Comments on: You Control Their Reaction http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Mats http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39102 Mats Tue, 16 Mar 2010 05:58:00 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39102 @ Collin. Sure Collin, we can try to be more confident, and girls will be attracted to us more. But if you are pragmatic, and look at it from the girl's point of view? Most of the guys that are actually pretty good chaps, reliable, and sincere,... are more the shy guys. While many lying and cheating douchebags are very outgoing, because they don't actually care about anything than having a hole to poke that night. From there to me it follows, that it is very wise for girls to give the shy guys that stumble over their words a chance, two or even three. If they do, and give the stuttering guy a chance, soon they will see him become more confident. The smartest girls I've met, the ones who usually get really good guys, have long relationships, know this by themselves. I like to tell girls this, so they have to spend less time getting hurt by douchebags that have all the talk but don't care about them. Isn't that just a good thing to do? @ Collin.

Sure Collin, we can try to be more confident, and girls will be attracted to us more. But if you are pragmatic, and look at it from the girl’s point of view?

Most of the guys that are actually pretty good chaps, reliable, and sincere,… are more the shy guys. While many lying and cheating douchebags are very outgoing, because they don’t actually care about anything than having a hole to poke that night.

From there to me it follows, that it is very wise for girls to give the shy guys that stumble over their words a chance, two or even three. If they do, and give the stuttering guy a chance, soon they will see him become more confident.

The smartest girls I’ve met, the ones who usually get really good guys, have long relationships, know this by themselves. I like to tell girls this, so they have to spend less time getting hurt by douchebags that have all the talk but don’t care about them. Isn’t that just a good thing to do?

]]> By: Drew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39039 Drew Sat, 13 Mar 2010 05:27:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39039 What did you do? How did it go? Did you get a number? What did you do? How did it go? Did you get a number?

]]> By: Nick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39038 Nick Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:53:13 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39038 Example.. I went into my first hash bar tonight. Great place, with good vibes. When I walk into the bar, I saw 2 paths(seats). One right between beautiful woman conversing and enjoying themselves, and the other in the corner between a couple dudes. Do I challenge myself by putting myself out of my comfort zone? Or do I go right back to where it has Always been safe? David says you should make yourself uncomfortable everyday. By challenging yourself in these kinds of situations you learn about yourself and grow. Example..
I went into my first hash bar tonight. Great place, with good vibes. When I walk into the bar, I saw 2 paths(seats). One right between beautiful woman conversing and enjoying themselves, and the other in the corner between a couple dudes. Do I challenge myself by putting myself out of my comfort zone? Or do I go right back to where it has Always been safe? David says you should make yourself uncomfortable everyday. By challenging yourself in these kinds of situations you learn about yourself and grow.

]]> By: Drew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39037 Drew Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:13:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39037 Yeah, I know. Thanks. I guess there's no good excuse for not doing it. I'm just afraid of the consequences of talking to a girl who may have already judged me. But I'll perservere Yeah, I know. Thanks. I guess there’s no good excuse for not doing it. I’m just afraid of the consequences of talking to a girl who may have already judged me. But I’ll perservere

]]> By: Nick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39034 Nick Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:52:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39034 I find difficulty in groups as well. But the difficulty is all INTERNAL. The difficulty is only the internal battle I go through. So I end up staying in my comfort zone, which is inside me head, and never get what I want to achieve. But if I OBSERVE the situation I will see that the brunette is the leader of the group because she's doing the most talking, and if LISTEN I will hear her just say to her friends that she "doesnt understand why guys are so whimpy nowadays, and have no idea how to talk to women".. Now embrace that moment and Shine :) I find difficulty in groups as well. But the difficulty is all INTERNAL. The difficulty is only the internal battle I go through. So I end up staying in my comfort zone, which is inside me head, and never get what I want to achieve. But if I OBSERVE the situation I will see that the brunette is the leader of the group because she’s doing the most talking, and if LISTEN I will hear her just say to her friends that she “doesnt understand why guys are so whimpy nowadays, and have no idea how to talk to women”..

Now embrace that moment and Shine :)

]]> By: Drew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39033 Drew Sat, 13 Mar 2010 01:52:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39033 Thanks. I guess I'll have to keep trying. It's so difficult to approach a girl in a group of other girls. Thanks. I guess I’ll have to keep trying. It’s so difficult to approach a girl in a group of other girls.

]]> By: F http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39029 F Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:08:37 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39029 Nick, so true. Today I was at boosterjuice, some place where smoothies and juices are sold. I walked in and there was this awesome redhead. She and I don't know eachother, she immediately asked me if I frequent the bar because she has never seen me before. So one thing leads to another and we are talking about sports and tourism and just having a good time. It's all about observing and listening. Nick, so true.
Today I was at boosterjuice, some place where smoothies and juices are sold. I walked in and there was this awesome redhead. She and I don’t know eachother, she immediately asked me if I frequent the bar because she has never seen me before. So one thing leads to another and we are talking about sports and tourism and just having a good time.
It’s all about observing and listening.

]]> By: Nick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39024 Nick Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:31:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39024 I feel you Drew, but you CAN randomly approach and compliment ANY girl you don't know. Because you live in the moment. And at this particular moment you want to comment on the amount of sodium in the juice you're holding, to the gorgeous blonde next to you who's checking out the ingredients in her drink. We just have to get out of our heads. It really does keep up from achieving the things we want. The key to getting out of your head is, living in the moment. AND the key to living in the moment is OBSERVING and LISTENING to whats around you. OBSERVE and LISTEN to environment, emotions, subtleties and embrace the experience. Because we all know how quick these Moments just FLy.. I feel you Drew, but you CAN randomly approach and compliment ANY girl you don’t know. Because you live in the moment. And at this particular moment you want to comment on the amount of sodium in the juice you’re holding, to the gorgeous blonde next to you who’s checking out the ingredients in her drink. We just have to get out of our heads. It really does keep up from achieving the things we want. The key to getting out of your head is, living in the moment. AND the key to living in the moment is OBSERVING and LISTENING to whats around you. OBSERVE and LISTEN to environment, emotions, subtleties and embrace the experience. Because we all know how quick these Moments just FLy..

]]> By: Drew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39019 Drew Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:52:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39019 No, female psychology is illogical by the definition of logic. It makes no common sense. I have been successful at implementing some of these techniques, but I can't randomly approach or compliment a girl I don't know. That hasn't worked. No, female psychology is illogical by the definition of logic. It makes no common sense. I have been successful at implementing some of these techniques, but I can’t randomly approach or compliment a girl I don’t know. That hasn’t worked.

]]> By: F http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/you-control-their-reaction/3592/#comment-39017 F Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:53:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3592#comment-39017 Drew: Try changing your mindset. Do not start losing respect for women, next thing you know you might end up a woman hater. That is not a place you want to be in. I know some people heading for that direction. It's all in their mindset. They've gone down the wrong road. Female and Male pshychology is illogical in the eyes of both sexes. But that is what makes life so fun. Unpredicability. Drew:

Try changing your mindset. Do not start losing respect for women, next thing you know you might end up a woman hater. That is not a place you want to be in. I know some people heading for that direction. It’s all in their mindset. They’ve gone down the wrong road.

Female and Male pshychology is illogical in the eyes of both sexes. But that is what makes life so fun. Unpredicability.

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