Right now, I want you to imagine what it’s like to be female.

I want you to imagine what it’s like to walk down the street and have men look at you with lust, almost a rape-look in their eye.

Imagine walking down the street, late at night, feeling like you need to protect yourself.

Now, imagine being a female on a date.

A friend of mine called me the other day.

He said, “I’m not getting any callbacks on all these dates.”

I asked him, why?

Basically, he goes out with somebody, then after about an hour and a half, he starts fooling around with them. The next thing you know, he’s trying to have sex with them.

So I said to him:

“Imagine what it’s like being female. Imagine every single time you go out on a date, the man is constantly pawing at you, trying to get your clothes off.

“Imagine sitting down with somebody, and after an hour and a half, they want to get naked with you.”

Now, I know your male brain is thinking, that would be awesome!

That would be a dream to you, if a woman started pawing at you, ripping your clothes off, stroking you, getting you hard.

But women aren’t built like men. Women aren’t built to go out with somebody, and after an hour, get naked.

datingWomen like this thing called romance. Women like the art of seduction. Women want to feel respected and safe, and a whole range of other emotions.

Imagine for a second that every time you go on a date, with a whole range of emotions, the same thing always happened. No matter what guy, no matter who the guy is, they always end up trying to paw at you, get at you, take your clothes off, convince you to come back into their house, try to kiss you.

Imagine how you would feel.

That’s why I’ve been telling you guys, my entire existence, to take things slow. Be patient. Get to know somebody. If you do that, you’re going to have sex. You’re going to have consensual sex.

My friend said to me, “not one of these girls ever texted him back.” And I said, “of course not, because when they get home, all they want to do is take a long, hot shower, and clean themselves of you.”

“You’re basically pawing them. You’re acting like you never had sex before, and you’re acting like a lot of other guys do.”

You see, when women go out on a date, they want to go out with somebody who’s different than all the rest. They’ve been pawed at, mauled at. They’ve been touched at the end of every single date so much, that they just want a guy who wants to be with them. A guy who wants to get to know them.

That’s why you see them writing on all the online dating sites and apps that they’re not looking for a hookup.

Women are beautiful, sexual creatures. They’re going to sleep with a guy that does the exact opposite of pawing and mauling them.

So imagine what it’s like to be a woman, having to go through all this. Having to anticipate a date, and weed through all the guys to decide who to go out with.

They get ready and look all pretty, and smell all nice for the date. They enjoy the conversation. Then at the end of the date they get mauled, yet again, by a man who can’t control his sexual impulses.

It’s about being different. If you want to get the girl you have to respect the girl. In order to respect the girl you have to stop mauling the girl.

It’s not going to be your only chance. As a matter of fact, even if she is a little tipsy, a little drunk, and you end up mauling her and she mauled you back, the chances of seeing her again are still slim to none.

Because once she starts talking to her friends, once she starts to think about what she did, she’s going to lump you into the category of all the other maulers she’s been out with.

If you want to get the girl, have some patience. Get to know the girl. Because sex and mauling and pawing and heavy petting and make-out sessions are so much better when both of you are relaxed. When you know each other. When you’re comfortable around each other.

It’s a beautiful thing when that happens. And it only happens when you start going out and hanging out with somebody and treating them like a beautiful equal. Instead of a toy that you want to maul and get at like an oversexed or undersexed high school teen.