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	<description>Sex. Relationships. Dating. That&#039;s what I&#039;m talkin&#039; &#039;bout.</description>
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		<title>By: Richard &#124; RichardShelmerdine.com</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-your-negativity-is-really-hiding/4173/#comment-40032</link>
		<dc:creator>Richard &#124; RichardShelmerdine.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 07:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We really do have no right to criticize others making effort to improve. It&#039;s a beautiful thing seeing someone face down their fears and it should inspire our love and compassion. If we criticize openly it means we&#039;re ultimately not satisfied with where we are in that area. Saw a post you did David on youtube a while back about body language and walking, still remembered it so it has to be good!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We really do have no right to criticize others making effort to improve. It&#8217;s a beautiful thing seeing someone face down their fears and it should inspire our love and compassion. If we criticize openly it means we&#8217;re ultimately not satisfied with where we are in that area. Saw a post you did David on youtube a while back about body language and walking, still remembered it so it has to be good!</p>
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		<title>By: F</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-your-negativity-is-really-hiding/4173/#comment-39888</link>
		<dc:creator>F</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 08:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chevon,

Try not to think about the number, but enjoy the moment. When I become too outcome oriented, I lose the power to just enjoy things.
If you get the number or email, great. If not, fantastic. That is my mindset that I am developing.
When I talk to a woman, and I run out of things to talk about after I listened to what she said, I will walk away to give my mind a break, relax and talk again to her later (If I am at a grocery store/gym/etc).
When we get into our heads, we become stressed. I know I do.

So I just try to ENJOY the moment :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chevon,</p>
<p>Try not to think about the number, but enjoy the moment. When I become too outcome oriented, I lose the power to just enjoy things.<br />
If you get the number or email, great. If not, fantastic. That is my mindset that I am developing.<br />
When I talk to a woman, and I run out of things to talk about after I listened to what she said, I will walk away to give my mind a break, relax and talk again to her later (If I am at a grocery store/gym/etc).<br />
When we get into our heads, we become stressed. I know I do.</p>
<p>So I just try to ENJOY the moment <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Coach Jacob</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-your-negativity-is-really-hiding/4173/#comment-39885</link>
		<dc:creator>Coach Jacob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 04:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chevon

You&#039;re relaxed in the beginning, your mind is empty, but it starts to fill up very quickly as soon as you start to think about the number close. You want to forget about the number and focus more on the conversation that means really listening to her without any outcomes in mind. In the men&#039;s mastery series we do deeper into how to tap into some great mindset so you can be relaxed and confident talking to her next time you meet her. Do you have that program?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chevon</p>
<p>You&#8217;re relaxed in the beginning, your mind is empty, but it starts to fill up very quickly as soon as you start to think about the number close. You want to forget about the number and focus more on the conversation that means really listening to her without any outcomes in mind. In the men&#8217;s mastery series we do deeper into how to tap into some great mindset so you can be relaxed and confident talking to her next time you meet her. Do you have that program?</p>
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		<title>By: Coach Kimberly</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-your-negativity-is-really-hiding/4173/#comment-39884</link>
		<dc:creator>Coach Kimberly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 04:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>chevon--what happens when you run out of confidence?  Usually that is when you start getting in your head with the monkey chatter.  The best thing to do is to listen to the woman and be in that moment with her and all will fall into place.  Being authentic is confidence...being yourself that is what it is all about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>chevon&#8211;what happens when you run out of confidence?  Usually that is when you start getting in your head with the monkey chatter.  The best thing to do is to listen to the woman and be in that moment with her and all will fall into place.  Being authentic is confidence&#8230;being yourself that is what it is all about.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 23:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t agree with you more David. I have defended you, as well as some of your clients/friends who appear in your videos. Guess what? I get people who then personally attack me back. It&#039;s just awful. 

I believe -- and nobody will convince me otherwise -- that a lot of these trolls on youtube are your &quot;competitors.&quot; They want to put you down anonymously. 

That is one of the reason I cannot stand pick up artists. Can you believe buying a product from someone called Dragon PUA or something? Give me a break. 

If I am going to spend my hard earned money to get some of the most personal advice--dating advice--I&#039;m gonna want to know that person&#039;s real name. That is one of your best strong points -- you don&#039;t hide behind your computer. You are up front about who you are and what you teach. 

Heck, I wish a David Wygant size balls and could put up over 200 plus free videos for the benefit of everyone on youtube. That&#039;s called having thick skin or to use your useful phrase &quot;I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am.&quot;   

BTW, in contrast, the people who comment on this blog on your site are the BEST. I&#039;ve had people in the comments on your blog in exceedingly polite terms tell me why I was wrong about X or Z. I welcome that. I know everybody on this blog does, too. There is no need to get into name calling. If you disagree with someone, just tell them why. 

PS You see David you got me all spun up? You created one hell of an emotion in me.  I&#039;m tighter than a hawk&#039;s ass right now. LOL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more David. I have defended you, as well as some of your clients/friends who appear in your videos. Guess what? I get people who then personally attack me back. It&#8217;s just awful. </p>
<p>I believe &#8212; and nobody will convince me otherwise &#8212; that a lot of these trolls on youtube are your &#8220;competitors.&#8221; They want to put you down anonymously. </p>
<p>That is one of the reason I cannot stand pick up artists. Can you believe buying a product from someone called Dragon PUA or something? Give me a break. </p>
<p>If I am going to spend my hard earned money to get some of the most personal advice&#8211;dating advice&#8211;I&#8217;m gonna want to know that person&#8217;s real name. That is one of your best strong points &#8212; you don&#8217;t hide behind your computer. You are up front about who you are and what you teach. </p>
<p>Heck, I wish a David Wygant size balls and could put up over 200 plus free videos for the benefit of everyone on youtube. That&#8217;s called having thick skin or to use your useful phrase &#8220;I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am.&#8221;   </p>
<p>BTW, in contrast, the people who comment on this blog on your site are the BEST. I&#8217;ve had people in the comments on your blog in exceedingly polite terms tell me why I was wrong about X or Z. I welcome that. I know everybody on this blog does, too. There is no need to get into name calling. If you disagree with someone, just tell them why. </p>
<p>PS You see David you got me all spun up? You created one hell of an emotion in me.  I&#8217;m tighter than a hawk&#8217;s ass right now. LOL.</p>
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		<title>By: Diego R+R</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diego R+R</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 23:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for this blog, David!

my favorite line is &quot;I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am.&quot;

that&#039;s pretty much it -when someone tries to infect you with their negativity, you have to remember you are in charge of how you feel. you get to choose whether that affects you or not. 

i actually used that line a while ago, when someone was talking trash about me. instead of feeling uneasy, i actually felt sorry for them, because their comments were so negative, that i thought they must not enjoy the inner peace i have nowadays, and that came from reading these blogs and doing some extensive self-work, a task that is never really over for anyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for this blog, David!</p>
<p>my favorite line is &#8220;I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am.&#8221;</p>
<p>that&#8217;s pretty much it -when someone tries to infect you with their negativity, you have to remember you are in charge of how you feel. you get to choose whether that affects you or not. </p>
<p>i actually used that line a while ago, when someone was talking trash about me. instead of feeling uneasy, i actually felt sorry for them, because their comments were so negative, that i thought they must not enjoy the inner peace i have nowadays, and that came from reading these blogs and doing some extensive self-work, a task that is never really over for anyone.</p>
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		<title>By: anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 21:05:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Guys really can be more humble on that. They really all about putting someone down. That&#039;s why they feel so frustrated with their life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guys really can be more humble on that. They really all about putting someone down. That&#8217;s why they feel so frustrated with their life.</p>
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		<title>By: chevon</title>
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		<dc:creator>chevon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 21:01:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>david i have a question.How can i build up more confidence or stoping run out of confidence, i watch your youtube video of confidence but I seems to run out of confidence,when i&#039;m  talking to  a woman i&#039;m relax and what mess me up is when i&#039;m trying to get her number i feel nervous about it?how can i stay confidence through out?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>david i have a question.How can i build up more confidence or stoping run out of confidence, i watch your youtube video of confidence but I seems to run out of confidence,when i&#8217;m  talking to  a woman i&#8217;m relax and what mess me up is when i&#8217;m trying to get her number i feel nervous about it?how can i stay confidence through out?</p>
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		<title>By: Rick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 20:52:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jacob: I don&#039;t have a favorite but I like the way David does all the new vidoes&#039;its neat and cool soundtrack in the beginning and end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jacob: I don&#8217;t have a favorite but I like the way David does all the new vidoes&#8217;its neat and cool soundtrack in the beginning and end.</p>
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		<title>By: Julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 20:51:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those that are negative will always attract more negative energy from life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those that are negative will always attract more negative energy from life.</p>
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