This is probably something I’ve written about many times before, but I feel the need to express it one more time to all of you.

It’s so important not to go out with the intention to lie to get laid.

You see, all you’re doing is creating angry women and the world has way too many angry women to begin with. You’re hurting that woman just to get laid.

So if you are someone who feels he has to lie to get laid, then I strongly suggest you start to realize the one important lesson here: You actually can have sex a lot more by being open and honest and authentic.

Learning this Lesson

I have to admit, it’s a lesson that I never really understood in my younger years.

I’m going to take you back in time. We’re going to do a little time traveling today, so I can take you back to a time before I understood this important lesson.

I was in my 20s; it was the summer of 1987.

There was a group of us that set out just to have sex that summer. My friends Wayne and Mark and a couple other guys, I actually have no idea who they are today.

We set up a point system.

You can probably guess what the points were for – one point if you got laid, a quarter of a point if you made out, half a point if you got tit, three quarters of a point if you got a blowjob or got to go down on her.

I know, very childish. Men in their 20s should not be doing this. I’m well aware of that, but hey, you know what, we did. Shoot me.

Being the ultra-competitive person I am, I didn’t want to lose. There was no way I was going to lose to my friend Mark, to my friend Wayne, and to two other guys that I don’t remember.

The challenge went from Memorial Day to Labor Day. We had a point system and whoever got the most amount of points won. There was no prize. The winner just won. I guess it was for bragging rights, being the asshole who slept with more women over the course of the summer.

Well of course I won. I don’t remember the exact amount of points I had, but I know that none of the other guys were close to me, which meant that I was probably the best at lying and the biggest scumbag of all of them.

Lying to Get Laid

I thought the only way you can get laid back then was to manipulate, seduce. In fact, I thought seduction was manipulation.

I thought the more I lied, the more I told women how much I wanted them, desired them, and wanted relationships, even if I didn’t, the better. I was at least getting laid.

I’m going to teach you something in today’s video about authenticity and having sex and why you don’t need to be a scumbag like I was way back yonder in the 80s. Watch the video so you can find out how to have great sex without having to lie for it.