Comments on: What Is Attractive? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:04:26 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: victoria http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19801 victoria Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:24:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19801 Hey Kris, at least in my eyes, I can tell the differences wether a guy is being social or he is trying to get attention. Hey Kris,

at least in my eyes, I can tell the differences wether a guy is being social or he is trying to get attention.

]]> By: SuperVixen http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19795 SuperVixen Tue, 18 Nov 2008 07:57:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19795 There is no formula for being attractive because there are many attractive qualities, and tastes for everything. To me, a shy guy is extremely attractive. He seems introverted, deep, and mysterious, and that sparks my curiosity. Just because someone is shy it does not make them unattractive. Anyone can be comfortable in their own skin being who they are, without fitting within any particular parameters of attractiveness. There is no formula for being attractive because there are many attractive qualities, and tastes for everything. To me, a shy guy is extremely attractive. He seems introverted, deep, and mysterious, and that sparks my curiosity. Just because someone is shy it does not make them unattractive. Anyone can be comfortable in their own skin being who they are, without fitting within any particular parameters of attractiveness.

]]> By: Kris http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19771 Kris Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:36:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19771 I disagree with Kath and victoria. As a female in a room, if a guy shows he's comfortable in his own skin and attracts people just by being himself...that's attractive. He's not necessarily flirting and working the room. He's being social and that's totally different than trying to be the center of attention. I disagree with Kath and victoria. As a female in a room, if a guy shows he’s comfortable in his own skin and attracts people just by being himself…that’s attractive. He’s not necessarily flirting and working the room. He’s being social and that’s totally different than trying to be the center of attention.

]]> By: victoria http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19761 victoria Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:42:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19761 I agree with Kath! She said what women thought about men and what we expect from men! I don't want a social butter fly who tried to get all the attention like an idiot and embarrass the hell of me! Being confident makes a man attractive. Women can quicky pick that guy up. Trying too hard just means you are hiding something... Most attractive quality to me is being whom you ARE! We all have some qualities makes us attractive, which we should make it more visible to others. I agree with Kath! She said what women thought about men and what we expect from men! I don’t want a social butter fly who tried to get all the attention like an idiot and embarrass the hell of me!

Being confident makes a man attractive. Women can quicky pick that guy up. Trying too hard just means you are hiding something…

Most attractive quality to me is being whom you ARE! We all have some qualities makes us attractive, which we should make it more visible to others.

]]> By: gene http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19747 gene Sun, 16 Nov 2008 06:32:45 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19747 Years ago I was at a bar and there was a beautiful girl there by herself, every guy in the bar was hitting on her. I asked a friend about her and he told me that she just came in drank and watched but no one was able to get close to her. So I being so dumb just every once in a while bought her a drink, I didnt approach her or try to talk to her after about 3 hours she was sitting with me and I took her home. We saw each other for several years but for some reason we never got serious. I am shy around people I dont know and sometimes find it difficult to meet new people and I dont go to the bars anymore. Cant deal with drunks anymore!!!!! No patience left for jerks. Years ago I was at a bar and there was a beautiful girl there by herself, every guy in the bar was hitting on her. I asked a friend about her and he told me that she just came in drank and watched but no one was able to get close to her. So I being so dumb just every once in a while bought her a drink, I didnt approach her or try to talk to her after about 3 hours she was sitting with me and I took her home. We saw each other for several years but for some reason we never got serious. I am shy around people I dont know and sometimes find it difficult to meet new people and I dont go to the bars anymore. Cant deal with drunks anymore!!!!! No patience left for jerks.

]]> By: Fleance Chew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19720 Fleance Chew Fri, 14 Nov 2008 18:38:46 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19720 Hi David I absolutely agree with you, mate! To start talking to anyone in our vicinity not only makes you appear more attractive but it will also help one to warm up his/her observation muscles on a personal level...So no more excuses for guys/gals for lost of words when it comes to approaching anyone they would like to meet the first time... However I would have to add in response to Kath...I believe the message which David is trying to portray is towards the extremely shy guys/gals who is looking for answers in being more outgoing and hence being more attractive...this surely does not mean that one is oblige to be babbling off one's mouth 24/7...it is more about one being comfortable in one's own skin and being able to want to connect with others...if you've hung out with David, I'm sure you won't find him babbling to all which he sees all the time (most of the time he would)....again...each to his/her own...there are always someone for everyone...there's the one who is confident and less talkative and there are also the ones who are quite and less confident and appearing creepy.... Hi David

I absolutely agree with you, mate! To start talking to anyone in our vicinity not only makes you appear more attractive but it will also help one to warm up his/her observation muscles on a personal level…So no more excuses for guys/gals for lost of words when it comes to approaching anyone they would like to meet the first time…
However I would have to add in response to Kath…I believe the message which David is trying to portray is towards the extremely shy guys/gals who is looking for answers in being more outgoing and hence being more attractive…this surely does not mean that one is oblige to be babbling off one’s mouth 24/7…it is more about one being comfortable in one’s own skin and being able to want to connect with others…if you’ve hung out with David, I’m sure you won’t find him babbling to all which he sees all the time (most of the time he would)….again…each to his/her own…there are always someone for everyone…there’s the one who is confident and less talkative and there are also the ones who are quite and less confident and appearing creepy….

]]> By: abdo shuker http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19718 abdo shuker Fri, 14 Nov 2008 18:11:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19718 Hi!!!! Mr. David W. yesterday my comment not finshed if you like it this is time i will start read it our countery if you making after finshe must you need water butmy king is best don't think like another no his differnc my king is if you making not water more food not enogh so not .friend Mr. david you know my king you think how many inch i tall you your finger smoll one like that caming nice Hi!!!! Mr. David W. yesterday my comment not finshed if you like it this is time i will start read it our countery if you making after finshe must you need water butmy king is best don’t think like another no his differnc my king is if you making not water more food not enogh so not .friend Mr. david you know my king you think how many inch i tall you your finger smoll one like that caming nice

]]> By: Khiem http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19711 Khiem Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:24:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19711 I love what you write, David. Being positive is the universal attractor. However, I feel that some people mistake being positive with being social. You don't have to be the guy working the room to get attraction. Working the room helps but as long as you look like you are happy, that you smile, that you are obviously enjoying yourself, people will respond in kind to you. So it's OK to be lazy and not talk to everyone ALL the time, but it's definitely good to be open and friendly no matter what mood you feel in. I love what you write, David. Being positive is the universal attractor.

However, I feel that some people mistake being positive with being social. You don’t have to be the guy working the room to get attraction. Working the room helps but as long as you look like you are happy, that you smile, that you are obviously enjoying yourself, people will respond in kind to you.

So it’s OK to be lazy and not talk to everyone ALL the time, but it’s definitely good to be open and friendly no matter what mood you feel in.

]]> By: Tee http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19710 Tee Fri, 14 Nov 2008 15:12:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19710 It's simple law of attraction stuff.. Positive energy attracts positive energy... Just need a reminder every so often. It’s simple law of attraction stuff.. Positive energy attracts positive energy… Just need a reminder every so often.

]]> By: Kath http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/what-is-attractive/1095/#comment-19707 Kath Fri, 14 Nov 2008 10:14:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1095#comment-19707 I understand what you're saying, David. Still, I would never write off a guy just because he doesn't "work the room" when he's at a party. I think people talk way too much anyway. In fact, if I were single and I saw a guy standing alone at the bar, quietly enjoying his drink, I would probably walk up to him and start a conversation. Some women are attracted to guys who don't feel a need to throw their words out 24/7. A guy who I would see talking to every person in a room would not be attractive to me as a possible mate because I would see him as a player and someone who wants to entertain everyone all the time. Imagine living with someone like that. Must be so energy-demanding. He is the kind of guy who's probably great at attracting casual sex-women, not women who are interested in a serious relationship. I think it's perfectly okay to not smile all the time, that's normal. And yes, some guys do have a closed body language because they're more introvert; but that's okay too, they will get approached by a different kind of woman than a guy who focuses on becoming attractive to the entire world. I understand what you’re saying, David. Still, I would never write off a guy just because he doesn’t “work the room” when he’s at a party. I think people talk way too much anyway. In fact, if I were single and I saw a guy standing alone at the bar, quietly enjoying his drink, I would probably walk up to him and start a conversation. Some women are attracted to guys who don’t feel a need to throw their words out 24/7.

A guy who I would see talking to every person in a room would not be attractive to me as a possible mate because I would see him as a player and someone who wants to entertain everyone all the time. Imagine living with someone like that. Must be so energy-demanding. He is the kind of guy who’s probably great at attracting casual sex-women, not women who are interested in a serious relationship.

I think it’s perfectly okay to not smile all the time, that’s normal. And yes, some guys do have a closed body language because they’re more introvert; but that’s okay too, they will get approached by a different kind of woman than a guy who focuses on becoming attractive to the entire world.

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