When Is It Time To Stick It In?
November 24, 2009 
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When is the time when you stick it in without any glove, rubber or any protection? When is it time to just stick it in?
You’re dating someone and the very first time you sleep with them, they tell you they are on the pill and that they are clean. Do you just stick it in, or do you actually wrap it?
Do you actually wrap the johnson? Yes, you wrap it. You wrap the johnson.
You think to yourself, “Hmmm, I’m clean. If she says I can stick it in, it must mean that she’s clean.” Where does the trust come in when it comes to sex?
You know you want to be with this person. You know this is someone with whom you would like to explore a relationship. When, though, is the right time to go in without wrapping it?
We never really talk about this subject and about that there are sexually transmitted diseases. You can make each other get papers showing that you are both safe and have no sexually transmitted diseases.
How cautious are you? How careful are you?
Some people seem to just believe that the person they are with is clean as can be if she is on the pill or he doesn’t want to wrap the johnson. People play that game.
So, what is your take on this? I always say that if you don’t know the person well, then better safe than sorry. Wrap it.
Otherwise, you may be making your fourth or fifth date a trip to the AIDS clinic. How much fun would that be? I think we’ll go get some cocktails, have some dinner and go get tested together. That sounds like a blast, doesn’t it?!
Fact is even if I knew she was a virgin I’d still wrap it, just because I don’t want to get her pregnant. The addition of her perhaps not being clean makes the choice even more obvious.
I think part of this is obvious, i.e., that if you don’t know someone well and you haven’t had tests, then using protection is just simply mandatory.
If you are dating someone exclusively and you’ve both been tested for disease, then the answer is slightly more muddy. During parts of the month when I knew I couldn’t get pregnant, my ex-boyfriend and I would forego the “wrap” sometimes. Maybe not so smart, and something I NEVER thought I’d do before I was in such a good relationship…
As a young woman who doesn’t want STDs or babies I am on the pill and use condoms. I’m also going to get a full STD screening soon because I am thinking about getting sexyual with a new partner and I feel like it is my responibility to do everything I can to make sure I’m not passing anything on to him.
Very interesting blog I wonder what made you think of todays topic?
Todays picture is turning me on:)
4th date to the AIDS clinic hahhahaha
Crystal-
I liked what you had to share, I wish more women would think like you!
When it comes to thinking about protection, if I have just met the person, I don’t hesitate to warp it. I wait at least a month before I unwarp it. I don’t about anyone here but I’m just extra careful when it comes to all those sexual transmitted diseases.
Anyone here know the real cause of AIDS?
I meant to say how did AIDS come into existence?
That’s funny I just found out I’m not the only James on here. Hey lets call you James1:) I am the same way as you, even if she was virgin I would still warp it.
Talking about sex….is there a particular brand of condoms you guys recommend for more safety?
Hey John- you can never go wrong with Lifestyle, my favorite brand as of now is SKYN, check it out.
btw….i meant to say SKYN is made by Lifestyle.
Jacob- I’m looking that up now it says it feels like wearing nothing its really thin is it really?:)
John-
Yes its thin, and the rest you will have to find out yourself it its thin enough:)
Lol, moral of the story: wear a bag.
I’ll always be wearing condoms. I don’t want to have to have dramas about pregnancy, or getting sketchy about all that stuff… Been there, done that. =| Not fun
-Roxstar
How widespread is the strategy?… of “Let’s get tested 2GETHER B4 we have sex, for A VARIETY of STDs.”
Do sexual health checkups reduce ambiguity and can they be like anything else POTENTIAL sex partners do together?…
Get screened for everything between every partner; use condoms in any situation other than committed monogomy and other forms of birth control are used as backup at all times. That’s always been my strategy, anyway.
hey David, you want to hear something shocking?
My uncle way back in the 90′s was with a fiancee. well, let’s just say he was still in his 20s and followed the old fashioned way of waiting till marriage before sex.
the girl who he wanted to married always seduced him to get down and dirty, but he always refused.
well, he couldn’t take it anymore and requested that they take a test for any disease. He did it because the church he goes to recommands that for people who want to get married. makes perfect sense right?? well, in his suprise, he found out that she had hiv!! her whole family knew, but didn’t say anything.
He got really mad, but was glad because he would have been screwed.
so yeah, my parents really enforced us to always cover our dragon’s mouth when inside the cave, and for girls to request the men the same.
the only person I trust the most in this world is God, not even myself because I’m weak. ;D
im still a beginner(18 years old) and would like to ask of what it means to wrap it
Sezara…it means to use a condom.