Is it possible to ask a man out and still allow him to be the masculine one in a relationship? Check out today’s video on some dating rules about how to ask a man out.

How many of you have met men, flirted with men, and they do absolutely nothing?

You think to yourself, was I in the same conversation as that person, because I swore the guy was interested. But he doesn’t do anything at all. Well, it happens every single day.

I’m going to give you three reasons why you should ask a man out.

  1. Men are stupid.  Well, I can call men stupid because I’m a man.

But men really are stupid. Stupid in the way that they can be absolutely clueless. Men don’t understand the subtle hints that women give.

So if you’re not being direct with a guy, he may think you’re just being nice to him.

He may not realize that you actually like him and you’re interested in him. He may think that you just feel sorry for him, especially if he’s insecure.

  1. Men suffer from a disease called approach anxiety.

It’s a disease that men have been suffering from for years and years. It means that a man doesn’t have the guts to approach a woman.

It means that when a man approaches a woman, he’s thinking about the next thing to say because he can’t believe he actually approached her in the first place.

It means that when a man finally does talk to a woman, he’s so in his head that he’s missing all the subtle little signs that you’re interested in him.

Men come every single day to my website. The number one thing they come for is approach anxiety. So just because he’s talking to you, flirting with you, doesn’t mean he’s got the guts to ask you out.

  1. Don’t be subtle with your hints.Don’t bother hinting, you need to be hitting a man over the head with a sledgehammer.

Men don’t do well with subtle hints.

Have you ever lived with a man? I’m sure you have.

You tell a man that you’re going out that day. Would he mind straightening up while you’re gone? When you come home, the house looks exactly the same.

You look at him and wonder what he did all day long besides sit on his ass and watch football.

He leads you proudly to the kitchen and says, look, I straightened up.

There were two dishes in the sink. He put them in the dishwasher. Congratulations, Mr. Man.

You see — to him, that was straightening up.

He didn’t see the pile of clothes that he’s been ignoring for four or five days. He didn’t think to put them away.

Straightening up to him is going for the most obvious thing he can find.

So when it comes to asking a man out, if you’re not obvious, there’s no way in the world he’s going to know you like him.

In today’s video we go through all the best ways to ask a man out. There are many of them.

I’m going to go through very subtle things you can do that will change the way your dating happens. Because let’s face it, you meet someone you’re attracted to, you should be going out with him. It’s not your fault that he’s slightly challenged in the social department.

So check out today’s video and don’t forget to pass it along to your friends, so you can all understand how to go and talk to a guy and get him to ask you out and still make it look like it was his idea.