What Women Respond To More Than Anything Else
May 25, 2010 
26 Comments
It’s funny. If you ask a guy about a woman and say “What do you see?”, he will always pick out the most obvious things. He’ll say “She has great blonde hair” or “I like her body” or “She’s tall” or “She’s wearing a read shirt.” Women, on the other hand, notice totally different things about men.
Let me ask you a question. How many times have you been talking to a woman and, like magic, other women come over and start talking to you?
Guys always think this phenomenon is the result of women thinking you have a girlfriend and thus must understand how to talk to women. In reality, this phenomenon is totally attributable to an energy thing.
When you’re flirting, smiling and being real with a woman, other women see this energy that you’re putting out and the way the woman you’re talking to is responding to it. Women want emotions. Women can sense emotions. It is called women’s intuition.
Have you ever came home from work, and even though you told your girlfriend that you had a great day, she says, “Something is wrong.” They’re always right about it too. That’s their intuition.
Women read emotions better than men. They’re more in tune with emotions than men are.
So when they see you talking to a waitress in a restaurant, and the waitress is smiling and laughing, you will notice that other women will all of a sudden come and sit down next to you.
Why do they do that? They do that for a few reasons.
For one thing, you will stand out as being different from almost every other guy and how almost every other guy acts. Two, your energy will be very open. Three, they see how other women respond to you.
This is why talking to everyone all day long is equally important to meeting great women as going directly up to the women you want to meet. It’s really as simple as that. It’s an energy thing. Women love to talk to guys who bring good energy to other people.
hi david how are you hope your having a great day,
another great blog david your right about girls wanting to come over they just cant help it when you are talking to another girl, i never got the emotions of girls they always want the bad guy in films and in real life if you cry to some girls they think your a wimp or not man enough and dump you its a very 50/50 thing about womens emotions you could say to one you have a stunning body then they say you think im fat or something like that and you say no and they flip there lid over it lol if you could do a blog on whats best to say when a women starts to flip over a comment would be great coz a lot of men dont no wat to say i get that way to thanks very much david.
You hit the nail today on this David. As a woman I really believe in such a open energy!
Is that same as creating social proof?
Its funny that’s exactly how my guy friends describe women. I am guilty of that in the past thinking only about their physical attributes. I think we all need this kind of education, it is a must for every men. Why don’t they teach this in schools?
This is the power of attracting I have seen this work right after listening to the mastery series, man it was such a powerful experience to be able to see how women are emotional beings.
Clint-that sounds like you had some big realizations I’m also thinking about getting a copy of mastery series.
Get it anonymous you wont regret it.
Karl
Never seen you here before so on the behalf of Wygant Team welcome aboard:)
btw…where are you from Karl?
anonymous
I agree with Clint you will love it:)
Clint-
I know exactly how you felt. Isn’t it eye-opening to experience that?
Julia- Have you ever done that? I mean sit next to a guy who had a great energy with everyone.
Tony
Sometimes I wonder the same thing. Why isn’t this taught in school? That’s why I believe in the power of self-education:)
Jacob::: I also believe in that too. I think thats why so many people have trouble getting out of their head because the school teachers themselves are brain washed.
Coach Jacob the fearless:)
How you doing? I heard you were in nyc how was it bro?
and yea now i see what you guys really meant about the power of emotions. seeing is believing it was such an eye-opening experience!!!!!!!!
Tonight my goal is to meet 35 women. What you guys think is that a good goal???
Try being a little more realistic Anonymous.
Great blog, DW.
Anonymous, I think 35 is a bit ambitious for one night. You won’t have time to connect with any of them because you’ll be on to the next. I wouldn’t worry too much about setting a number for yourself, but if you do… make it 10, that seems reasonable. (And still impressive.)
Everyone is attractive when they are open. Being open is welcoming others, even if only unconsciously – mostly when it includes a smile.
I often hear people say this wasn’t taught in school. As a sometimes teacher over the years – I know that much is taught – not a lot is retained. Maybe you were taught it and you just can’t remember.
When you are ready the teacher will appear…. others have been waiting for you to get it for years, you just weren’t ready.
Thanks David for sharing these thoughts and actually impacting people.
Guys reading, how about sharing what you learn here with your friends in person??? If you have received it ‘like wow’, perhaps they will too.
The women around you men will thank you for it!
anonymous
I agree with Kevin. How about having a great time:)
Cathy J
That’s so true when we are ready the teacher do appear.
And yes guys please share the love:)
I ordered david’s how to be a master communicator and burned them to discs and sent them to my older brother,Hopefully he applies it,but he doesn’t have any focus or the drive that I’ve always had. He has a g/f and when his g/f tries talking to him sometimes she’s like “What’s the matter? He’s like “nothing, I just don’t have anything to say” So hopefully David can teach him how to hold a conversation through his CDs like I learned
It’s amazing once you learn how to hold a conversation that never stops.
great blog David!
It’s true; women do have intuition. And it’s what you always teach in everything; accentuate and portray positive energy. It’s all about energy.
And cool that you got Tim Ferriss’ rules of commenting on blogs.
I didn’t know you read that blog too.
Off-topic David, but have you applied 4-Hour Workweek principles in your work and life?
Excellent Point David, if you notice the men that aren’t very attractive but are famous attract women. I believe it is because of the excitement/energy factor associated with those people.
Hey Dave!
Great Blog entry! I agree 100%
Women are subconsciously looking for a naturally attractive man, someone who is confident and relaxed, feels good in his skin and has a positive energy, as you said.
The chest in my experience is a very important area for this ¨being open¨ to women… if this is closed and shut down… it will portray that quality about them. This will not attract women.
Unfortunately this position is made worse by sitting at a computer all day.
Keep up the good work
Looking forward to reading more
Cheers
Rob