Comments on: Your Twenties http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: kismet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24196 kismet Sat, 07 Mar 2009 08:13:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24196 Thanks Khiem! Thanks Khiem!

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24173 hunter Fri, 06 Mar 2009 15:30:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24173 Gaby, you are getting pressured?...how awful!........my family doesn't do that to me. If they ever do, I will hire two women and ask them to wear their sexiest outfit, and we can all go to my family reunion. Gaby, you are getting pressured?…how awful!……..my family doesn’t do that to me. If they ever do, I will hire two women and ask them to wear their sexiest outfit, and we can all go to my family reunion.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24162 Tony888 Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:19:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24162 Why was the link removed? Why was the link removed?

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24161 Tony888 Fri, 06 Mar 2009 03:52:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24161 I don't know where else to post this since I don't have access to the Forums. I didn't find this place soon enough. But I found this article that should be a must read for everyone, but especially perhaps for younger people in their 20s, so it'll go here: I don’t know where else to post this since I don’t have access to the Forums. I didn’t find this place soon enough.

But I found this article that should be a must read for everyone, but especially perhaps for younger people in their 20s, so it’ll go here:

]]> By: M http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24134 M Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:21:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24134 Thanks David. Great post. You're spot on about the twenties being the most emotional period. I just turned 23 last week, and as difficult as it is to admit it... it feels pretty fucked up inside. I do have trouble figuring out my place in the world and life in general. This has really helped. Thanks again. Thanks David. Great post.

You’re spot on about the twenties being the most emotional period. I just turned 23 last week, and as difficult as it is to admit it… it feels pretty fucked up inside. I do have trouble figuring out my place in the world and life in general.

This has really helped.

Thanks again.

]]> By: Gaby http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24131 Gaby Thu, 05 Mar 2009 07:05:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24131 I don't know if David has touched the topic about the pressure society (family, friends, peers) put on you to have a partner in your live. It'd be interesting. I don’t know if David has touched the topic about the pressure society (family, friends, peers) put on you to have a partner in your live. It’d be interesting.

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24129 K Thu, 05 Mar 2009 06:27:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24129 Hey, lol - tell the family womenfolk that you are just window-shopping because you don't want to buy into the looks-too-good-to-be-true bunch! They'll get it... Hey, lol – tell the family womenfolk that you are just window-shopping because you don’t want to buy into the looks-too-good-to-be-true bunch! They’ll get it…

]]> By: lol http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24126 lol Thu, 05 Mar 2009 05:20:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24126 "David, As Yakub wrote, you really nailed it! I’m also part of the 20’s crowd that already posted here. I’m aware that I don’t know what I want right now and I won’t know it till much later. I’m trying to get to know me, to love me and that’s why I get so mad when my mom or granma or aunt or any other female in my family asks “So, have you got a boyfriend?”. As David said, I do want a great relationship but not right now!!!" I feel for you Gaby (I'm a guy), Many guys out there have no idea how much women are pressured by their families on various issues... “David,

As Yakub wrote, you really nailed it!

I’m also part of the 20’s crowd that already posted here. I’m aware that I don’t know what I want right now and I won’t know it till much later.

I’m trying to get to know me, to love me and that’s why I get so mad when my mom or granma or aunt or any other female in my family asks “So, have you got a boyfriend?”.

As David said, I do want a great relationship but not right now!!!”

I feel for you Gaby (I’m a guy),

Many guys out there have no idea how much women are pressured by their families on various issues…

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24099 K Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:37:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24099 OK, DAVID - there's a theme itching to be scratched out on another blog - How about one where the guys share some of their fathers' wisdom (or lack thereof) where life experience taught them that their fathers were right or wrong? Or where their father's actions had to be UN-learned? Or other male role models in their lives before they left home? OK, DAVID – there’s a theme itching to be scratched out on another blog – How about one where the guys share some of their fathers’ wisdom (or lack thereof) where life experience taught them that their fathers were right or wrong? Or where their father’s actions had to be UN-learned? Or other male role models in their lives before they left home?

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/your-twenties/1322/#comment-24098 K Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:35:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1322#comment-24098 I hope that you guys aren't going to get locked into one mindset before you even hit thirty! You may be surprised where life leads you and how the things that you thought were of major importance will not even be a second thought when you really hit your stride. When you consider that your brain is generally not done growing until well into your twenties, you really have to consider yourselves far ahead of the pack just by finding this site relevant to your lives. Guys your age who may seem to be more successful than you may simply have had better social role models to observe and imitate. Anyone who has spent a fair amount of time in church activities knows what I mean. Ditto for folks with a more money who engage in social clubs for the whole family. They aren't any better than the rest of us but they have had more exposure to good social behavior models. You have to KNOW better to DO better. And we're here getting it for free.... I hope that you guys aren’t going to get locked into one mindset before you even hit thirty! You may be surprised where life leads you and how the things that you thought were of major importance will not even be a second thought when you really hit your stride. When you consider that your brain is generally not done growing until well into your twenties, you really have to consider yourselves far ahead of the pack just by finding this site relevant to your lives.

Guys your age who may seem to be more successful than you may simply have had better social role models to observe and imitate. Anyone who has spent a fair amount of time in church activities knows what I mean. Ditto for folks with a more money who engage in social clubs for the whole family. They aren’t any better than the rest of us but they have had more exposure to good social behavior models. You have to KNOW better to DO better. And we’re here getting it for free….

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