How many of you know the exact type of girlfriend you’re looking for?

In my Love Blueprint seminar, I go over how to uncover your own blueprint — a blueprint for you to follow.  A blueprint for you to understand exactly how you show up and who you are when it comes to a loving relationship.

Silly people don’t know their own blueprint. Let’s go deeper into what it is.

The blueprint is who you are.  It’s your trigger points in a relationship. I’m talking about the positive trigger points, not the negative ones.

What sparks you to care about someone.

Your blueprint is all about what you want and desire from a loving partner.

For instance, define all these things, and you’re going to come up with your blueprint.

What’s your definition of great sex?

Are you somebody that likes to have sex for three hours and have marathon sessions.  Or is sex to you just a quick fast release?  It’s okay.  There’s no wrong or right answers, it’s who you are as a person.

Define what affection is.

What does affection mean need to you.  What type of affection and nurturing do you need in a relationship.  Do you enjoy when a woman is very loving and warm and affectionate, or does it just make your skin crawl.

Define great conversation.

Define what your perfect weekend is.

Define as much as you possibly can, because that is your blueprint. If you don’t know your own blueprint, how are you going to know what makes a girlfriend for you?

Part of what I tell everybody at the Love Blueprint seminar, is to have a dating journal.  Write your blueprint down, read it every single day.  That way then you can start recognizing when those people show up in your life.

Not only that when you go out on a date and feel a woman, you get to know here, you’ll know whether or not she’ll fit that blueprint.

It’s a powerful tool that too many people don’t spend any time working on.

And it’s the number one tool that all people need to start using when it comes down to relationship building.  When it comes down to finding the right relationship.

I want all of you to have a loving, beautiful, amazing relationship, but it all starts with getting to know yourself first.  Getting to know who you are, what you’re all about.  Getting to know what you’re willing to put up with, and what you’re not.

So today there’s a video: The Five Different Types Of Girlfriends.

While you’re watching it I want you to start to consider what your love blueprint looks and feels like. Then you’ll start to feel like the one that chooses who you date, and who you don’t.