Women: Want A One-Night Stand?
July 31, 2010 
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We don’t talk about one-night stands that often. Let’s talk about them from the women’s side today.
When it comes to one-night stands for women, I say go for it! Go have a one-night stand.
They’re amazing for your sexuality. They’ll make you feel free. You’ll have a blast, and I want you to do it with no guilt.
If you choose to have a one-night stand, just pick a guy and have fun. Don’t judge yourself. Don’t allow your friends to judge you.
Sex is something about which we need to be free and open. We need to stop judging ourselves, and start experiencing ourselves.
To the men, if you have a one-night stand with a woman — if she allows you to have a one-night stand with her — don’t judge her. Just thank her for sharing an amazing night with you.
Give her the option of whether or not to do it again with you. If she chooses you to have a one-night stand, just say “That was a great night. I don’t know if you want to move forward and do this again, but I’d like to.” If she declines, thank her for a great night and make her feel wonderful.
So, if you have a one-night stand with somebody, let the other person feel great about it. They chose you for that one-night stand because they thought you weren’t going to be an asshole at the end of it.
The next time you have a one-night stand, thank the person for a wonderful evening. You never know. You might get another one-night stand with that person a few days later.
Giving her the option to do it again is so important. You don’t want to make her feel like a glorified sock you just masturbated into.
One night stands are great, but I would not do it with people who live in my area, because there is a big possibility that they will judge. In my case, it would be “player”. In a woman’s case it would be “slut”. This leads to the opposite sex not respecting us and start believing that we would cheat on them.
One night stands are great, if the moment feels right, go for it.
I’ve only done one night stand once and it turned ugly towards the end though but I don’t have any regrets towords that now I have an idea of how to handle it!
Onenightstands are great. I had only one. There as to be a lot of attraction or a lot of alcohol.
Make her feel beautiful- I really like that.
Interesting topic David
Women have told me they aren’t into one night stands because they don’t want to be “easy” or a “slut.” In the heart of David’s suggestion to challenge women, I’ll often say “will you actually feel easy or slutty, or are you worried about what others might think? I’m the only ‘other’ here that will know, and I respect you for doing something you want to do and not worry what your friends might think.” It doesn’t always work, but it has. Perhaps she hasn’t heard that response before.
Let’s have some fun!!! I’m tired of sitting around waiting for someone!!!!!!!!!
Wygant, of all your articles I’ve read, this one is where i’m not agreeing with you..but it’s okay, you’re in a free country, lots of free thinkers, you’re free to do anything you want or like. but for the religous others, this act simply don’t fit in their culture &/@ belief. where is the moral part of this article? from one point of view, you’re promoting adultery here when the wives would ‘go for it’ as you’ve suggested.
*sorry for typo.. *religious
I have to agree with faithful guy. I think that this argument is nothing but one big fallacy. Even if I were an atheist I would tell my children to not have one night stands and keep your sexual partners before marriage to a minimum. I’ve had a one night stand, and upon ejaculation wanted nothing to do with the girl, I was worried about my own health, and would instantly found myself wishing that she was someone I gave a shit about. Any girl that lets a guy hit a homer on the first at bat is a slut, she screws off of impulse, and she will someday have to either A-lie to her prospective husband, or B-tell him the truth and make him feel inferior and less proud to call her his wife and sex partner (as so many others have already screwed her with zero commitment required) Guys that go out and need to “smash gash” or “beat some guts” are vulgar and should not be respected either. I like to meet girls at bars or parties, maybe fool around a bit the first night. But preferably get to know them and have to work on them a little bit in order to share the ultimate display of physical attraction with them. This argument of yours is not logical and does not apply to anyone with wholesome values, christian based or not.
^^this guy has issues
To good al boy, maybe if you went to church got yourself married instead ejaculation as you put than you would not run around in bars disrespecting women, it piss me off that men like you give your opinion as free as you share your penis around. Tell you what leave the one night stand to people who are interested and keep your opinions to yourself of 19 century bullshit about women being slut because they prefer having sex you instead marrying that’s fortunately why you are probable still single.
Ps good al boy keep in your pants right.