I was talking to a female coaching client of mine earlier. She was telling me all about this guy she’d started dating recently. He has some financial challenges and he isn’t coping very well. In fact, he actually has anger issues too. He has no patience, and speaks to her in a very demeaning way sometimes.

I asked her what good qualities the guy had. Do you know what she said?

“He’s good looking, and the sex is amazing!”

“You’re with this guy because he looks good and gives you great sex?” I asked.

And it actually got me thinking. What’s the price of a good orgasm? How much are you prepared to put up with to have great sex?

It seems like so many women out there aren’t sexually satisfied, so when they find a guy who knows how to please them, they’re willing to put up with all kinds of crap from them. Isn’t that crazy?

That you’d stay in a relationship with someone that doesn’t make you happy, just because the sex is good. Is a good orgasm really that important to you?

Look, we all know there’s masturbation, vibrators, and all sorts of other ways to satisfy yourself, but nothing compares to the feeling you get when you connect intimately with another person. There’s nothing like the feeling you get when a man touches you in a way no other man has touched you before, and you have the most earth shattering orgasm.

But should that be the sole focus of your relationship?

What about the emotional connection?

What about the fun, the laughter, the excitement, the being able to share special moments together?

Surely that’s more important than to have great sex. Here’s the question I want you to ask yourself today. How much is a good orgasm worth to you?

I would have no interest being with someone who didn’t love and respect me for who I am. I wouldn’t dream of staying with a woman who was cold, aggressive, and demeaning. And I’d be straight out of a relationship with a woman who didn’t try to connect with me on some emotional level.

So ladies, how much have you put up with in the past in the name of good sex?

I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this one.