It just has happened that way. It’s not that I actively try not to date in my race… I just have met and liked girls outside my race. I don’t meet Vietnamese women that often.

Chicks don’t wanna see your bank account,they wanna see you.When a woman loves you for you, she will stand by you weather your poor,sick or depressed.How do you know all these women are lying? Are you a mind reader? If so, teach me!

Cool advice.. Aiming to give such advice to women as well.

Cheers!

I do allright and have as much money as I need. But I make a point of it not to look rich-ish, or snobby, so I don’t attract and waste time on golddiggers. Any women will tell you money is not important but love is. Most of them are lying. But I have met many to whom it really not important. You can find them by not trying to look richer than you are, or if you are rich, by looking not rich at all. Dress down I say, stay clear of the trashy women.

Do you really believe everything that your friends tell you?

So what if she doesn’t do interracial dating? It only takes one positive experience for her to change her mind…. and that positive experience can be you!

I like to boil down attraction to a few key emotional points:
- can you get a woman curious/intrigued by you? Can you make her wanting to know more about you? (That’s a lot based on how much you open up to her, show her your world and the vision of yourself)
- can you get a woman feel comfortable and connected to you? (That has everything to do with you listening to who she is and finding ways to relate and connect with her)
- can you turn her on? (this is all about your seduction skills and your ability to keep it playful and fun)

If you can do that with women, there’s no women who won’t give you a chance.

I’m Vietnamese and I only date outside of my race. My current girlfriend is Armenian and I am the first Asian guy she’s ever dated. Who’s to say you can’t be the first Asian guy that white chick dates?

You really got to believe in yourself that you have a lot to offer. Show it to her… and connect with her… and let the rest takes place.

Look at Jacob too! Jacob is from Bangladesh and he dates mostly out of his race as well.

If money is a big issue for you, work something out to get more financially stable but don’t blame money issues for your women problems.

When you project yourself as attractive and fun and cool, women get interested in you, period.

And as Jacob said, you can always look for free events. In my experience, the best dates have been the simplest ones. A walk in the park can be a date along with a quick stop at the coffee shop. Is that very expensive, no.

A date by cooking at home and watching a rented movie would be the same. Be creative in your dating!

And honestly, if you are really THAT broke, women who actually REALLY like you can pay for you b/c they care about you.

The real issue is: can you give women a nice and pleasant experience when being in your company? The rest will take care of itself.

I am an artistic guy and love being creative. I don’t feel good when I’m not actively engaged in my craft and earning a living at it. I have dated while unemployed and yes, it does come down to who you are in the end, but not feeling fulfilled will detract from your relationship.

You can improve any situation, of course. I am dissapointed that I live with my family at 25 and am working hard to be financially independant. I’ve taught music lessons for years and could earn a good living at this, however I am not fulfilled through teaching and have retired from it. Some may say I’m stubborn in chosing to only to perform, however it is what makes me happiest and I believe it will lead to prosperity. In promoting my music, I’ve been rejected so many times it has lead to a thicker skin. I can definately apply this to dating.