Comments on: What Is Your Biggest Enemy?

By: Joe

Joe — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 03:27:15 +0000

after all it is my biggest enemy lol

By: Joe

Joe — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 03:26:47 +0000

Kim – Good advise. I am using my job as a stepping stone. I really hope not to be there my entire life.

By: Mario

Mario — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 01:32:56 +0000

Rick my mindset right now is that I could have any girl in my life no matter what. But for some reason I just can;t make it my true mindset. Somewhere inside of me I still feel fear. I want to believe I have the right mindset but in reality I don’t. I have to change that. I need to realize that “hot girls” are exactly the same as “ugly girls”. I have to realize that they are also insecure.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 01:08:16 +0000

Frank, It’s just a term us men throw around when we see a woman we are attracted too,but what I think is hot and what someone else thinks is hot may be 2 different looks. My version of “hot” is face features,I can see past the make up and hairdo. What I look for is Is she a brunette? Is it long? What shape are her eyes? (I don’t care what color they are) Does she have full lips? Is she thin? People should say “wicked cute chick” instead of “Hot” You see alot of wicked cute chicks in the summer

By: Frank

Frank — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:51:16 +0000

After reading these other comments I think that with some of you that your biggest enemy is yourselves. I keep seeing the phrase “hot chick” over and over. So men are hardwired to seek out a woman of beauty. Since we are hardwired for this, who is to say that this to our benefit. Most “hot” women that I see these days are nothing more than makeup and a hairdo.

This may come as a shock to some but women like men that like women, period. That quality is attractive to women. I love the female spirit,young or old and I do not differentiate between “hot” or “non-hot”. When you have this attitude you will definitely get much better results. Some of the girls that I have the most fun with would probably be deemed as not hot. But who cares, they have a great spirit and that goes a long way!

By: Dave

Dave — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:42:16 +0000

My biggest problem is myself, or the eight-pound grey matter object between my ears, I over think, over analyze, then either under act or over act. I may say the wrong thing, or say it at the wrong time. To distill it down, I get caught up in the moment, and then over criticize myself when I fail or do achieve the desired outcome.
I think this blog entry hits it square and true; the success I have had was because I believed in myself and allow the skills, smooth emotion, and energy just to flow. I have studied a lot about dating, women, relationship, and behavior. Mr. Wygant is helping forge all of the things that I knew and new ways of thinking and behaving into a very confident, relaxed, calm, and funny person that gals will and do love.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 00:18:00 +0000

Drew,it’s not like she’s never been asked out before,I know it’s not easy, I used to be the same way.I’ve seen videos of David saying “Be a man and walk over to her!” But he used to do the same thing we have all done.Chicken out. Would be nice if women would approach,They have but very rarely.

By: Drew

Drew — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 20:31:28 +0000

Thanks, Kevin. I also feel that, but I just have to get over that fear. It’s not easy.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:01:57 +0000

Drew, You don’t know if you don’t try. You don’t have to be this super hot guy for a women to like you,just keep the conversation flowing and she’ll open up,If she shuts you down…Fuck her! Approach someone else…I mean you can send a 100 IMs to women online looking for phone sex without blinking an eye if they don’t respond back,why not do that in real life with approaches? If I see a super hot girl, I have to approach or at least say something…I just have too,if she doesn’t stop to talk at least I tried.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 16:55:07 +0000

Coach Jacob and Kim- I don’t think you understood what I was trying to say, I have no problem approaching hot women and talking to them,that’s not the problem,She’s no better than anyone simply because I think she’s pretty. What I’m finding is that alot of them are extremely shy and either don’t have a personality or it takes awhile for that personality to shine through.But it gets very frustrating when they shut you down so quickly then they complain they are still single. lol