All right, it’s here.
It is the month of May, and I also declare it Extreme Honesty Month.
You’re all going to participate, hopefully.
We’re all going to participate in extreme honesty month.
Here is what it is all about:
For the next 31 days and 31 nights, you’re going to be extremely honest with everybody you come into contact with.
You’re no longer going to worry about what to say. You’re not going to be stuck inside your head. You’re going to speak your mind—no filter.
You’re also going to realize that the world is going to respond to you in an entirely different way. They’re going to respond to you in ways that you never have before.
For the next 31 days, you’re going to be fully authentic, real, and loving. You’re going to live your life every single day full of love—remember that. The two virtues necessary to be an honest person, are courage and love.
It takes courage to be completely you and say what you really feel. It also takes love to be able to do it without being a dick.
I don’t want you to attack people. Tell people how you feel but do it from a place of love. Don’t call people out from a place of anger or resentment—that will make this month very difficult for you. Be honest from a place of love.
You can come from a loving place, and explain why you’re hurt, why you’re sad, why you’re angry, why you’re upset. You’re more likely to honestly express yourself if you can control your emotions while you do it. Coming from genuine, positive emotions like respect, courage, and love will give you greater control.
This will be your most challenging and empowering month ever.
But imagine being able to walk up to a woman who you think is absolutely beautiful, and actually say it because you mean it, not because you want something from her.
Imagine being able to walk into your boss’ office, and explain to them why things are not working out for you at work, and your ideas on how things can be better so the work environment can be a more powerful, creative environment for everybody to flourish.
Imagine being able to tell your parents things you’ve always wanted to say. Imagine having a sit down with your best friend, who has been real selfish with your time and explaining how you feel.
Imagine being able to say all the things that have been dominating your thoughts for the longest time. Imagine being able to let them out and discuss them, so you can live a free, clear life.
That is what it is all about.
Extreme honesty month, it is time for all of you to join in.
I will be blogging (and tweeting #extremehonestymonth) every single day, sometimes more than once.
I will post videos.
I will post podcasts.
It is all going to be about being real, and I’m going to share with you what’s going on in my life, some of the conflicts, and some of the things I’m working on. Sharing with you is going to help me become more honest, and more real, and more open about my personal life.
I look forward to every day of this month, I hope you do too.
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And if you want to officially join me for a month of total honesty, and you want to do it in a very public way, click to tweet the following:
I am celebrating extreme honesty month. I vow to speak nothing but the whole truth for the next 31 days. Join me. – Click to Tweet.
Does this mean that we send a mass mailing to all of the guys in online dating that says, “the line, “I just payed for this site just for you” is what every guy on here is sending? and they’re obviously sending it to every girl”
Ugh…it’s getting old….
Ok I just told the hottest guy ever that he’s that (David you have mail hee hee)
Why are we doing this again? I’m not doing it for validation and I’m sure not doing it to keep him because I pretty much ruined that part for myself now!
I love that audio on your next one!!!!!!!!!
Which questions do we ask guys? What do they want to be asked?
We’re supposed to talk beauty girl talk to them, right? b/c I don’t know what the other girlies are doing but that’s what I do!
Is this a good thing to say to them? I just heard the funniest beauty secret that you use a matchbox for!!!!!!!!!
An emergency nail file! Is that hot or what?!?!?
I’m soo cheesy!! guys are so mean! One guy told me I was cheesy! How rude! Girls are the only ones who compliment me! Guys never do! What could this mean…..
….obviously they have bad taste!
I’m going to make a facebook page and only add girls as friends! No guys allowed! They won’t ever get off of the Miss America judgement panel! I can only be myself around girls! Girlfriends don’t tell me that I’m not the best like one guy did
(he is now buried in my backyard jk!) Then, I’m going to post a bunch of photos of myself with only girlfriends and it will look like I’m a lesbian like my cousin and then when my mom comes across it she will have another spaz!
Another a-hole told me, “I’m still looking for my dreamgirl”. Another one said, “I kinda found another girl”.
Ummmm….why are you telling me?!?! I never did anything hurtful to you. I never chased you or asked anything of you. I was just interested in getting to know you as a friend! Ever heard of not saying anything if you don’t have anything nice to say?!?!
I get so many non hot jerks putting me down and so many guys not interested in me that when an extremely hot guy actually comes along and tells me that I’m hot, I don’t even believe him
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I’m just trying to put this out of my mind and pretend that he’s not.
So I was getting to know the hottest guy ever and….he’s in the medical profession.
He is so hot that just thinking about him for a second turns me on for the rest of the day!
OH….MY…..GOD… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MfmYCM4CS8o&ob=av3e THAT’S HOTTT
All of the guys that I meet aren’t my age and they’re all looking to have kids so none of them can go anywhere so I’m stuck where I’ve always been stuck.
I hit it off with guys younger than me but they just end up leaving for someone their own age so I feel like I shouldn’t even start anything with guys who aren’t my age anymore 
but it’s fun and they’re hot. idk. I missed out on hot guys in school b/c my mom said not to date guys who aren’t my age 
Honesty month has been the best. I keep instinctively going back to the dating games and lines that all of the other dating coaches say to do that I worked so hard at implementing in order to get success and… they were disastrous! I lost all of the guys and what they said to do was stupid and made me look even stupider!
So the model secrets book says we eat 2 tablespoons of spicy salsa, 2 papaya enzyme tablets, 2 deodorized garlic tablets, acetyl l carnitine, co enzyme q 10 for our breakfast, lunch and dinner! It says that they also eat toilet paper but we’re not going to do that!
then we have to try relastyl, reservetrol plus, green tea, vit A, C, coconut water or milk or something…
What this is supposed to do…we don’t know yet!
My mom says actors take amphetamines and get vitamin injections so I guess this is what doctors are taught to do to get patients to lose weight! It’s no longer their secret with the internet available! I don’t know if I want to take amphetamines after seeing Requiem for a Dream! I always tell her, “mom, I need Adderall” and she’s like, “people that are already up, can’t take uppers”.
One actor that she had only used to drink green tea that’s it and she told me what happens and that’s disgusting and I didn’t want to know that!
I’m going to miss Extremely Honest Month! When guys say that they would like me to come over, normally all of my dating training says no this will teach the guy not to lead, he’s supposed to come to you not you to him, it will show that you’re desperate, not high value, he won’t take you seriously but since it’s Extremely Honest Dating Month, I think, “steamy hot guy? want’s me to come over? Honestly:
HELL YEAH!!”
This is a great ana plan! My entire GI tract is on fire from the flaming hot fiery spicy salsa! The supplements taste like candy!
Mangosteen juice is miraculous, too! Love that stuff! That’s not part of it, though!