I truly believe that our mind plays evil games with us.  I’m going to explain why right now.  First there’s a video at the end of this blog post.  It’s going to help you not only to overcome the fear of rejection, but it’s literally going to put rejection where it belongs; away from you forever.

Yet why do so many men spend so much time fearing rejection?

First off, I want to tell you something. Rejection doesn’t exist. It’s a made-up human emotion.

There’s No Such Thing As Rejection

I’ve said it so many times, yet I still seem to get e-mails every single day from men that truly believe that rejection is a force of evil who’s sole purpose is to ruin their life. If someone doesn’t want to be your friend, if some woman doesn’t want to be with you doesn’t mean they’re rejecting you.

It doesn’t mean you’re not a fantastic, amazing, incredible man. You’re just not triggering an attraction with this particular person on that level.

Attraction Is Not a Choice That You Can Manipulate 

Attraction is an emotion. Nobody decides to be attracted to you. They either feel it, or they don’t. Now, you can create it, but I’ll get to that in a minute. Most guys feel like that if they approach a woman and she’s not instantly attracted it’s a personal slap in the face. In reality, it means nothing. You see, in life, you can’t change how someone views you by trying to manipulate them.

Attraction Is Created From Within

When you love yourself, when you respect yourself, when you listen, if you’re present, and you enjoy other people, you’re going to create attraction. Some will find you more attractive than others. Some won’t find you attractive at all. But in turn, you won’t care. The key to understanding women is to remember that attraction is an emotion that’s created when two people meet.

It’s only created when two people are authentic and honest. You’ll walk around and you won’t care who’s attracted to you. You won’t be with a woman who doesn’t want to be with you. I don’t believe in rejection at all. I want you to have no fear of rejection. Usually, when you fear something it’s what happens to you. If you walk around fearing rejection you’re going to be rejected because what you think about, you bring about.

Check out today’s video. Today’s video has a life changing technique that will help you not only overcome the fear of rejection, but it’ll help you look at yourself in a more powerful light. And you’ll be far more attractive to women.