younger menHe’s so tempting. He’s young, fit, and handsome. He’s charming, and has the gift of the gab, but he’s about 15 to 20 years younger than you. Is he serious about you? What is it he really wants?

Well, let’s talk about this guy’s mindset first.

There’s a rumor flying around that older women are easy to screw when you’re a young guy. It probably has something to do with “Sex and the City” and the whole media push about cougars. Oh that’s right. Young guys who are 15 to 20 years your junior are chasing you for one reason, and one reason only… Sex!

Now, granted, I’m not telling you not to enjoy the attention from young guys, and to take advantage of some hot sex. Hell, having sex with another human being is much better than sex on your own. Certainly a warm body is better than the warmth your “Mr Super Jumbo Wand” gives off right?

But here’s the problem. These young guys have no game and they have no sensitivity. They’re trying to get laid, and they’re very transparent. So it really depends on what you want. And I just want to set you straight. If you believe you can have a meaningful relationship with them, you’re 100% wrong. It just doesn’t work that way.

If you’re happy to have some fun and great sex, then absolutely go for it. There’s no problem with it at all. No strings, and no fuss. It’s a new year. If you want to take some time out from looking for Mr. Right, do it. Have some fun, and don’t let the media tell you you’re wrong for doing it.

It’s no different than if I hooked up with a much younger girl. I’m certainly not going to have a relationship with her. What would we have in common? And the harsh reality is by the time she was my age, I’d be wearing socks up to my knees and stumbling around. Get real!

Enjoy whatever comes in your direction, but just don’t have any expectations. If you go falling for one of these young studs you’re going to end up getting hurt. I’ve seen it way too many times for it to be a coincidence. It just doesn’t work. So there you go…

I wanted to give you the heads up. If Mr. Youngman starts chasing you around this year, you know what he’s really after from you.