eye contactHave you ever thought about the power of eye contact?

I was hanging out with my daughter last week, and whenever she spoke to me, she looked directly into my eyes the whole time. Her eyes were never looking down, never wavering, and never looking around. She was looking into my eyes constantly. And it made me realize something; Most people’s eye contact sucks!

Think about when you’re on a date, or you meet someone for the first time you’re really attracted to. How often do you look directly into their eyes without breaking your gaze? It’s something you really need to be aware of. You see, eye contact is so powerful. It’s such a powerful way to connect with a woman. It tells her, “Hey, I want to focus on you right now. I don’t want to focus on anything else but you.”

You have to be more aware of your eye contact when you’re talking to women; especially if it’s a woman you’re attracted to. Seduction starts with your eyes. The next time you start talking to a beautiful woman, look right into her eyes. Next time you’re on a date, look into her eyes. The eyes never lie, and if you’re really in tune and practiced at this, you can tell whether someone’s telling the truth, you can tell how they’re feeling, and you can get them to open up more. People tend to trust you more when you can look them in the eye.

It’s funny how children can teach you so many amazing lessons about communication and love. They probably teach us as much as we teach them. They teach you how to be present, they teach you the power of eye contact, they teach you how to love unconditionally, and they teach you how to have fun no matter what age you are. Oh, and of course they teach you patience. Whew, nothing can drive you crazier than a kid that refuses to go to bed after a long day of fun!

The biggest lesson I’ve had from my daughter is about the true meaning of love, and I have to tell you, at the very beginning it’s all about the eye contact. Don’t fear it. Embrace it. Be more powerful with your eyes, because they speak so much. The old cliché that the eyes are window to the soul is true in so many ways!

There’s your tip for the day!

Go start using it!