That’s right.  You women are all obsessed with your feet.

I’ve been in New York City the last five days, and all I see are women on the street looking at their feet.

I think to myself, why are women so obsessed with their feet?  What’s going on?  Do women of New York City have a foot fetish?

No, it’s not a foot fetish—it’s called a fear fetish.

That’s right.  You have a complete fear of looking at men.  It’s no wonder why women don’t meet men—they’re constantly looking at their toes, their feet, their boots, and everything else!

Here’s the deal, ladies: you aren’t going to find men by looking at the ground; unless we lay down on the ground, you’re not going to meet us there.

You have to stop living in fear.

Women are so fearful of looking at a man in the eyes.

I know right now that some of you are thinking, “It’s New York City, there are so many crazy people.”

But there are so many crazy-awesome people too! Nothing bad is ever going to happen from smiling at somebody on the street.  (Plus, there’s a million people around you to protect you if something bad happened, so no real worries there.)

Women do this all the time.  They’re constantly looking at the ground, and then they wonder why they don’t meet more men.

Here’s the deal: most men are not going to do anything extraordinary to meet you.

Most men are not going to even stop you on the street and talk to you unless you smile, say hello, and be friendly.

If you want to have more success with men, you have to give men the feeling that you’re an approachable woman. You’ve got to start looking at men that you’re attracted to.

You need to start making more eye contact and smiling and being flirty.

If you don’t start looking at men that you’re attracted to, you’re not going to meet men.

Does this sound too black and white? Well it is.

I’m sorry for pulling you out of your comfort zone. I’m sorry for addressing your fears.

But in life, if you sit back and allow your fears to dominate, then you’re going to live a very unfulfilling life.

So play the eye contact game.

Make it a game to look at every attractive man directly in the eye when you walk past him.

Every one!

You’re guaranteed to meet some interesting, (hot) men if you do this.

Have fun.