What if we all could just sit home at night and have love delivered to our front door like Chinese take out.
You’d be sitting there on your sofa, watching your favorite episode of Mad Men.
Then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. You answer the door. And there, standing in front of you, is your dream man.
He looks exactly the way that you want and he’s holding flowers and your favorite take out food and a bottle of your favorite wine.
He looks at you and says, “I’m so sorry it’s taken me so long to find you, babe. My love GPS was broken down, so I had to use the GPS in my car, and it kept sending me to the wrong houses.
But here I am, ready to fall in love. I brought your favorite food, your favorite wine. I’d love to sit down on the sofa next to you and hold your hand and tell you how much I’ve waited my whole life to be with you.”
Wouldn’t that be amazing?
It’s almost like every romantic comedy you’ve ever watched since you were a little girl.
But life doesn’t work that way. Anything we get in life, we need to work for. And the problem is, most men are not straightforward like that. They will not approach you and talk to you in those type or words.
Whenever I do a women’s seminar, I always ask the women, “Wouldn’t it be grand if a man walked over to you and said, ‘My God, you’re beautiful. I just want to get to know you. Who are you?’”
Every woman would say, “Yes!”
But life doesn’t work that way. And yet, most men will not approach women. They suffer from their own disease called approach anxiety. They suffer from a lot of things, and they’re just not going to go and do it.
So it’s up to you to make yourself available. It’s up to you to get men to approach you. It’s up to you to get off of your sofa, smile and say hello to men and find the one, or the ones, that respond to you.
It’s all about creating attraction and being open and available all the time.
Just how open or available are you every single day? I want you to evaluate yourself right now, and be honest.
And let me know what you discover in the comments below.