Having a lifestyle of no strings attached partners are great when you have a “roamer” type of lifestyle. If what you value most is freedom, variety and sheer carnal pleasure, FWBs are great.

That’s what David encourages. Whatever lifestyle you want to create for yourself, go do it. The fact that you managed to create a stream of FWBs for yourself is respectable.

However, for most guys, having “superficial” relationships is never a long term solution to happiness. When you commit yourself to something, when you allow yourself to go deeper in anything (whether it’s a hobby, a particular discipline or a woman), you start discovering more about yourself.

You start understanding the deeper meaning of things. That’s how you get emotionally fulfilled.

How can you develop true emotional connection… or better, how can you develop real intimate sensual intimacy with someone if you don’t have the trust and respect of a commitment?

For sheer “fucking” pleasure, FWBs are great.
For deeper sexual fulfillment, committing to one woman allows you to build that respect and trust in which she can surrender herself to you in bed.

Life itself is a GRAND commitment. The quality of your life is based upon the series of commitments you make within it. When you fail to commit in any area, you are just cheating yourself out of your ultimate goal.

Back from the farmers market. No numbers, but didn’t even want to go there with anyone today. Had tons of awesome interaction with vendors. Made a few of them go from business as usual to smiling and joking, from the interaction I guarantee a few of them will remember me when I stop by next time.

I have the opposite problem. I don’t have any problem with storytelling, in fact I tend to go on and on with too many details and irrelevant asides. I just need to find that happy medium to keep things interesting but not boring.

Jessica – That is awesome. I would do the same, but my apartment isn’t very suited for hosting people. How does one go about getting invited to one of your dinner parties.

no problem man. Even its this early since I have it I find it intriguing.

My goal is to spend like 15 minutes a day just on writing this journal.

My other goal is that things from section “What are my challenges/fears to overcome for tomorrow?” I want to put them on my ToDo list for the very next day and just do it! The more mistakes, the better.

So now I try to improve my storytelling skills like Khiem and David suggested in previous blogs and its funny because it makes me think about it since I found it as a problem yesterday so its a challenge to try it today.

Have fun with it!

Brad – Let them go.. who cares if they have BF’s. Have you ever watched the video on Dave’s youtube site where he talks about the “walk-away”. If you haven’t go find it now and do it. The walk away is awesome, even if it doesn’t work it is absolutely empowering to just walk away not caring. After you do it once or twice it becomes a way of life. Acting like you don’t care soon turns into not really caring which makes you more confident. Just turn around and walk away. If either of these chicks is interested they’ll find a way to follow and keep the door open with you for that day when they break up with their loser BF’s.

I’m off to the farmers market to get some fresh produce… oh yeah and scope out some sweet honeys.

play it cool and tell them how lucky their bf are to date such great girls. They notice that, and from time to time ask how their bf are doing and observe the response.

Its funny because I started my own journal just a day ago! Im just playing with it and it seems a lot of fun

My content of the journal is this:

What can I learn from today?
What were my “little” wins today?
What are my challenges/fears to overcome for tomorrow?

My goal is to keep this journal

What is the content of yours journals folks??

Be all great. S