How many times a day are you masturbating to porn? How many times a day are you searching free porn on the Internet? And if I told you that it’s going to kill any chance of you meeting a hot girl that you crave and desire, would you be able to stop, or is it an addiction?

I’m going to share a story with you about how I feel about porn.

I remember when I was 14 or 15 years old, and I was stealing my dad’s Playboys.

I enjoyed looking at the naked pictures. Who doesn’t?

I liked to read about what a woman was about, the centerfold, and I can tell you, that actually turns me on more than just the naked pictures.

It’s not that I even like seeing a naked woman. There was just nothing behind it, you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. And I felt that way at a very young age.

I remember my friend and I looking for my dad’s porn. We figured everybody had porn.

It was the 70s. We had a Betamax, and I found it.

I found it very deeply between the pajama box.

We put it on. It was called Swedish Erotica.

After about 10 to 15 minutes, I thought to myself, having sex looks like a lot of fun. But I don’t really want to watch strangers have sex. I tried porn several other times, and it never did anything for me.

I’ve gone to strip clubs, and every time I’ve been there, I’ve wanted to connect with the woman instead of having her dance on my lap or watch her grind the air on a pole.

Bachelor parties, the same thing. I’ve never been to a hooker, and I’ve never really got off on any of the things that so many man really enjoy.

Why do I tell you this? I tell you this because the best porn starts inside your brain. That’s right. Sex starts for women inside their brain, and if you can relate to that, if you can start it inside your brain, you can become more erotic, passionate, and become a far better lover than you’ve ever been.

Addicted to Porn

But we’ve become a porn addicted nation, world. It’s so readily available from sites like YouPorn and countless others.

Anytime you want a quick fix, you can look at the computer, check out some porn. There’s probably 700 categories, and you can literally go stimulate yourself, get off, and then get on with your day. Usually when I do a boot camp, 8 out of 10 guys are addicted to porn and masturbation.

And porn addiction is ruining any type of sex you’re having with women.

The more porn addicted you are, the less chance you’re really going to become a better lover because women don’t want fast, wham, bam, thank you ma’am type of sex.

They want to be slowly made love to with their minds, with their bodies. They love foreplay. They love to be talked to, and they’re very passionate.

Porn does not allow you to explore that. It doesn’t allow you to explore that side of who you are. If you’re addicted to porn, by killing your porn addiction, you’re going to start to get well.

You’re going to start to connect deeper with women at a far more emotional, sexual level. Check out the video for today, let’s put the porn aside and learn how to connect on a deeper level.