Comments on: Why Drew Brees Is The Sexiest Man Alive http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Martin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37680 Martin Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:39:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37680 This was a great blog. Even for a non-jebus-believer like myself, the power and obvious importance of faith has not been lost. I have found however that it's quite easy to be cool with yourself when life in general is going well, but at the moment I'm unemployed and have trouble feeling like anything but a complete loser. And when I feel like a loser I act like one. Consequently I'm perceived as one. This will change of course when I find a job, but it seems wrong somehow that that should be my prerequisite for feeling ok with myself... The anonymous posting thing is good, but it makes it hard to reply to someone when there are more than one anonymous posting. On 4chan.org, where most people post under anonymous, each post in a thread is assigned their own number, so when you want to reply to a post you click on their number and it shows up in your post. Might be useful here methinks. Increase da peace and happy valentines day! This was a great blog. Even for a non-jebus-believer like myself, the power and obvious importance of faith has not been lost. I have found however that it’s quite easy to be cool with yourself when life in general is going well, but at the moment I’m unemployed and have trouble feeling like anything but a complete loser. And when I feel like a loser I act like one. Consequently I’m perceived as one. This will change of course when I find a job, but it seems wrong somehow that that should be my prerequisite for feeling ok with myself…

The anonymous posting thing is good, but it makes it hard to reply to someone when there are more than one anonymous posting. On 4chan.org, where most people post under anonymous, each post in a thread is assigned their own number, so when you want to reply to a post you click on their number and it shows up in your post. Might be useful here methinks.

Increase da peace and happy valentines day!

]]> By: Mats http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37450 Mats Wed, 10 Feb 2010 07:35:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37450 Quote (Gerardo): "Mats: Wait a sec, you mentioned having shame about reading this kind of blog? Why is that? " Well having a masters in psychology (psycho-analysis), it took some humility to check out this kind of thing, as you would think psychologists know more about this than some person from experience. Along the way though, I realized that psychology is focused on helping people mostly in abstract ways (therapy) or drugs. At the same time some psychologists almost jokingly remind us, that a positive new relationship is nearly always more effective than therapy. Yet not one psychologist while be able to help you in a pratical way in that field. In a way this is a novel kind of therapy perhaps. Changing how you are is a lot easier if you can couple this with a changing environment (relationships with others). Still if I'd go back to the faculty they would first laugh at me. But then after a while they would probably admit the usefulness of this kind of thing. You often need a tiny bit of love and good vibes to get anything started. You are correct though, Gerardo Saldana, that you have to learn from people. For some time it's been my attitude now that I can learn something from EVERYONE, no matter how dumb or crazy they are. I guess that is how I was able to be open to the ideas going from the pick-up cons (not artists :)) to here. Quote (Gerardo):
“Mats: Wait a sec, you mentioned having shame about reading this kind of blog? Why is that? ”

Well having a masters in psychology (psycho-analysis), it took some humility to check out this kind of thing, as you would think psychologists know more about this than some person from experience.

Along the way though, I realized that psychology is focused on helping people mostly in abstract ways (therapy) or drugs. At the same time some psychologists almost jokingly remind us, that a positive new relationship is nearly always more effective than therapy.

Yet not one psychologist while be able to help you in a pratical way in that field. In a way this is a novel kind of therapy perhaps. Changing how you are is a lot easier if you can couple this with a changing environment (relationships with others).

Still if I’d go back to the faculty they would first laugh at me. But then after a while they would probably admit the usefulness of this kind of thing.

You often need a tiny bit of love and good vibes to get anything started.

You are correct though, Gerardo Saldana, that you have to learn from people. For some time it’s been my attitude now that I can learn something from EVERYONE, no matter how dumb or crazy they are. I guess that is how I was able to be open to the ideas going from the pick-up cons (not artists :) ) to here.

]]> By: lots of monkey chatter! http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37394 lots of monkey chatter! Wed, 10 Feb 2010 00:13:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37394 lol, boring openers lastnite 2 b honest, so boring im embarressed 2 write them, but guess thts monkey chatter, one was when i walked past a girl she luked bord shitless in her face lent up against side bar not really talkin 2 her friend, as i walk past i very confidently went u luk bord shitless, she resonds, no im jst looking for sum1....i sed who a talk dark handsome male ...smile....and pointed at my self, (5 foot 7), she goes no jst this guy, anyway theres a big huge piller in front of her so she cant see rest of club so it was clearly bs, so i go hmmmm interesting, ul struggle 2 find nyone behind tht, then i sed nice talking 2 you enjoy ur night and left.....i jst feel in a normal day place u luk bord comment casually as you walk past wud b greeted with more openess from a girl, and in a bar these casual openers are not gna build attraction as quick as u need 2! ........................................one final thing 2 note,which is mayb showing when i talk 2 women, even tho i talk confidently, i dnt believ young women under 25 find me attractive nymore, and find it hard believing i can attract them, see when i was younger id go out pull women drunk and not anylise tht i cudnt do it sober take them out few days later sober and mayb start dating them,i was pritty confident in my dinial comfort zone, its only since i started studying game in last 15 months in an attempt to lose approach anxiety when im sober,had rejections sober, its like had a negative effect on my head, add this up with a few 9or 10 women canceling first dates on me in last 2 months and 2 b honest im monkey chattering 2 fuk. i see alot of gud qualitys in myself 2 , im fun all my mates think im funny, iv dated 100s of women b4, older women 35 plus think im super cute, jst i dnt seem to beable 2 attract the women i want always get rejected!i hope u clever coaches can make some sort of shit with my essay above, i think the conplexity how iv written it willchange ur line of work, speak soon -lots of monkey chatter!(well i had 2 live up 2 myname didnt i!) lol, boring openers lastnite 2 b honest, so boring im embarressed 2 write them, but guess thts monkey chatter, one was when i walked past a girl she luked bord shitless in her face lent up against side bar not really talkin 2 her friend, as i walk past i very confidently went u luk bord shitless, she resonds, no im jst looking for sum1….i sed who a talk dark handsome male …smile….and pointed at my self, (5 foot 7), she goes no jst this guy, anyway theres a big huge piller in front of her so she cant see rest of club so it was clearly bs, so i go hmmmm interesting, ul struggle 2 find nyone behind tht, then i sed nice talking 2 you enjoy ur night and left…..i jst feel in a normal day place u luk bord comment casually as you walk past wud b greeted with more openess from a girl, and in a bar these casual openers are not gna build attraction as quick as u need 2! ………………………………….one final thing 2 note,which is mayb showing when i talk 2 women, even tho i talk confidently, i dnt believ young women under 25 find me attractive nymore, and find it hard believing i can attract them, see when i was younger id go out pull women drunk and not anylise tht i cudnt do it sober take them out few days later sober and mayb start dating them,i was pritty confident in my dinial comfort zone, its only since i started studying game in last 15 months in an attempt to lose approach anxiety when im sober,had rejections sober, its like had a negative effect on my head, add this up with a few 9or 10 women canceling first dates on me in last 2 months and 2 b honest im monkey chattering 2 fuk. i see alot of gud qualitys in myself 2 , im fun all my mates think im funny, iv dated 100s of women b4, older women 35 plus think im super cute, jst i dnt seem to beable 2 attract the women i want always get rejected!i hope u clever coaches can make some sort of shit with my essay above, i think the conplexity how iv written it willchange ur line of work, speak soon -lots of monkey chatter!(well i had 2 live up 2 myname didnt i!)

]]> By: mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37392 mario Wed, 10 Feb 2010 00:07:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37392 And yea I've been doing so much monkey chatter. I mean sometimes I do it because I'm so bored. But yes most of the time cause I'm bored, but sometimes I do it cause I'm insecure. It's not right. So is it right for me to do monkey chatter when bored? Another thing is that when I talk in class I sometimes talk about how girls are so curious. And I name all the things girls do. Is that bad or good? for me to talk about girls like that?? And yea I’ve been doing so much monkey chatter. I mean sometimes I do it because I’m so bored. But yes most of the time cause I’m bored, but sometimes I do it cause I’m insecure. It’s not right.
So is it right for me to do monkey chatter when bored?

Another thing is that when I talk in class I sometimes talk about how girls are so curious. And I name all the things girls do. Is that bad or good? for me to talk about girls like that??

]]> By: Coach Jacob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37391 Coach Jacob Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:42:58 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37391 Mario- you're very welcome! we're always here to help. Mario-

you’re very welcome!

we’re always here to help.

]]> By: mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37387 mario Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:53:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37387 Mats man wow. I understand exactly what you are saying. I think i'm focusing too much on looks and not enough if they interest me or not. However I recently was crazy about this girl. She's the romantic type meaning that she wanted a guy with the qualities in a romantic book. She also had trouble issues. She also looked like Taylor Swift so you could imagine how pretty she was. Anyways after realizing that this girl was not interesting at all I just let her go. Before I would of kept on insisting and kept on talking to her. Now I could say that I have grown up and seen that whats important is how I feel. Thanks man. I really now see how I worried I was. I think that right now I'm way more calm. In a way I see myself as the Alpha-Male in the class because I'm always talking with my friend about everything. Relationships, fantasies, music, girls, sex, everything. The class is always listening to what we have to say. So yea they see me in my eyes as the guy who is not shy and talks and is funny. So Why in the world should I be worried. Plus who cares if the girl is pretty. I know that she talks to other guys and thats a great challenge. Before I used to want easy things. I now realize that if its easy then its not worth it or not gonna last. I have to get that challenge and step up to the plate and strike it with steel knives. Thats the only way I'm going to progress as a person. Its the only way I will truly grow as a person and stay that way and never go back to my old self. David, Jacob, Khiem, everyone that replied thank You very much. I really apreciate that you guys take your time and listen to what I have to say. Without more, Mario Mats man wow. I understand exactly what you are saying. I think i’m focusing too much on looks and not enough if they interest me or not. However I recently was crazy about this girl. She’s the romantic type meaning that she wanted a guy with the qualities in a romantic book. She also had trouble issues. She also looked like Taylor Swift so you could imagine how pretty she was. Anyways after realizing that this girl was not interesting at all I just let her go. Before I would of kept on insisting and kept on talking to her. Now I could say that I have grown up and seen that whats important is how I feel.

Thanks man. I really now see how I worried I was. I think that right now I’m way more calm. In a way I see myself as the Alpha-Male in the class because I’m always talking with my friend about everything. Relationships, fantasies, music, girls, sex, everything. The class is always listening to what we have to say. So yea they see me in my eyes as the guy who is not shy and talks and is funny. So Why in the world should I be worried. Plus who cares if the girl is pretty. I know that she talks to other guys and thats a great challenge.

Before I used to want easy things. I now realize that if its easy then its not worth it or not gonna last. I have to get that challenge and step up to the plate and strike it with steel knives. Thats the only way I’m going to progress as a person. Its the only way I will truly grow as a person and stay that way and never go back to my old self.

David, Jacob, Khiem, everyone that replied thank You very much. I really apreciate that you guys take your time and listen to what I have to say.

Without more,
Mario

]]> By: Gerardo Saldana http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37366 Gerardo Saldana Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:51:58 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37366 I agree with Collin. People who wish to stay anonymous can just give themselves any name they want. This way we can keep better track of who said what and give them a more personalized answer (I feel that its a bit easier to connect to someone with a nickname than to 20 people named anonymous). I agree with Collin. People who wish to stay anonymous can just give themselves any name they want. This way we can keep better track of who said what and give them a more personalized answer (I feel that its a bit easier to connect to someone with a nickname than to 20 people named anonymous).

]]> By: Gerardo Saldana http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37365 Gerardo Saldana Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:48:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37365 Lots of great stuff here as usual :D Mats: Wait a sec, you mentioned having shame about reading this kind of blog? Why is that? I see nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to become good at doing something you are not good at :P. Heck, the people who are considered to be the best at what they do, constantly seek advice and ways to improve (be it athletes, businessmen, public speakers, scholars, actors, comedians, writers, etc.) The people who are the absolute best, make a conscious effort to understand how the "game that they play" works, how to become better players, and how to make it more fun! :D If you want to be one of the best, then pick up the habits from the best! ;) Lots of great stuff here as usual :D

Mats: Wait a sec, you mentioned having shame about reading this kind of blog? Why is that?

I see nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to become good at doing something you are not good at :P . Heck, the people who are considered to be the best at what they do, constantly seek advice and ways to improve (be it athletes, businessmen, public speakers, scholars, actors, comedians, writers, etc.) The people who are the absolute best, make a conscious effort to understand how the “game that they play” works, how to become better players, and how to make it more fun! :D

If you want to be one of the best, then pick up the habits from the best! ;)

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37342 Sandra Tue, 09 Feb 2010 17:22:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37342 well my thoughts to anonymous he can do as he wishes. now back to face book luv n hugs well my thoughts to anonymous he can do as he wishes. now back to face book luv n hugs

]]> By: Collin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/why-drew-brees-is-the-sexiest-man-alive/3678/#comment-37337 Collin Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:18:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3678#comment-37337 If you don't want to share your real name, just use a different one or type your initials. Hell, type in fake initials. The anonymous poster thing seems unnecessary though. How are we supposed to know if an anonymous post is by the same anonymous poster or a different one? If you don’t want to share your real name, just use a different one or type your initials. Hell, type in fake initials. The anonymous poster thing seems unnecessary though. How are we supposed to know if an anonymous post is by the same anonymous poster or a different one?

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