You’re dating this guy:
Oh, he’s so nice. He’s such a good guy. He’s so sweet.
He’s all about mushy soft talk all the time. He’s so nice, you feel like you can bring him home to Mommy and Daddy.
Except for one thing: you just don’t want his cock.
Now, let’s back up a little bit for all you prissys out there. I used the word “cock”. I’m so sorry. Let’s say that you just don’t desire him in a ravenous sexual female way.
You may like him, and the sex is, well, good, but you don’t crave him. You don’t desire him. You’re not passionate because he’s not a guy that you respect.
You respect him as a man, but he’s not a man that drives you nuts, and that’s what you really want—you want a man that you crave. You want a man that makes you just want to worship his dick.
For those of you little prissy-poos out there reading this right now, you can basically wince and go, “Oh my God, I can’t believe David is talking like this.”
You know what? I am talking like this. This is exactly what most women want. Most women who are very sexual creatures will know exactly what I’m talking about here.
You want to crave, desire, and go crazy for a guy’s dick. You want a man to be your caveman to throw you down on the bed, pull your hair, spank you, and make you feel alive.
It’s how you’re wired. You’re wired to be the damsel to the strong man. Granted, you can go slay the corporate dragon by day, but at night, you just want to be taken. You want to be made love to, have sex with, fucked by a fucking strong man, a man that knows how to wield his powerful cock.
That’s what you want. That’s what you desire, and that’s what you deserve.
Deny me. Tell me I’m wrong. Go ahead. I dare you.
Tell me this is not the type of guy that you want. Tell me you’d much rather have the sweet nice guy, the guy that’s so sweet that tells you constantly all the time that he just wants to make love to you.
Tell me that that is the guy that you want all the time.
Tell me I’m wrong, I dare you. I dare you right now to tell me that I’m wrong because I know I’m not.
I know what you want, what you desire, and what you deserve is a guy that knows how to treat you like an incredibly sexy woman; a guy that knows how to take you, rips your clothes off, kisses your entire body, goes down on you, and does it with conviction.
He doesn’t look up at you and ask, “Am I doing it right?”
You want a man to ravish you. You want a man to just eat you alive.
Deny it. Go ahead. Tell me I’m wrong.
I guarantee I’m not.
Deny you? Hell no!
You are right on the money
Alas, it’s always the fellas who don’t want a commitment who make you hot!
you’re wrong
Who told you this? :/
I want a man who just wants to constantly cuddle, discuss feelings and who tells me ‘I love you’ everyday (why do you have to mean it to say it? Who cares. We don’t. We just want to hear it). How hard can this be? Too hard apparently.
David
You should put this on the men’s blog site as well. I really don’t think most men have a clue that this is how women want to be treated, and that this will make her crave you, and give you more sex than a normal man even wants. Most men are “nice guys” because they are afraid to act like this toward their girl. It took me a LONG time to figure out how “dirty” women really are!!
I want to be ravished sometimes, alot of the time I want the cuddler, the gentleman. I had a lover who asked me frequently “What do you want me to do?” It was rather tiresome. Just try alot of different things at first, guys, and we’ll let you know what we liked. Just as we’ll do with you.
I kind of interpreted this post to be about women who settle. They’re with someone who’s a nice guy, but he isn’t someone who excites them, certainly not sexually, but they’re with him because he’s the only guy who asked them out in a long time, or he provides a way to help them pay the mortgage and bills. I know women who, the minute they’re single, go with anyone who contacts them through OKCupid who’s willing to date them because they’re lonely and desperate. Most of the time they’re with some nerdy guy…nice to be sure but not exactly sexy. After a while they finally figure out that they don’t love the guy and they break up with him. I definitely want to be with someone who is both nice AND sexy to me, if that is possible.
Well, I’m turned on! Ha! But, really, you are right. The majority of the time, I want to be fucked and I know a lot of women who feel this way as well. I think that the whole “cuddle thing” comes from our desire to be cherished emotionally and just gets misinterpreted because many of the lines of distinction within any human are fuzzy. I refer to sex as fucking, as a general rule, even though the man I do it with and I are “making love.” He knows how to fuck me and he knows he knows how and I love it and he loves it and everyone is happy!
hehe your too funny and right on the money but a lot of women won’t admit it. My problem is that I have never met a guy who wants to go at it 24/7. No, Im not kidding.:) Where are they?
You are so right, David. Too bad so few men know this and so few women dare to ask for it.
I want the crazy sexual tension but I also want to have the nice guy I can take home to the parents. Can I have both or is it the case of it’s either one or the other?
David, you are not wrong, you are on the money. The only problem is, when I found that guy, he didn’t want a relationship at that moment in his life, he just wanted a friend. I got male friends already, I want a man who wants me, who excites me, and wants to be with me. How do I find this man again and not be afraid that he won’t want me?
A man wants a woman to be both an angel to present in public and a sex kitten in the bedroom. So tell me what is wrong with women who want their man to take them in bed with their ravenous passion?
Women with high sex drives need this animalistic desire to keep the flames hot. We don’t necessarily need pain of hair-pulling or dominant acts like gagging; however, we do want to know that we are the objects of your obsessions and your dreams.
spot on Lori, well said.
abso-freakin-lutely
You are soo right!