Comments on: WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5272 hunter Mon, 08 Oct 2007 14:53:35 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5272 to Herk/Cabo, C/D cups get hit on all the time, it is a womans prerogative, if she will talk to the man or not.... to Herk/Cabo,

C/D cups get hit on all the time, it is a womans prerogative, if she will talk to the man or not….

]]> By: Chrystal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5252 Chrystal Sun, 07 Oct 2007 15:06:08 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5252 Cabo...Lowering standards? That does not jive with my "Give 100%" upbringing. I will agree, however, on the keeping it light for a while. I think a lot of other women make the mistake of meeting one guy and trying to make him into an instant boyfriend. Men date a few women at a time before making their choice for girlfriend. That approach has always worked better for me. I go out way more than my friends do, and im having more fun. Also, I'm not pinning my hopes on just one guy. If I have to kick him him loose I'm still dating a couple other men, its not such a big deal. Cabo…Lowering standards? That does not jive with my “Give 100%” upbringing. I will agree, however, on the keeping it light for a while. I think a lot of other women make the mistake of meeting one guy and trying to make him into an instant boyfriend. Men date a few women at a time before making their choice for girlfriend. That approach has always worked better for me. I go out way more than my friends do, and im having more fun. Also, I’m not pinning my hopes on just one guy. If I have to kick him him loose I’m still dating a couple other men, its not such a big deal.

]]> By: Herkenau http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5250 Herkenau Sun, 07 Oct 2007 08:19:36 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5250 Hunter, What percentage of men will walk up to a woman they find attractive and start a conversation? 5%? 50%? 95%? I'll bet you the drink of your choice at the bar of your choice that it is less than 50%. It took me a long time and more effort than the people on this blog can imagine but I bet I can go mano-a-mano with any of the same said people on this blog including David as far as approaching is concerned (of course, closing is a whole other matter). The evolutionary psychologists posit reasons for why approach avoidance is so common. However, it can be overcome, and the natural flowing male essence can be liberated. It just takes some of us longer than others. Herk Hunter,
What percentage of men will walk up to a woman they find attractive and start a conversation? 5%? 50%? 95%? I’ll bet you the drink of your choice at the bar of your choice that it is less than 50%. It took me a long time and more effort than the people on this blog can imagine but I bet I can go mano-a-mano with any of the same said people on this blog including David as far as approaching is concerned (of course, closing is a whole other matter). The evolutionary psychologists posit reasons for why approach avoidance is so common. However, it can be overcome, and the natural flowing male essence can be liberated. It just takes some of us longer than others.
Herk

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5248 hunter Sun, 07 Oct 2007 07:53:59 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5248 to Cabo, you have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet?.......really?....how so?..... to Cabo,

you have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet?…….really?….how so?…..

]]> By: Herkenau http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5245 Herkenau Sun, 07 Oct 2007 06:44:01 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5245 Orale Cabo, "You have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet." Yeah, there are whole tape series made and books written and workshops given on this topic. lol. The statement is totally right on, of course. As far as "lowering your standards," I am interpreting this to be a short-hand way of saying, "Don't demand that everyone be obvious marriage material before you go out with him/her." There is beauty in everyone, and something to be learned from everyone. Life is short, so let's all lighten up and appreciate each other for the good parts that are in all of us. How say you? Herk Orale Cabo,
“You have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet.” Yeah, there are whole tape series made and books written and workshops given on this topic. lol.
The statement is totally right on, of course.

As far as “lowering your standards,” I am interpreting this to be a short-hand way of saying, “Don’t demand that everyone be obvious marriage material before you go out with him/her.” There is beauty in everyone, and something to be learned from everyone. Life is short, so let’s all lighten up and appreciate each other for the good parts that are in all of us.
How say you?
Herk

]]> By: cabo http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5240 cabo Sun, 07 Oct 2007 02:02:55 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5240 You have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet. Plus you have to lower your standards, and keep it an easy going relationship for awhile. Easy going, no drama. You have to be ballsy to meet someone you want to meet.

Plus you have to lower your standards, and keep it an easy going relationship for awhile. Easy going, no drama.

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5224 Bertie Sat, 06 Oct 2007 16:30:51 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5224 I don't think so Hunter. The tequila has never made me hallucinate, it has made me quite lovable though. I don’t think so Hunter. The tequila has never made me hallucinate, it has made me quite lovable though.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5210 hunter Sat, 06 Oct 2007 06:02:31 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5210 to bertie, hah! how funny! if you take two shots of Tequila, you might see a man....he, he,hh.. to bertie,

hah! how funny! if you take two shots of Tequila, you might see a man….he, he,hh..

]]> By: Bertie http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5208 Bertie Sat, 06 Oct 2007 05:35:29 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5208 Since there's no man here, tequila is a no-no. Tequila seems to make me be a girl who can't say no. Since there’s no man here, tequila is a no-no. Tequila seems to make me be a girl who can’t say no.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/186/#comment-5207 hunter Sat, 06 Oct 2007 05:35:28 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/dating/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone/#comment-5207 to chrystal, ...do whatever works for you.... to chrystal,

…do whatever works for you….

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