They should just put the Giants and the Patriots in the Superbowl every year and you’ll have a great game. Not only that but women will watch it too because Tom Brady’s playing. Apparently, Tom Brady, to most women, is just one of the 10 sexiest men in the world.
Here’s a funny game that men play: men will look at actresses and say, “God, I really, really want a woman that looks like Scarlet Johansson.” And we’ll call out actress names and the guys will claim them. “Yes” to Scarlet. “Yes” to Penelope. “No” to Roseanne and so forth.
Just the other day, somebody e-mailed me and they said that they couldn’t find their perfect 10. Remember that blog I wrote about finding a Perfect 10? The whole point of that blog that most women got was that the perfect 10 is inside and out, not just about their looks. A perfect 10 is different to everybody.
So this guy says “I want a woman that looks like Mila Kunis but I can’t have a woman that looks like Mila Kunis, so the world is not fair.”
It’s very ridiculous. Women: this is how men are programmed. They actually believe that they can sleep with, adore, and be adored-by the Maxim magazine model cover girl or a woman that looks exactly like Scarlet Johansson. Doesn’t make a difference what age range they are. Men are still giant little boys when it comes down to it.
But here’s the key: there are plenty of men out there—I’d say the majority of them—that will think that you are their perfect 10. Reality often settles in to the reasonable ones and they know they’re not going to get that celebrity but what they really want to do is to find a woman that adores them and understands them. They want a woman that feels jazzed by who they are as a man so they feel like the king of the castle when they come home.
Now, all of a sudden, you—who may not look like Mila Kunis or Scarlet Johansson—become their perfect woman.
So today I want all of you to play a game and just have some fun. I want all of you to play the game that men play. Men play the stupid “Mila Kunis or Scarlet Johansson” game all the time. And they pick who they would rather have sex with, Kunis or Johansson.
My question for your today is: if there were two actors in front of you, who would you rather have sex with? I’d like to know who your celeb crushes are, who you would rather hook up with and hang with. If you’d like, you can put my name in there, too, because…it’d be fun. 
Post your _____ or _____ answers to the blog comments, or your can tweet them to me @Davidwygant.
Have fun!
I had to think about this for awhile because I’m not too big into celebrity crushes but I think Ryan Gosling and David Wygant go hand in hand. You wanna know a funny thing that I encounter I do and I’m sure A LOT of people do is the old “If I could combine this guy with this guy he’d be perfect.” I know this is unrealistic but it is a common theme that I meet men that are extreme in one area then totally lacking in another. I know the combining theory won’t work but I have faith that I will find my mate which is uniquely perfect to me when the time is right. So David through all your advice and blogs I have learned so much and I thank you for that. The main thing for me is the learning to engage and be open to all interactions with everyday people on the street, hanging out in normal establishments. I was the one guilty before of not making eye contact and having tunnel vision because I got trained in my mind to not look at guys because I was shy and uncomfortable in that sense and was worried about what they expected of me. I have to say just this simple little change makes a world of difference and I feel more confident and engaging everyday. Positive energy flows and I love shining my light on others. Whether they take it or not is not of concern to me but hopefully I can make others feel as radiant as I do. Thank you David from the bottom of my heart. I just ordered NAKED and I can’t wait to read it!
LOL…no comments on this yet? OK, I’ll go first! One of my big celebrity crushes is Kevin Spacey. Setting aside the long-standing rumors that he may be gay, it’s because he’s a mature man who is talented, funny, classy, and seems to have his act together. I think he’s incredibly sexy. I’m also crushing on the British actor who plays Mr. Bates on PBS’ Downton Abbey. I don’t typically go for the “pretty boy” type or the guy that makes the cover of People Magazine’s Sexiest Man issue (because so few of them…Brad Pitt, Bradley Cooper, etc.) are what I would consider sexy. Tom Brady never did anything for me, either.
So I guess to answer your fill-in-the-blank question, Kevin Spacey and Brendan Coyle (the actor who plays Mr. Bates.) However, what I really want is a life-long, committed relationship with someone who reminds me of one of these guys–not just a one-night fling.
Well, if we’re allowed to dream here, I’d say Josh Lucas has an irresistible smile though I also have a weak spot for Stanley Tucci.
And I’d absolutely want to hang out with you David!
Yay! Games!
OMG! Is that what they are doing?!?! lol I already did mine over on the mens site lol but I’d rather have real life guys who weren’t actors! 
I have a type and any guy who fits that type pretty much works! lol I don’t narrow down! 
lol I find myself interested in guys who look like different physical trainers that I once had who I’m not even attracted to their looks!! lol However, I just now realized that they do fit my type! lol I looked up more of the actresses that the guys who are interested in me said and one was once #1 on Maxim lol Whatever! I’m better than all of them! lol
I have the craziest story about finding out my mom’s type and now I wish I didn’t know! lol
And for my off the topic comments as usual! lol I was at this performing arts theater and this guy that worked there kept looking at me, smiling at me, winking at me and when I walked closer to him, he was following me and asking if he could help me find where I was going. I was thinking he was interested in me and completely forgot the whole thing about let a guy help you b/c letting them help makes them feel masculine (because one guy had recently gone psychotic at me when I asked his opinion on something because I didn’t know what to talk about to him)! So I had gone back to thinking do everything myself the way that society and my dingbat lol family raised me! lol So he was cute and thinking that he was interested in me, I froze, my mind went blank and I accidentally shunned him away! lol So afterwards I though, oops! let me try to talk to him and I played a game on him but he had no sense of humor lol and a disaster happened lol and I learned something huge on what not to do! lol Don’t tease guys you don’t know in public!! lol I was thinking that was so bizarre that he was just looking to help because when I ask guys for help, they don’t want to! lol but they want to help when I don’t ask! lol but then recently I heard again to let guys help you and I was like, Oh! That’s what he was doing! lol It was a funny game that I played on him, too and I had a lot of fun!! lol Too bad that he didn’t have a clue about flirting and he went nutso on me!! lol Another bizarre thing with another guy happened there, too!! lol The ballet was bizarrely intriguing like nothing else I’ve ever seen!! lol The French are weirdos!! lol No~It was amazing!!
But I think Jonathan Rhys Meyers has the hottest sex appeal lol His scorching hottness just exudes from the screen!! lol There aren’t any others that even do that!! lol but his looks are too pretty! lol He needs to get down and dirty!! lol
I have absolutely no idea what it is about him because he doesn’t fit my type at all!! lol I don’t think it’s even his looks that turn me on! lol
My mom is crazy about Steven Colbert (kinda looks like my dad~ ewww! lol) and I think Joe Scarborough because she’s absolutely psychotic lol about Morning Joe lol She’s such a dork! lol
This is classic! http://video.search.yahoo.com/video/play?p=alicia%20keys%20steven%20colbert%20empire%20state%20of%20mind&tnr=21&vid=1524828930867&l=236&turl=http%3A%2F%2Fts2.mm.bing.net%2Fvideos%2Fthumbnail.aspx%3Fq%3D1524828930867%26id%3Ddd2313ec131da30d30a183d336537f6a%26bid%3Dvc1yMkgtioxxXw%26bn%3DThumb%26url%3Dhttp%253a%252f%252fwww.zie.nl%252fvideo%252fmuziek%252fAlicia-Keys-en-Stephen-Colbert-Empire-State-of-Mind%252fm1czse7fo3ps&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.zie.nl%2Fvideo%2Fmuziek%2FAlicia-Keys-en-Stephen-Colbert-Empire-State-of-Mind%2Fm1czse7fo3ps&sigr=12v72d08n&newfp=1&tit=Alicia+Keys+en+Stephen+Colbert+-+Empire+State+of+Mind
One guy I absolutely couldn’t stand but I liked being around him because he looked like Kenny Wormald! lol He’s a fabulous dancer! Another guy looks like Channing Tatum but the guy was only looking to have sex with me!
Channing is a impressively hot dancer!! Not my types but they are phenomenal dancers!!
So the guy that I accidentally sent the wrong text to a while ago didn’t get back to me so I thought I blew it with him so then I wrote back another message saying that I didn’t write that other naughty one!! “Who did this?!?! NOT ME!!” lol Then he got back to me lol and he’s like, “but I liked that one!” lol omg!
First actor who came to my mind was Gerard Butler
He is hot and seems to be funny and so natural 
Wow, I don’t think I could narrow it down to two. There are so many I feel like a bad girl admitting it. But since its a game here goes: First, although he isn’t an actor I would definitely sleep with Adam Levine
he is so simple, sweet and exudes confidence. Then there would be Jonathan Rhys Meyers, Josh Lucas, Ryan Gosling and Justine Timberlake. Can I throw a female in there (lol)? I think Angelia Jolie is the epiphany of sexy. I want to be just like her. David, I would just sit and listen to you all day and be intrigued lol.
so many of them!!! Jonathan Rhys Meyers, Ryan Gosling, Cam Gigandet, Eric Dane, Kevin McKidd, Jim Sturgess, Chris Hemsworth………………….
Ha! I play that game with a good friend when men at our lunch table start mentioning actresses (I work at an IT company, a lot of men there).
So we start talking “Do you remember Troy movie? Where Orlando Bloom and Hector Bana appear in skirts? Uhh, those legs. How about Brad Pitt’s nude rear end?”
Then our co-workers start moaning and complaining when we recall “300″ and those 300 fab abs on screen. Haha!
They just need a dosis of their own medicine.
I am a little older so I would like to have some fun with Robert Redford and Paul Newman. But since Paul has passed from us I would substitute that sultry David Wygant. That pix on the men’s page with his hair a little longer seems very inviting to me. I like to play a different game. I live in a small resort town and I have a part time delivery service. So, as I am walking down the street meeting men coming the other direction, I try to make eye contact with them. I give them a long look and a coy smile. If I can get them to hold my gaze for a couple of seconds I give myself one point. If he is with a woman I give myself 2 points. If I can get him to smile back, I give myself 3 points. I rack em up by the end of the day. Its an ego booster and I feel so in control of everything, Queen me.
Here is the deal….I don’t actually know any celebrities. I have to actually know somebody to actually even be able to visualize having sex with them! So I actually can’t participate in your little game. Love some of the answers though!!! It is very interesting that men play this game, I have never overheard it.
Thanks David for all of your insight! I am learning so much from “Naked”
It’s definitely Tom Hardy or Jeremy Renner. These 2 ooze absolute sex appeal. Aw man, just saying their names drives me crazy.
David I am going to say Scarlett…..wow!
Hello all. My picks would be Vince Vaughn or Bradley Cooper or both!!! LOL Of course my all time favorite would be David — he’s know exactly what women and men want. But some of us are having trouble finding it…
I’m in my 50′s, and the 2 guys in showbiz who come to my mind would be Robin Williams or Woody Allen. To me, a man who makes me laugh is sexy, and if he’s funny, he doesn’t have to look like George Clooney. My “if I was 25 years younger” choices would be David Wygant or the new UPS guy who delivers packages to our office. These two smokin’ hot guys appeal more to my primal, naughty girl side.
I don’t even have to think about this two seconds, because I have no shame in playing that man game:
Jake Gyllenhaal and Richard Armitage.
RA is a British actor not well-known over here, but he’s so hot that he’s causing global warming all by his-little-old-self.
We don’t even need to explain Jake.
I guess I am a pretty sorry figur because when I think of actors I think of role play and recycling woman (they change partners al the time). I make the man infront of me that I choose the leading actor in my movie. Even if I don’t knock the man down I am more or less like a Amazon while I am hunting but an angel when I fall. I am very proud of being strong and stubborn but it don’t get me married. Today I like Clooney because he stood up for something in real life and got arrested. This is what I wan’t, the male who will serve and protect his family because that is what I do every day year out and year in. I wan’t to be choosen to be loved and god damn be able to love back comfertable in this team.
David, I don’t think women understand how to play this game.
They’re over-thinking it — which celebrity has ideals, which celebrity is cerebral, which celebrity is noble and kind … blah blah blah blah.
Ladies, the point of the “man” game is who would you rather bed? This guy or that guy? You think of 2 ideals and then decide which one would be better in the sack.
Don’t over-think it.
(By the way, I realized I didn’t finish the game the way it was supposed to be played. I’d choose Richard Armitage over Jake Gyllenhaal. But the reasons are purely cerebral. So I’m just as guilty as everybody else on this comment board of OVER THINKING IT.
It IS true that I am over thinking it because I have never in my life imagined jumping a cerebral leg
atleast not since I was 14 and a virgin and my idol was Rod Stewart. If a man tells me about a hot lady cerebral I believe it is a warning sign of “looking over the fence” or just not linking with the rest of us. He can imagine all he likes and I don’t care but I need to be treated with respect and he will get mine in return. I am playing for keeps not to win a game or even remi.
I like this issue because it got me thinking…
Well, right now the top two are Hiroyuki Sanada (The Last Samurai, Lost, Revenge) and Ed Quinn (Eureka). Funny thing is, my crush on Hiroyuki completely changed my life and helped me get out of an abusive marriage. So, in a way, Hiro saved my life! And Ed? Well, he’s just some nice manly goodness to look at.
When I was in my 20s, my friends and I often played the “I’d do him” game … very similar to what you’re describing here. At the time, I always had to add “if I were that type of girl” … I couldn’t even play the game in make believe! The goal of the game was to come up with 10 celebrities you’d “do” if you had the opportunity. I could never come up with a list longer than about 5. Guess I am pretty finicky.
Keith Urban..cause he got “Naked”
Thank you for your book David…Amazing:-)
I have came to one conclusion with this, men do what women allow them to do to them. A man is going to always keep his cycle of games if nothing or no one is stopping him. They will lie cheat and do whatever they want knowing your still there in the end to give them their cake and then some . So girls gotta stop this by not playing games with them but showing their higher power ” confidence” and power we all have yet fail to use .
Loved everything you said, but had to correct you on one thing. More women would NOT watch the Superbowl just because Tom Brady is playing. Contrary. To many of single women/mothers (this one included), Tom is seeing as a Deadbeat.
What’s wrong with me? I absolutely adore sex, yet when you ask me “who would I want to bed with”, the answer is, “nobody”. I think the assumption underpinning the request is that women think the same as men, and that the first thing they think about when they see a guy is his booty-potential. If I had to pick anybody, it’d be a guy at work who could do absolutely anything he wanted with me when he’s got me hypnotised with that stare he does to me. Certainly no movie star – but hot, hot, hot- to me- fantasy material to me- absolutely! (now I wish I had the guts to tell him )
Collin Firth, Hugh Jackman and you David.
Luv you.
Hi David. This is fun.
I go for the actors with British/ European accents. They are mysterious, sexy, funny, different.
Colin Firth, Hugh Grant, James McAvoy(sigh)
Gerard Butler. I like Kevin Hart too. (so funny)
I would go for my Number One DILF (and favorite band’s leader), Dave Matthews! Or the R and B musician Maxwell. They’re both sexy, laid back and sophisticated in their own ways. Dave appeals to me not only physically, but because of his philosophy, his charity work and his musicianship. I admire and respect the person he is, and I love his mind and his sensitivity! I’m a nerd in that I have to have a cerebral attraction to a man as well as a physical one. I have to love his mind AND his body, or I won’t want to bone! Lol
Either David or Obi. Now those are two very hott men!