obnoxious loud foul mouthed, entitled princess. I AM STRONG THOUGH AND SMART. I appreciate it. So, for a second I thought you liked me. I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A RATIONAL CONVERSATION AND UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT OF VIEW BUT :) I WOULD NEED A RATIONAL AND RIGHT-MINDED PERSON AND YOU'RE NOT IT. And I don't and WILL NOT to accept the fact of NOTHING FOR YOU. That's what you want for me and you're not getting it. You need VALIDATION (to feel like you're right) BUT YOU'RE NOT GETTING IT FOR ME. This WHAT YOU ARE: A misogynist is a person who hates or doesn't trust women. misogynist An adjective describing a person who takes a dislike to females. Usually losers. Pokes at them, makes derogatory remarks about them, and really don't connect to females on a mental level. A misogynist is something you don't want to be. Dude stop being a misogynist, stop poking that girl, and give me a Cheeto. misogynist A man who hates every bone in a woman's body, except his. Misogynists hate and discriminate against women, but they still like fucking them.

linda

Wednesday, June 18th, 2014

This has been very helpful.. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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