You know…

One of the things that makes talking to women so hard for a lot of guys, is they take themselves too seriously.

A lot of men are frightened to put themselves on the line by saying something funny or goofy. They always try some “cool” approach like they’re “The Fonz” from Happy Days (If you don’t know who he is, Google him.)

Stop being so serious guys. You can be strong and confident but still have a sense of humor. When you’re too serious you create intensity, and women pick up on it. They can even feel threatened by it. Don’t confuse speaking with conviction with coming across as someone who’s too intense. Relax, make a joke, and don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself.

Watch the video below and you’ll see what I mean.