Web Cam Rules
July 19, 2007 
15 Comments
If you are someone who has trouble with sex then I suggest you stop reading this right now.
Recently a female client of mine was on match.com. This man emailed her, and they decided to IM each other that same night. After a few IM’s, he asked if she had a web cam. You know what’s coming next…
When the web cam popped up on her computer screen, there he was: buck naked and stroking his Johnson!
Men, this doesn’t turn women on!
Pictures of your penis and pictures of you stroking yourself, without the proper mental and verbal foreplay, will make a woman think you’re the caveman from the GEICO Insurance commercials.
In order to relate well to women, you need to understand that they don’t see a naked man and say “Wow! I need to have that right now” without the proper mental foreplay. If you want to meet a woman online and get some quick sex, then you need to understand that writing and IM’ing lots of subliminal messages is what will get her more turned on and increase your chance of some great phone sex and real sex.
She’s seen many boners. She wants to know that the man behind the boner is worth getting to know. So in order to become the intriguing ‘man behind the boner,’ you need to take your time with any type of phone sex, cyber sex or just plain old seduction.
I would go for the old plain seduction! All this cyber crap… I don’t trust it at all. Cheers!
Yes what is up with cyber sex? Masturbating in front of the same computer you work on all day.
Something is not right with that.
If you are going to do cyber sex you will need a computer just for sex acts……The whole point of this blog is get people off the masturbation course and meet the real thing!!
David, I love you and I love your blog! I work in computer field. Sometimes I am using a desktop computer and two laptops at the same time! How romantic can be that? And now I am looking for love on the Internet! So, who do I meet? Men who can
LOL. David you are one of a kind! Love it! Jessica, “Always Talk To Strangers.” has helped me to do just that!
This is why I hate the thought of internet dating—period! I was looking around just for fun one night late looking for a dream man. That search turned into the nightmare from hell! I saw what looked like rapists, child sex ofenders, lusty old men who even with Viagre couldn’t keep a stiffy! YIKES!!! Forget it.
I do have to say one good thing came of a web cam. On this blog one day, you were all there on “Cougar Day?” a guy named Jacob came on and asked where he could find me. He had been a “voyer” of the blogs on his lunch hour for a long time. I took his email and we exchanged pictures. When I got his pictures, I said bulls*&%! I told him no way, c’mon. Be honest with me. These pictures were of a HOT, tan, ripped abs, laying in a tanning bed on one of them–the works! You can see where I was doubtful. Well, he came on a web cam! NO he wasn’t butt ass naked “stroking his johnson,” but he was all the pictures and more! We talk on the phone for hours at a time, T-Mobile to T-Mobile yes! You can read his comments and pretty much tell the kind of guy he is. The more I get to know him, the less afraid I am to get to know him. There is a 13 year age span between us and a lot of miles, but its all good, SOOOO web cams can be a “mighty fine” thing! This blog is the bomb David. I would love to see a book entitled, “Man Behind The Boner!” And no I won’t write that one. lol I will leave that to you. I never had a boner before so thats where i draw the line. LOL LOL Great night to all!!!;))))
yes! what is going on with this! i’ve had many friends and aquintances run into this. men sending pics of there “wee one and bollocks” or men on web cam or dating site. this what i find distressing about online dating. remember lads a few bad apples rotten the bunch. and i have to agree with what joan mention also , i’ve try internet dating and from my point of view, i think it’s shit. most if not all of these people need to read david’s book i much prefer going out and meeting people.
Cheers,
Joe
Internet dating can be fun but most people tend to lie quite a bit on their profiles.
Shaving a few pounds off.
Shaving a few years off.
Posting a picture that is 10 years old.
You have to embrace yourself and not stretch the truth online. The person you are flirting with will expose the lies when you meet in person.,
Its always better to be upfront with people from the start and build a foundation based on truths then to go back in time and have to explain the reasons behind the lies.
I don’t internet date, but that statement is toooo true David. My friend has done that stupid stuff in the past with the pictures. I just have to laugh, because if you are going to meet the person, why start off with lies?? I personally hate myself in pictures because I am not photogenic in my opinion. I look like a totally different person in real life. I guess everybody does in a way, because you are seeing the real persom and not a still shot of them.
Posting old pictures is the start of a chain of lies. My grandma used to say, “Don’t ever lie sweety, because one lie leads to another and pretty soon you forget what you are lying about.” I embraced those words through my life, along with many other of Grandmas words of wisdom. Never fail remedies for life!
well internet dating to me is all about looks. lets face it the first thing you do when you click on someones profile is check there pictures out, not read what they have to say. i’ve been on many dates, where i know that person i’m with probably wouldnt have given me a chance or a glaze if i posted online. i dont know what it is, i just think going out and starting a conversation with someone, counts for more. that person might say ” hmmm, he kind of attractive, but what really got me was the his confidence,and our conversation” maybe i sound naive but to me personally and confidences count more then looks in my book. and i’m a guys so it take how you like lol
cheers,
JOE
david i like to add what you said by that said i find that most people on the internet dating sites are the ones you talk about in your book, you know the ones trying to pick someone up at a bar or club/disco on a friday/saturday night or getting hit on. some think they can just make a laundry list of demands/qualities and all of a sudden that magic person will response. people online are not open minded, in my opinion and thats there down fall.
you know and i know you have to put yourself out there and work at it. i’m sure the internet is great for some, but what i’m saying david most of these people out there dont know what we know. that dating is an art, it a numbers game and practice makes perfect
Cheers,
JOe
Good point Joe. It is all about practice and putting yourself out there on a limb willing to take a chance and fail.
The internet is good for some but most people on the internet hope that this will be the easy way to meet women,
But i find it more time consuming and almost painful. If you see someone you are attracted to in public you already know what she looks like.
On the net you have to hope you have chemistry in person and hope that they look like their picture.
Way too much work….now i have met some cool women on the net and it is fun to dig around late at night some times and shop online….but i always prefer face to face.
exactly, your right on the money there david. i dont know what the big deal with failure david and the fear of failure. depending on the circumstances failure is a learning experience. cheers,
Joe
This is funny because its true. I’ve made posts on various websites and gotten the men who send me naked photos or want me to come over for sex immediately. It doesn’t even make sense!
A good friend of mine is always talking about mental foreplay and it is an art that seems to be overlooked by some men. “The man behind the boner” *lol* I’m still laughing at that.
I teach men the art of mental foreplay and some of them still cant grasp the concept.
I have a blog coming out that is all about how men love and think only with there dicks.
Catch that one real soon.
david, your my mate i appreciate everything you doing for people, but i do rescent that remark,
but only on a personal level. i do not think with my dick!, i understand men are vision and can be quite superficial when it come to dating.but what about the 10 or 20% that do not? i’ve there been many dates that i could of gotten laid by what i thought were attractive women, but i decided against it because to me all about personality and character and i’m not a fucking caveman. David here something new for you… take it and spread the word if you like. if it might help. what i call the three C’s Confidence,chemistry and common interests. these are more of what i look for in woman.
cheers,
Joe
Hey Joe
I am just like you…all about the 3 Cs.
There are quite a few men that act like cavemen….and for those men they will never understand nor experience the amazing feeling of connecting with a woman on a much deeper level.
You get it….I get it.
Now it is time to spread the word.
This is why i call people out on their shit… I want to cause emotion and get them thinking.
Great feedback and keep posting!!!!