Do you want to know the key to having a great relationship?
Do you want to avoid reading thousands and thousands of articles on the Internet?
Do you want to know the key, the secret, the one thing that will enable you to have a great relationship from the second you meet somebody?
In all my years of coaching and working with people and communicating to people and going over things, re-hashing conversations that should have been happening two lovers…
I’ve come up with one thing, and one thing that literally will enable anybody to have a great relationship from the second you meet somebody. Do you want to know what that one thing is?
Well, before I tell you what that one thing is, it’s something that most people fear because it takes being vulnerable, open, and raw.
You see, if you’re going to have this one thing, and you’re going to have a great relationship, you can’t fear what I’m about to tell you.
If you fear what I’m about to tell you, then you are not going to be able to have that great relationship because then, everything in that relationship will break down.
Are you ready? Are you ready for the one thing, the one thing that will literally give you a great relationship from the second you meet somebody?
Here it is.
That’s right. Simple, honest communication.
Not being afraid to say what you feel. Not being afraid to call somebody out if they do something to you.
Not being afraid to state your feelings that somebody hurt your feelings, no matter where you are in that relationship, whether it’s week two or week seven hundred.
Honest, raw, real communication. It is the only way to have a great relationship.
You see, most people want a great relationship, so they are afraid of doing the wrong thing in a relationship. So by being afraid of doing the wrong thing, what happens is:
You don’t really communicate your needs, wants, desires, wishes, feelings, and anything. You keep it safe because you don’t want to push the other person away.
You don’t want them to misinterpret things.
But whoa, wait a second. Aren’t they misinterpreting everything because you’re not really communicating in the first place?
You make up all these reasons and excuses, okay? You don’t want to seem too pushy, too needy, too this, too that.
But in reality, anybody who wants to have an honest, open, raw communication and wants to do so from the get-go stands a really great chance of actually making a relationship work.
You see, the magic of boy-meets-girl is really great.
Boy meets girl. Hopefully, boy approaches girl. Hopefully, girl is receptive to the approach. They talk. They communicate. They kiss. They feel. They’re both adults, and they both know they haven’t met somebody this fascinating or amazing in so long, and they can actually talk about it. And when things come up, they tackle it right away. Why?
Because raw, honest communication is the precedent to having a great relationship.
The more you talk about, the greater chance you’ll understand each other. And if you understand each other, you’ll actually be able to get to know the real person. And then, if you fall in love with the real person, you’re actually having a real relationship.
You see, most people fall in love with the — well, the well-represented, or the well-presented — representative.
And then, all of a sudden, when the real person starts coming out, they get a little confused. They don’t understand why things are the way they are. They want the representative back.
Well, here’s what I say to all of you.
Fuck the representative! And I’m not talking in the physical world. I’m not talking about having sex with the representative because that’s what you’re going to have if you are dating a representative.
I’m telling you to be raw, vulnerable, open, not afraid, unbelievable lines of communication, not being afraid of being judgment because the fact of the matter is you’re looking to find your greatest love you’ve ever had, and you can’t do it unless you have raw, honest, vulnerable, real communication.
Are you getting the message? How do you feel right now? Scared? Terrified? Excited? Share your feelings down below.
For those of you that want to understand what raw, vulnerable communication is all about, then you better come and join me at the Love Blueprint Seminar in Los Angeles, because that’s what we’re going to be doing: being raw, honest, open, and vulnerable. And you’re going to have that love relationship that has always eluded you.