Its Friday and I am about to start working with 11 guys who are in for the LA bootcamp.

One of the things we will be going over is rejection and how to overcome the fear of approaching. Here is a quick mindset tip for all of you to use this weekend.

Have a great Friday!!

David: Did you see me on the front page of the LA Times today? If you didn’t, too bad – you really would have been amazed at the article.

There was a big picture of me on the front page, and then this article about how I had approached some woman in Coffee Bean or something, and totally got rejected. On the front page! It’s unbelievable.

Just last week I was on the cover of People – I’m not sure where it was I was rejected last week – where was it that I was rejected and made the cover of People magazine? God, I don’t even remember.

And did you see that annoying supermarket flyer that comes in your mailbox? Did you see the one from Whole Foods this week? There’s a big picture of me, getting rejected on aisle seven. I can’t believe they actually took a picture of that!

Client: Alright, I hear what you are saying. But it’s kind of awkward if you run into them again or the people that were around, you know?

David: No. That’s the mindset. You’re NOT front page news. Nobody gives a shit and no one even noticed.

Like the guy next to us in Whole Foods just now? He knew I was flirting with the woman in front of me and he didn’t give a shit. He’s not going to say, “so you know that tall guy that comes in a lot and always orders food? Aw, he got rejected so badly today!” He’ll just look at me and think, at least this guy had the fucking balls to talk to her! He’s not even going to remember.

People are caught up in their own lives, so they are not going to remember that you got the heave-ho next to the salad bar.

Rey: How much you care about them is exactly how much they care about you.

Client: I don’t give a shit about them.

David: Exactly, and they feel the same way about you.

You see people get rejected all the time. When you go out at night, how many guys do you see get flamed?

And then when you go to bed at night, you’re not thinking about them getting rejected, you’re thinking about your own rejections!

So do you get the whole mindset about it? Your rejections are never going to be front page news!
Todays video is all about how to get a deeper understanding of how women think.

Today we learn all about why they do not approach guys.

To learn more about the way women think check out my Girls Tell All audio series.