The Natural Approach By David Wygant

All over the Internet in all the “seduction lairs,” there seems to be a trend going on: It seems like a bunch of the seduction pick-up artist (aka “pua”) gurus who are well-known for teaching routines and tricks, are now claiming to be “natural approach” masters.

This is thanks both to Neil aka “Style” Strauss’ book “The Game,” (which by the way is a great read and an interesting story), and to Mystery’s show on VH1. But now it seems that some of you pua “gurus” are changing your “game,” and claiming to be natural approach coaches. For those of you in the industry, you know to whom I am referring.

C’mon guys! What are you really? You’re a marketer. You realize that the hocus-pocus magic tricks have been exposed to the masses and especially to women. Thanks to Neil’s book “The Game,” they are getting wise to your “game.” The pua’s and their magic trick routines are over-exposed.

So now the pua “gurus” who have been teaching, believing and pushing these routines are changing their tune. Their well-crafted sales letters are claiming that they are masters in the art of teaching the “natural approach” and that this was what they’ve been teaching all along.

It’s like part of a master plan: First we’re going to teach you all the routines . . . but in reality they are all about the natural approach. Is anyone buying this? Do I smell John Kerry flip-flopping here? These experts smell like a bad politician.

I’ve been a “natural approach” coach (and nothing else) since 1998. I have coached some of the most high-powered men in business and entertainment. I’ve NEVER taught hocus-pocus seduction tricks.

When I work with a client, I’m like a dating architect. Each person who comes to me has a unique and different situation. What I do is architect a unique plan based on each person’s individual needs and desires.

I’ve also through my audio coaching programs created products that address people’s individual needs and desires. I’ve never believed in the magic pill, one-size-fits-all, Wal-Mart style of dating advice. I’ve also never been involved in any of the “seduction lairs” or pick-up communities due to the fact that I disagreed with a lot of the principles on which they’re based and on which they operate.

When I work with a client, I create a lifestyle . . . not a game. Meeting, connecting with and engaging women is a lifestyle. Being able to connect with women on a deep level is what women desire . . . and it is the only way to really connect with them. When I have sex with a woman, we both made the choice. Getting laid is as easy as driving your car when you practice and understand a natural style of meeting and approaching women..

When I launched this blog on my site, I wanted to create a community of both men and women. I’ve coached women for over nine years, so I understand how they’re wired and what they want. None of these seduction pua guys coach women, so what do they really know about women except how to play their routine or their “game” on them?

I also know that some guys for some reason think that they need canned routines to talk to women. These are usually guys who have never talked to women, so they don’t realize that the canned routines are despised by women. They hang out in mens-only chat rooms hearing stories about other men. It’s like when you were a kid, and you had a tree fort with a big sign that read “No Girls Allowed!” yet all you would do in that tree fort was talk about how to get girls.

Maybe if when you were a kid you had invited a few girls into the tree fort, you wouldn’t be in the predicament you are in today. My online tree fort allows women to come in. I have women guest blogging on sexual seduction tactics from a woman’s point-of-view which tell you how to make a woman beg you for more sex. I also have free podcasts where I interview women about sex and dating. I do this because I believe that in order to have the best tree fort, you need to invite the hot, sexy women in there. Get out of the men’s club and join the co-ed dorm!

I admit that the natural approach takes more time to learn than a “game.” These pua’s have a much more quickly learned approach. But the only approach that has lasting results is the natural approach . . . unless you want to continue picking up and meeting young drunk girls or strippers. Once you master the natural approach, not only will you be making real connections with women, but you will have complete control over every encounter and women will start calling you.

I’ve created a lot of high-end coaching programs, of which I am very proud. I still work with private clients and I love it! I just do it on a case-by-case basis. If you are interested in my coaching services, get more information about it at https://www.davidwygant.com/coaching-men or you can email me at david@davidwygant.com.

Also check out a great Free podcast from my friends Jordan and AJ from Pickup Podcast. You can find the podcast by clicking here.

But now, I’m only taking on a limited number of coaching clients because my full attention is about creating the largest natural approach community on the Internet. This community will be a place where men can develop lasting skills through my products, my coaching and through twice-daily postings that are open to everyone who wants to read them. This community will also be a place where women also come for advice.

If you ask any woman which approach she likes better, she’ll laugh at the card trick guy and embrace the natural guy. She may sleep with the card trick guy once, but she’ll give the best sex of his life to the natural guy.

To understand how women are wired psychologically and to understand how to connect with them, you have to get them to trust you. This is why I’ve coached women for the last decade.

So for all the pua guys who are changing their marketing strategy and claiming to be the natural guy all along in order to sell you more products, I pose a challenge to all of you: Meet me anywhere, anyplace, anytime. No peacocking, no routines, no booze . . . just your brain and your tongue. Let’s see who can connect better with a woman.

I’ll take on any one of these pua “gurus” any day. Not only that, I can take any one of their students and in one hour teach them the natural approach so they’re connecting with a better quality non-drunken bar slut.

Let me ask you a question: Do you want to be known as a womanizer . . . a man who women believe is just a player? Or do you want to be known as a powerful man who all women desire and want to get to know? That’s the difference between the natural approach and the pua “game” approach.

So if you’re looking to learn a natural style of meeting women, are you going to learn from the guy who’s been teaching it the whole time or are you going to run to the John Kerry flip-floppers of the dating world . . . the guys who claim that this was their plan all along? I’m not looking for your vote, I’m just looking for you to help pass this message along and build the largest community of like-minded men and women on the Internet.

In the upcoming months, you’re going to see and hear about some amazing things. Keep your posts coming! Pass this blog along. If you’re one of the pua guys: Let’s meet, let’s hang, and let’s see who has the best skills out there. I’m always about a good challenge. How about you?

Todays video will really open your eyes to what natural game can really do.