When you woke up this morning, how did you feel?
Did you feel good about yourself?
Did you feel sexy?
Did you feel strong and powerful?
When you put on your clothes, did you feel hot, sexy, and confident?
Or are you not feeling sexy because you don’t like the outfit you’re wearing.
Or you don’t feel confident because your shoes aren’t exactly you favorites.
Or maybe this is it: you don’t feel good because your insides are not full of love for yourself.
I know when I dress like shit it’s because I don’t feel good on the inside. My inward expression became my outward expression.
When I wake up in the morning and I feel great, my clothes match my attitude. I always reach for my favorite things: my favorite jeans, my favorite shirt, my favorite pair shoes.
But I know when I don’t feel good on the inside, I don’t shower in the morning, I walk around in a t-shirt, my hair is usually standing up like a wolfman, and a pair of shorts that I probably don’t even like.
When you don’t feel good on the inside, your outside will show it too.
But more importantly, you’re not going to attract anybody. There’s no way you can attract a great man when you do not love yourself inside and out.
As humans, we smell each other out. Our subconscious minds are communicating even when we’re not.
So you’ve got to start from the inside every single day and fall in love with yourself more and more every day, so that way you’ll be able to attract and meet the love that you desire, want, and deserve.
Loved this article..so true and beautifully said..
A woman who is happy and loving herself is at her most beautiful…
This made me think how ladies tend to be critical of themselves, we look in the mirror and scrutinize every part that is wrong..Yet we see the beauty in others..Women need to look in the mirror and see and admire their beautiful features even the parts they dislike..
Its so important to take care of ourselves in every way, time to take extra good care of ourselves, our bodies, eating good food that makes us feel good and healthy, filling up our spirit, and good care of our appearance..
“Fall in love with yourself every day..” Yum yes this feels delicious and juicy to think about..
I feel the same way…I see and know of SO many women who dress like total frumps and don’t wear any makeup or have a decent haircut. Lots of women my age and older also let themselves go.
Its terrible, I feel so bad when I see women do that to themselves…It is absolutely important to take special care of ourselves, our appearance, makeup, hair clothes..It is amazing what it does to our “feeling good ” vibe!!
Plus men definitely notice you and respond more favorably when you are pulled together and feeling good about yourself.
Absolutely Pam! Its just human nature to be drawn to people who look and feel good about themselves..I love my beauty treatments and daily routines, they make me feel so good and happy!
Btw, How’s your Moose and and the other kitties? Did they find a home finally?
Aww, thanks for asking, Nathalie! We managed to get two kittens down to the local ASPCA and it was tough. They basically told us that if they can’t be handled by people that there wouldn’t be many options for them (i.e. sent to another shelter or put to sleep.) My mother and I are still heartbroken over that. I have their ID numbers and I’m tempted to call to find out what happened to them but I don’t want to hear bad news.
The other two kittens were terrified and it was impossible to pick them up…the female ran to mommy and started crying. So…we kept them. When I find a house or condo I’m taking them with me…my mother will keep the momma cat. The three of them have very slowly been venturing upstairs, but mostly the mother cat. She and Moose have seen each other and nothing happened…they just kind of ignore each other, which is good. The female kitten, Dolly, still needs to be spayed…she puffed up her fur and tail when she saw Moose. So, I need to bring her to vet soon to have that done. The mother and the other kitten (Blackie) had that taken care off.
I love them, and they have REALLY come a long way with love and patience! They still don’t like to be picked up but they come running to us and love to be patted and get attention.
I have been meaning to ask you..thinking about your kitties..
I am sorry about the two kittens, its so hard and I notice that it seems harder and harder to find shelters willing to help cats..less and less room?
Aw I feel happy Moose and the momma cat seem to be getting along…You and your mom have big hearts to have welcomed them into your home..
Animals are such gifts, and they really do respond and thrive with love and affection..They are lucky..
My mom feeds and looks after three stray cats for a few years now and has been wanting so much to take them, she is thinking about it before the winter..
I also have a pair of gerbils, one seems to have passed this morning..I am feeling sad today..I feel attachment to even the smallest animal, he was only a year old..I feel worried about the remaining one being lonely or disturbed, we will see..
I’m sorry to hear about your gerbil. I love hamsters and gerbils and think they’re so cute.
It’s so nice of your mother to do that for the stray cats. What’s scary is I learned that by the time a kitten or puppy is six months old they can procreate. So we were sure to get the male kitten and the mother fixed right away, (and Moose was already fixed when he found us.) People don’t care how much damage they are doing to animals when they dump one out on the streets, especially one that hasn’t been spayed or neutered.
Oh thank you so much Pam..I will be getting another gerbil because I have been reading and being told that gerbils thrive in pairs and he will be lonely..poor thing..
I know I feel so terrible when people let their pet go into the street..its so sad and creates more problems..Luckily I live in a cat friendly neighborhood, I have a wonderful neighbor who volunteers for an animal rescue and he brought all the strays my mom looks after to be fixed..They are are the happiest street cats around! lol