Today I’m going to reveal exactly how you can read a hot woman, a hot girl. I’m going to go over three quick tips on what women want, and how not to blow it on a date.

So you’ve got a date, and you don’t want to blow it.

Have you ever had that mentality, where you have a great date planned. You think this girl can be something really amazing and special. You don’t want to blow it. So you go out on the date and you are super tense.

You take her out some place. It might be a little out of your range that you can afford.

You think about conversations that you want to have.

You take her out and you’re careful what you say. You make sure you don’t say anything too controversial. You agree with her a lot.

You figure you don’t want to rock the boat because you want to get a second date.

At the end of the date, you’re very gentlemanly. You look at her and shake her hand, or maybe give her a quick, nervous hug. You don’t want to blow it. You don’t want to show that you’re attracted to her. You don’t want to go in for the kiss and blow it.

You send her a text, saying you had a good time, and guess what happens?

You’re right, you got it, you blew it.

Going on a date all tight and tense is like a quarterback who is going to a game all tight and tense. Or a running back that is nervous that he’s going to get hit and hurt his knee. Or a guy that goes into a job interview all nervous and afraid to say anything in case he doesn’t get the job.

What you think about in life, you bring about.

If you truly believe you are going to blow a date, then you definitely are.

I remember when I was younger. I was really afraid of blowing dates. I remember I literally rehearsed dates with friends in high school and college. I would go through conversation topics. I would ask them, should we talk about this — talk about that?

I remember after a date, I would break down with my friends what we talked about, what I think the reaction was, how I played it safe, all this other stuff.

When you do that, you are going to blow the date.

Today I sat down with a good friend of mine, Melanie.

She’s in a happy, secure, amazing relationship.

She’s a beautiful, sexy, fantastic woman.

She’s insightful.

She joined me at my house. We had dinner, we hung out, we laughed, we talked. I decided to turn the video camera on her. Her advice comes very naturally.

You’re going to like what she has to say. She’s got a few quick tips on how not to blow a date.

She also has some tips on how you can be the most powerful version of you.

Which is really important.

To find out these three tips you need to watch this video.