What’s Your Excuse Audio

Let me ask you something that I probably

already know the answer to…

Have you ever been out in a bar or restaurant, seen a girl that you wanted to talk to, but just couldn’t find the right thing to say? Or even worse, you had yourself convinced from the start that you wouldn’t have the right thing to say – so you didn’t even get up the nerve to try? Did you ever have a few drinks and finally convince yourself you had a great pickup line, but at the end of the night you were still walking out of the place alone and embarrassed?

When you see an attractive girl in “non-pickup” places like the supermarket or a store, do you have even more excuses why you can’t or shouldn’t say something … and do you convince yourself that the excuses flying around in your head are valid? Do you hear “the voice” that even helps you come up with all the reasons not to talk to a girl?

“This isn’t a place to pick up girls… She’s not interested in talking to a guy in this kind of place… I’m not all dressed up to make an approach… she wouldn’t go out with someone who shops in this kind of store…” and the opportunity just walks away while you’re staring at the goods.

Like I said, I already know the answer. Because the vast majority of guys everywhere in the world have had that same damned voice in their head holding them back from meeting and talking to girls for most of their lives.

For some guys, the same old excuse gets in the way of meeting a hundred different girls. For others, there’s a hundred new excuses for not talking to the same cute girl they see every day in the office or at the coffee shop on the way to work. The excuses stop you from “getting the digits” of a babe you’re crazy-hot for, or they stop you from being able to talk to different girls before you can figure out if they’re hot or not.

Whatever your excuses are, and whatever the details are of which excuses cost you the chance at which girl, the point is that you know for sure that those excuses flying around in your head have screwed up your chances with hundreds of girls. Maybe even the girl of your life.

How would you like to take that voice and
those doubts out of your head just like you
take the trash out of your house?

Let me share with you a story from one of my clients. When you read this I want you to think back on all of the missed opportunities in your life, and what your excuse was for not approaching the woman you wanted to meet:

I’m strolling down the 16th St. Mall at lunchtime to pick up a sandwich at my favorite stop, Suzy-Q. As I’m crossing the street I hear some rumbling noise behind me, like a cart or something. I turn my head back and to my left, and sure enough there’s a very attractive young lady pulling a cart. Slim, medium length wavy dark hair, about 5’ 5” with an ethnic look like Italian or Mediterranean, and a killer smile, probably in her late twenties or early thirties. Naturally, I slow and turn to her saying “How ’bout giving me a ride?” Her response: “Oh, that’ll cost you.” In the same fluid exchange, I suggest, “Well how about if I give you a ride?” Her reply, “That’d be a first.” Chit chat ensues in rapid fire fashion to the effect of me saying how I thought she was going to run me over and then realized wait a minute, I can hitch a ride, etc etc, all the while she’s laughing and firing comments back. The girl could not stop laughing at everything I said. I know you hate the sports analogy, but I have to say it anyway, yes I was on my game – oh so very on. The cart she’s pulling is from Nancy’s Catering, a business downstairs on the pedestrian mall, about three blocks from where we meet. I remark that the cart is empty and say too bad I can’t ask for some goodies that were on it – her reply “Too bad you missed out.” More exchanges come, including her asking me, “I bet you were one of those kids that used to jump on and ride the shopping carts”, to which I reply, “I still do”. This goes on a full two blocks, as we rapidly cruise down the Mall and are now a half block from the catering business. Still having fun but wondering how long I can keep up the exchange, while contemplating making a move, I ask her how she’s going to get the cart down the stairs to Nancy’s. Her reply: “That’s when I jump on!” The girl was smooth. Finally the Mall traffic gets tight and we no longer can walk side by side with the cart, so she maneuvers behind me as I say, “You want me to block for you?” And then, sadly, that’s it. I continue walking on and she drifts behind as other people mill and fill in between us. I look back as I approach the stairs leading down to Nancy’s and she’s back 15 feet, obscured by pedestrian traffic. I continue on without so much as a good-bye. Shoulda, coulda, wouldas filled my brain as I tortured myself with memories of my bro Daren’s “It’s gonna be on your mind” haunting echo. So why did I do nothing? The only lame ass excuse I’ll offer is that, even though I was smooth and scoring big points over the long walk, the tempo of the walk made me feel inhibited – like I needed to stop her – to just ask her what her name was and her situation and ask her out. The speed walking thing through me off, but it should not have mattered. Of course there were many many open doors here and I didn’t take any. Right from the start when she said a ride would cost me I could have taken her up on it and said, “OK, what’s your price? dinner?” – or when I offered her a ride, I could have said, “Come on, be adventurous, hop on.” I could have easily just blurted out, “So are you Nancy? (as in Nancy’s Catering), Then what is your name?” And I should have let her go in front of me and at the least offered to help her get the cart downstairs and then while we’re stopped at the top of the stairs, got down to business. Who knows, maybe she’s married, maybe she’s unavailable, maybe she was just rolling with things and had no interest – but as Big D says – now it’s gonna be on my mind and I won’t know because I didn’t do anything. Another Richie Regression for the books, and this one will definitely be on my mind.

How did you feel reading this guy’s story? I already know. You felt sorry for that guy because you remember all the times you were in the same situation. Because that guy didn’t have the right skills and knowledge, his fear of rejection cost him the opportunity to convert a chance meeting into an intriguing romantic encounter.

Fear of rejection is very powerful… but it’s a negative power that has been holding you back for years. What if I told you that I could teach you an easy to learn method for you to overcome that fear? What if you could learn exactly how to shut off that doubting voice in your head that comes up with all those damned excuses?

Here are the most common excuses for not approaching an attractive girl that I hear over and over throughout my 9 years of coaching men and women:

1. I’m afraid she’ll reject me.
2. If she rejects me, that means I’m not attractive to women.
3. I don’t know what to say when I approach her, or what to talk about afterward.
4. Okay, I say hello, my name is xxxx, then what?
5. My face twitches when I’m nervous, and right now I’m really nervous.
6. I want to look suave and confident, but it’s totally obvious I’m nervous.
7. She’s with her friends… they’ll be laughing behind my back when I walk away!
8. She’s eating dinner with her parents.
9. She’s going to think I’m weird for hitting on her at the grocery store.
10. She’ll just give me that petrified look and have no response.
11. She looks like she’s in a hurry, she’ll just get pissed that I stopped her to introduce myself.
12. She’s somewhat attractive, but I have to feel fireworks to risk letting her know I like her.
13. She’s beautiful, but she looks shallow.
14. She’s sexy, but too slutty to be the type I’d get seriously involved with.
15. I’m not in the mood to flirt.
16. I’m not dressed up enough. I don’t feel confident in these clothes.
17. I just freeze, when a friend challenges me to go talk to her. Terror floods through my veins.
18. She comes from a wealthy of a family. I couldn’t afford her lifestyle.
19. I get that deer in the headlights look when I approach a woman and surprise her. She’ll think I’m some kind of psycho.
20. She’s out of my league, let’s face it.
21. I’m sure she’s married or has a boyfriend.
22. This isn’t an appropriate time.
23. She’ll only say no anyway.
24. I’d like to talk to her but it would look to pushy.
25. If she rejects me I’ll have to see her every day at work afterward.
26. I’m not sociable and outgoing enough.
27. I’m not attractive enough.
28. Hot women only like jerks and bad boys.
29. I don’t find many women attractive both physically and personality wise.
30. I don’t have much in common with most people.
31. My hobbies are either expensive or eccentric so I don’t always have that much to say.
32. I hate small talk with a passion.

Now imagine for just one second that after years of practice and hard knocks I finally figured out how to push all those same fears and excuses out of my head and succeed with meeting women. –Imagine if I could show you how to eliminate all of those same fears and excuses.

Imagine if I could teach you how to stop thinking about
the fear and start having a conversation with that hottie
you were afraid to even look at last week.

Now stop imagining… because I did figure it out and I did become a success with women. Stop dreaming about having those skills – I will teach those skills to you for life!

I’ve put together an amazing one hour audio presentation that does just that! I actually de-construct each of those harmful, self-destructive excuses and teach you how to eliminate those fears in your head before you even think about approaching a girl. After you absorb and internalize this powerful knowledge and practice my time-proven techniques, you’ll approach any attractive woman without any fear or hesitation.

The number one excuse most men have for “chickening out” before approaching a pretty woman is not knowing what to say… and then looking stupid fumbling for the words. In this awesome skill-building presentation, I walk you through step by step how to overcome all approach fears… and help you develop a powerful, all-knowing mindset that radiates confidence when you walk up to any hot-looking woman you want to meet.

Here’s a secret that most men don’t think about: Mindset is the biggest make-or-break factor in attracting and meeting any girl! But nobody invests enough time or effort into building a confident mindset for themselves.

Do you want to know why I’m so good at walking up to women and making an instant connection? The reason is because I don’t care what they think about me… which makes me a lot more attractive to them than they are to me!

Let me repeat that… it’s really important. I am going to teach you to build and maintain a powerful and confident mindset. This is what creates the ability for you to walk up to a pretty girl, get her interested in you, and have a great conversation. By absorbing and practicing my amazingly effective education and training exercises, you will master the art of:

• How to start a real conversation without using corny “pick up lines”
• How to meet new people every day, in your own surroundings, without changing your daily routine
• How to project and radiate inner confidence
• How to master the critical “2 second rule”
• How you can (and must) stop thinking about what they’re thinking
• The one word that works when you’re really nervous
• The last thing you must say before you walk away to intrigue her even more
• What she’s really thinking in her head and how to take advantage of this power
• Why you should approach when you’re the most nervous
• What happens after “hello” and how to save the conversation
• How to turn off the voice in your head that’s been costing you dates for so long
• The 3 things that build your confidence in all approach situations
• How to project a more attractive image to the people around you
• How to overcome the excuses that prevent you from meeting new people
• How to meet more people faster, so you won’t put so much importance onto any one encounter
• The best places and times to meet the kind of people you want to meet
• How to let go of your fears and just say “hello”
• How to relax and just be open to what the moment brings
• How and when to wrap up the conversation and ask for a phone number or a date

My one hour audio presentation is a life-changing educational experience you can use immediately, plus absorb and practice the concepts over and over again. You’ll learn powerful lifetime skills, not cheap pick-up lines and sleazy “tactics”. The confidence I’ll help you create is genuine and powerful.

The best part is you don’t have to wait for this
to come in the mail, or drive to a store to get it –
You can download it right now for only $24.95!

It’s about time you finally got that terrifying, disappointing part of your life under control. Don’t spend one more day without the skills and power to improve the most important part of your life. Don’t let one more BS excuse keep you from having successful encounters with attractive women!

The possibility of wiping out your excuses forever… all for the meager cost of a movie for two? And without a single cent of risk?

This should be a really easy decision for you.

Just check out the program… try out the process the next time you’re out… and then let me know how well it works.

I’ll be waiting to hear from you.

David Wygant

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