Comments on: You Have Nothing To Complain About http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32836 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Tue, 27 Oct 2009 04:07:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32836 Ted, How about you don't ask how you approach her without anxiety and you just do it? Nike says it right: "just do it!" When you stop thinking about it being a big deal, it stops being a big deal. When you are hungry and go open your fridge, do you hesitate, do you feel anxious about opening the fridge? NO!!! B/c it's normal and natural for you. You need to change the way you perceive what approaching women really mean. Approaching and talking to women is NORMAL. It's part of you being a social creature. Stop thinking it's a big event... or it's THE event of your life because she is hot... or she could be your future g/f... or whatever. Stop putting so much pressure on such a simple act. It's normal to just talk to a girl. Just do it... and you might realize... what was the anxiety all about? It doesn't exist! Ted,

How about you don’t ask how you approach her without anxiety and you just do it?

Nike says it right: “just do it!”

When you stop thinking about it being a big deal, it stops being a big deal.

When you are hungry and go open your fridge, do you hesitate, do you feel anxious about opening the fridge? NO!!! B/c it’s normal and natural for you.

You need to change the way you perceive what approaching women really mean.

Approaching and talking to women is NORMAL. It’s part of you being a social creature.

Stop thinking it’s a big event… or it’s THE event of your life because she is hot… or she could be your future g/f… or whatever. Stop putting so much pressure on such a simple act.

It’s normal to just talk to a girl. Just do it… and you might realize… what was the anxiety all about? It doesn’t exist!

]]> By: Greg http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32571 Greg Fri, 23 Oct 2009 08:47:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32571 tried, tested & true... It really is as simple as going up to someone with a smile on your face and introducing yourself... A wonder what messes our minds can create when we allow them to tried, tested & true… It really is as simple as going up to someone with a smile on your face and introducing yourself… A wonder what messes our minds can create when we allow them to

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32569 Miguel Fri, 23 Oct 2009 06:47:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32569 hahahahahahaha/// oh yeah, try the traffic here in the philippines, ESPECIALLY the highways and Manila. My goodness... rush hour is worse here that you would need to walk your asses back home. Oh and David... you WILL need a shotgun and bullhorn. You haven't even seen the types of drivers here in the Philippines... jeepney drivers, taxi drives, truck drivers, ignorant drivers, tricycle drivers... it's really really crazy here. So if you ever decide to drive here in the Philippines... brace yourself and get ready to explode. :) hahahahahahaha/// oh yeah, try the traffic here in the philippines, ESPECIALLY the highways and Manila. My goodness… rush hour is worse here that you would need to walk your asses back home. Oh and David… you WILL need a shotgun and bullhorn. You haven’t even seen the types of drivers here in the Philippines… jeepney drivers, taxi drives, truck drivers, ignorant drivers, tricycle drivers… it’s really really crazy here. So if you ever decide to drive here in the Philippines… brace yourself and get ready to explode. :)

]]> By: Charles http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32565 Charles Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:52:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32565 Ted- Its all about practicing, and observing. Just say hello to everybody, be sincere, and it will become natural. The woman you want to approach is one of those people you randomly say hello to. Dont approach her any different, engage in casual conversation and watch the magic happen, naturally! Hope that helps. Ted-
Its all about practicing, and observing. Just say hello to everybody, be sincere, and it will become natural. The woman you want to approach is one of those people you randomly say hello to. Dont approach her any different, engage in casual conversation and watch the magic happen, naturally! Hope that helps.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32564 Tony888 Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:00:12 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32564 False Barbara. False Barbara.

]]> By: Barb http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32558 Barb Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:21:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32558 How about women who have approach anxiety. I've been told that women should know how to attract men to approach them, and should not do the approaching. True?? How about women who have approach anxiety. I’ve been told that women should know how to attract men to approach them, and should not do the approaching. True??

]]> By: ted http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32557 ted Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:19:39 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32557 Coach Jacob, Not big into meditation and yoga ... Wondering what you can do when you're in the moment and the woman you want to approach is right in front of you. How do you calm approach anxiety in the moment?? Coach Jacob,

Not big into meditation and yoga …

Wondering what you can do when you’re in the moment and the woman you want to approach is right in front of you. How do you calm approach anxiety in the moment??

]]> By: a.movie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32556 a.movie Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:17:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32556 the photo david used is not even the worst freeway here. add another two lanes of gridlock and you have the 405; one of the consistently worst freeways in the US. the photo david used is not even the worst freeway here. add another two lanes of gridlock and you have the 405; one of the consistently worst freeways in the US.

]]> By: a.movie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32555 a.movie Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:11:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32555 everytime someone mentions la traffic i always tell the following story. my brother is a civil engineer (they are the guys who make decisions about traffic patterns) and he told me a while ago that la had to make curb parking more dangerous just to make the rest of la driving safer. in any other city, the distance between curb and the first parking spot is much farther than in la. the reason for that is, the engineers and city planners in charge of traffic patterns decided that they would cut curb space in half to allow an average of two more cars to park on the street than is acceptable in other cities. it causes more curb accidents, because your visibitity is reduced by the extra cars parked where your line of site would go. the science behind it is, if there were two less cars able to park on the road per city block, there would be two more cars out on the road looking for a parking spot causing EVEN MORE traffic than what is out there now. take the cars off the road and you help eleviate the problem at the expense of the small fender benders caused by not having a safe line of sight to the end of the curb. and la traffic is still really bad. everytime someone mentions la traffic i always tell the following story. my brother is a civil engineer (they are the guys who make decisions about traffic patterns) and he told me a while ago that la had to make curb parking more dangerous just to make the rest of la driving safer.

in any other city, the distance between curb and the first parking spot is much farther than in la. the reason for that is, the engineers and city planners in charge of traffic patterns decided that they would cut curb space in half to allow an average of two more cars to park on the street than is acceptable in other cities. it causes more curb accidents, because your visibitity is reduced by the extra cars parked where your line of site would go. the science behind it is, if there were two less cars able to park on the road per city block, there would be two more cars out on the road looking for a parking spot causing EVEN MORE traffic than what is out there now. take the cars off the road and you help eleviate the problem at the expense of the small fender benders caused by not having a safe line of sight to the end of the curb.

and la traffic is still really bad.

]]> By: Coach Jacob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-have-nothing-to-complain-about/2356/#comment-32554 Coach Jacob Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:46:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2356#comment-32554 hahhaha howe I dont' think that will happen anytime soon although I really enjoy California! hahhaha howe I dont’ think that will happen anytime soon although I really enjoy California!

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