Comments on: Walk Away When She’s Confused http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Jaime http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-792 Jaime Mon, 30 Jul 2007 05:29:11 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-792 My ex boyfriend had a similar song and dance with me. At the time, I thought something was wrong with me or that I hadn't done enough to get him to commit. But that wasn't it at all; he was at a shitty point in his life and came from a family that really wasn't emotionally expressive. He didn't know how to handle what I had to offer and it didn't matter what I said or did. He just needed to figure stuff out on his own. Tyler needs to do exactly as you suggested, David. Give her some space and be there to LISTEN. Not just to her but to himself. If he wants to wait on her to figure stuff out, he should (for awhile). But maybe this is a blessing in disguise and its time for him to move onto a woman who is ready for the love he has to offer. My ex boyfriend had a similar song and dance with me. At the time, I thought something was wrong with me or that I hadn’t done enough to get him to commit. But that wasn’t it at all; he was at a shitty point in his life and came from a family that really wasn’t emotionally expressive. He didn’t know how to handle what I had to offer and it didn’t matter what I said or did. He just needed to figure stuff out on his own.

Tyler needs to do exactly as you suggested, David. Give her some space and be there to LISTEN. Not just to her but to himself. If he wants to wait on her to figure stuff out, he should (for awhile). But maybe this is a blessing in disguise and its time for him to move onto a woman who is ready for the love he has to offer.

]]> By: darkpoet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-712 darkpoet Sat, 28 Jul 2007 15:54:08 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-712 totally agreed guys/gals, tyler needs to just walk away, not matter how much he feel for this woman. she need to find out what the fuck she wants in life and in a relationship, i've been through the same shit as tyler got a email similar when i was younger and totally naive in certain aspect of dating. he needs the find someone else... i dont want to be harsh, but fuck her, who needs that bullshit. dating is hard enough cheers, Joe totally agreed guys/gals, tyler needs to just walk away, not matter how much he feel for this woman. she need to find out what the fuck she wants in life and in a relationship, i’ve been through the same shit as tyler got a email similar when i was younger and totally naive in certain aspect of dating. he needs the find someone else… i dont want to be harsh, but fuck her, who needs that bullshit. dating is hard enough
cheers,
Joe

]]> By: Jacob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-711 Jacob Sat, 28 Jul 2007 15:48:44 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-711 Hey all. Yea, this girl has apparently been emotionally scarred somewhere in her past. She seems to have a strong fear of any kind of really bonding with any man. Yea man, Tyler needs to give her a lot of space. Definitely needs some healing time in her life whatever happened. I think everyone goes through this type of scenario in their life at some point. I'd say it is all part of the growing up process. It sucks but you make it through and find someone great! Got to get to training here so have a good one all. I'm out Hey all. Yea, this girl has apparently been emotionally scarred somewhere in her past. She seems to have a strong fear of any kind of really bonding with any man. Yea man, Tyler needs to give her a lot of space. Definitely needs some healing time in her life whatever happened. I think everyone goes through this type of scenario in their life at some point. I’d say it is all part of the growing up process. It sucks but you make it through and find someone great! Got to get to training here so have a good one all. I’m out

]]> By: Ari http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-710 Ari Sat, 28 Jul 2007 15:31:32 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-710 I agree with AZNY. Hey are you new by the way...lol. Anyways, it seems she is in that stage where she is trying to figure out who she is, what she wants, and THEN work on having a healthy relationship. I was in that stage. But I actually had a relationship at the time and I thought I would have to break it off in order to better myself. Well, here I am a better person and STILL in the same relationship. Some people need to break away, and some dont. But yeah, she needs time to figure it out, like write the pros and cons of keeping him around. LOL. Im semi-kidding. I need to stop putting me personal biz out here. HAHAHAH. Sike. I agree with AZNY. Hey are you new by the way…lol. Anyways, it seems she is in that stage where she is trying to figure out who she is, what she wants, and THEN work on having a healthy relationship. I was in that stage. But I actually had a relationship at the time and I thought I would have to break it off in order to better myself. Well, here I am a better person and STILL in the same relationship. Some people need to break away, and some dont. But yeah, she needs time to figure it out, like write the pros and cons of keeping him around. LOL. Im semi-kidding. I need to stop putting me personal biz out here. HAHAHAH. Sike.

]]> By: AZNY http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-709 AZNY Sat, 28 Jul 2007 15:07:10 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-709 Hard to tell what the history is between these two but it sounds like she is definitely confused about things. Seems like she is young and was possibly in past relationships where she let the guy make all the calls and never really developed her own identity or sense of self. If that Hard to tell what the history is between these two but it sounds like she is definitely confused about things. Seems like she is young and was possibly in past relationships where she let the guy make all the calls and never really developed her own identity or sense of self. If that

]]> By: Joan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/walk-away-when-shes-confused/67/#comment-698 Joan Sat, 28 Jul 2007 06:57:04 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=67#comment-698 Hmm. You don't have to answer me back for anything. I think you are so right in your response of how to handle it. You can tell by reading her email she is really confused! Hopeully she will chill out after a few days and she will realize love can happen again. I am a firm believer in if you have been hurt extesively, you need to take that time, BUT not dwell on past happenings. The past is the past. There is no going back, no changing it----what is done is done. Move on and try to appreciate someone wanting to be there for you. I can't believe that was put on Facebook. That is a pretty big arena to stage your private affairs, but to each his/her own. Hope the best for the both of them. Hmm. You don’t have to answer me back for anything. I think you are so right in your response of how to handle it. You can tell by reading her email she is really confused! Hopeully she will chill out after a few days and she will realize love can happen again. I am a firm believer in if you have been hurt extesively, you need to take that time, BUT not dwell on past happenings. The past is the past. There is no going back, no changing it—-what is done is done. Move on and try to appreciate someone wanting to be there for you.
I can’t believe that was put on Facebook. That is a pretty big arena to stage your private affairs, but to each his/her own.
Hope the best for the both of them.

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