“You’ll meet a great guy when you least expect it.”
How many times have you heard that pitiful phrase?
Would that theory work in other areas of your life?
You’re going to have a great career when you least expect it.
You’re going to buy a great home when you least expect it.
You’re going to lose weight when you least expect it.
You’re going to win the lottery when you least expect it.
You’re going to have great friends in life when you least expect it.
How silly does that theory sound when applied to these other areas of life?
“…When you least expect it”—the least proactive phrase in the English language.
How are you going to meet a man when you least expect it? How about going out there and being proactive? How about making it a part of your life every single day to go out there and meet men, so that way you expect to meet a great man, you know you’re going to meet a great man, and you deserve to meet a great man.
Women that get what they want in life always expect it.
When I set up my business, I expected it to be successful. When I create a product, I expect it to be successful. I don’t write things and hope people will like it, I know people will like it, I know people will listen to it.
When I’m single and dating, I go out with the expectation of meeting a great woman.
When you least expect it…
Stop the madness.
So the next time one of your friends with the positive mental attitude gives you that line of getting things when you least expect it, look and them and say, “You know, I don’t buy that phrase any more. I’m going to go out and be proactive, I’m going to flirt with men, and I’m going to go work on myself. I’m going to start dating and I’m going to expect to meet somebody great.”
Because that’s what winners do.
All good things in life come to those who work hard. So get out there and earn your man.